Do you believe in Love at first sight?
By Crazy_Poster
@Crazy_Poster (751)
India
June 18, 2010 1:20pm CST
When I was in school, First time I fell in Love with a beautiful girl. It was like love at first sight but it is not a matured love. personally!I don't believe in love at first sight.But for some people it happens.i think that there is a one and only one person for us all, which is the right one.Some of us meet him or her, some of us not.Sometimes you get the right one but some accidents in life separates you and I strongly believe that love at first sight create infatuation not a love. If it has to be love,that it is a very rare case!!
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17 responses
@luisadannointed (4171)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
No, I don't believe in love at first but I do believe in Destiny.
I strongly believe by heart, that when a pure hearted person really believes and wait only for his other half, and sincerely and faithfully pray for it, God protect them and give them both strength not to be deceived by their emotions towards people where in some reasons they might infatuated by them.
God blind them until they are ready to see their other half and for the first time God will unveiled their eyes and let their heart beats so fast as their eyes locks to each others for the first time...where I think people often thought as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT where as for me its the sweetest fulfilled Destiny!
I think when people don't rush up things and always search for guidance in God, many people will experience this wonderful moment!
God bless you!
@Crazy_Poster (751)
• India
19 Jun 10
yes!! we all dont want to believe in Love at First sight but Can we control our heart/feelings, when we see beautiful/handsome girl/boy ?
what do you think?
@luisadannointed (4171)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
Hi there hope you won't get mad from how I see it -in my own opinion, we are just being infatuated by their looks, and as we meditate on it we thought we are falling in love, let's not forget that are minds are very powerful that when we don't control it we might create this atmosphere of being infatuated and often times we've been mistaken it by calling it 'love'.
And about those people whose claiming that they experience this 'love at first sight', I still believe that maybe the first time that they heart beats for this total stranger, I know its their destiny that is calling their very souls, and that what they feel and eventually as they learn to know each other..that is the time love grows, and when they finally decide to get married, i can strongly say that their love from one another has finally commit to one another. And only destiny can make it happen.
Love should not base in emotions but with commitment, because emotions can come and go,,,and we can't say I love you today tomorrow I might not feel it anymore, True love are base on true commitment, no matter how much you want to go, that commitment will never allow to do so, because love never forsake nor take people they cannot give their hearts fully.
God bless. Love makes me feel alive!
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
19 Jun 10
I do believe in love at first sight because i actually experienced it when i joined hip hop class. I was young (about 10 i guess) and i fell in love with this girl in my team. Sadly she didn't care about me the same way i did. She was the most beautiful thing i ever saw in my life and she was also kind to everyone including me. So i was in love the whole 7 years i danced and we even went to same high school. But she had a boyfriend so we didn't stay in touch. And with time i started hating her because no other girl was good enough for me because i knew what i wanted. She was always there when a pickle fell out of my sandwich or something like that
. I'm so happy i met another girl and have been with her for 2 years now
. I'm so happy i met another girl and have been with her for 2 years now 
@nottheleast (129)
• India
19 Jun 10
no i don believe in love at first sight.may be we shall get attracted to them at first sight but love can't come like a lightning in your life when you see a boy/girl for the first time.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
19 Jun 10
Love at first sight is a rare case but it is true. It happened to me also as i also fell in love with my girl next door. So i know how you feel. And i agree with you that it's an infatuation bu it maybe also love. But it can also be true love. 90% is infatuation the rest is love. Mine was infatuation also at first but even now i have the same infatuation. So i am in a confused state as i don't know myself whether it is love or infatuation.
@prettypriya (112)
• India
19 Jun 10
I believe love in first site... when i was finish my college life...
i was stay in home... Tat time i saw a one beautiful man... from that
time itself i fell in love with him... now i marry that man and live
with extraordinary joyness, love, caring.... in my life it is possible
and i believe... but in some of us life it is not possible... because him or
her didnt response to tat lovable person...
@prettypriya (112)
• India
19 Jun 10
I believe love in first site... when i was finish my college life...
i was stay in home... Tat time i saw a one beautiful man... from that
time itself i fell in love with him... now i marry that man and live
with extraordinary joyness, love, caring.... in my life it is possible
and i believe... but in some of us life it is not possible... because him or
her didnt response to tat lovable person...
@happymommy3 (2012)
• United States
19 Jun 10
Yes, I do believe in love at first site. Although I was only 17 when I met my husband I knew the day I met him he was the one for me, the one I would marry. Girls growing up, well I'm sure guys too, but they grow up creating in their minds that certain husband they'd like to have when they get married. When I met my husband he was everything I dreamed of and more. We've been together 12 years now with 3 kids and I'm the so happy and still so in love, even more now since the day I met him.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
19 Jun 10
This is a quite old discussion. Yet, I like to answer this. To me, infatuation is possible at the first sight. For it to develop into love, one has to meet the other again and again. What if you fall in love at somebody and can't see him/her again in life?
@cocozhi (80)
• China
19 Jun 10
for someone,Love of Infantuation may develop to real one . for me ,i believe in my feeling,Love at first sight ,sometime is Significant ,but the most Significant thing is Exchange,Not all love at first sight is fake and , all is not genuine.It's just 50-50.but the bad thing is that most relationships based on love at first sight dont last
@getbiswa2000 (5545)
• India
19 Jun 10
No. I don't believe in love at first sight. Thats mere attraction. Love is far more elevated thing than that. In order to love someone you have to learn what kinda person he is. Without knowing properly we don't even love Gods. But being attracted at first sight and then getting to know each other and then fall in love with each other is quite a normal process. Thanks
God bless you
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
19 Jun 10
Yes i do believe love of first sight. As i fell love at first sight once. Though it was not success but it's does not mean that it's not exist. It's exist and blind.
@reetu3 (262)
• India
19 Jun 10
i do believe in love but i didn't believe in love at first sight you can like somebody but you cannot love somebody in first meeting may be you like somebody at once but after knowing him better may be you didn't like him at first sight you can only see outer beauty not inner beauty
@pinoyblogger (397)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
There are different forms of love. And I believe in love at first sight.
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
18 Jun 10
I believe in all forms of love.Even the craziest ones.I don't think that these things are just empty soap bubbles.But for each of us love is different.
If I don't believe in a particular form of love, this form doesn't exist in my life.I don't believe in love without passion.I call it a boredom.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
18 Jun 10
I have always been a romantic at heart. I believe in love. True love is a gift to treasure always. I don't think I believe that there is love at first sight. I would call this infatuation or a crush instead.
