Terrorists and the mothers who love them

@laglen (19759)
United States
June 21, 2010 9:38am CST
I watched a little news clip about the mothers of one of the terror suspects from New Jersey. She said her son is not a terrorist. He has mental problems. ya think? This led me to wonder what I would do if my child was arrested for terrorism. First and foremost, I will always love my child - unconditionally. I think in a situation like this, I would keep my mouth shut but still support my child. I do wonder though if her son had mental problems,. why she hadnt gotten him help. What do you think? How do you think you would react?
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@epicure35 (2814)
• United States
22 Jun 10
Anyone who does wrong has "mental problems" of some sort, because, as you know "the battle is in the mind" for choosing between good and evil, and there Satan attacks our thinking and is the author of confusion with his lies, rationalizations, deception, and evil of all kinds. "As a man thinketh, so is he" means so many things and here it means also that all of us need to guard our hearts and minds, and "renew our thinking" to be in accordance with God's word. Scripture says God hates violence and violent men. At the "human" or emotional level, of course, we always love our children. But because of that very love, given to us by our Lord and Savior who loves us so unconditionally that the greatest of all sacrifices was made for our benefit, we must not be remiss in remembering that love chastens and corrects, trains and disciplines and does not confuse excuse with consequence. While I cannot speak directly to this particular case, I know of many parents who had to make the difficult decision to let their child suffer the consequences of their own wrongdoing; some even reported them to the police in the first instance. I think that's the right thing in the long run. We still love the sinner, but hate the sin. I think we need now to be really careful about the meaning of the word "terrorist", since a terrorist traitor in the White House has redefined the word for us, using euphemistic designations for those who gladly lop our heads off, while calling grandmothers and the military "terrorists". Speak of "mental problems"!
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
23 Jun 10
lol good point! In all seriousness, if my child was a danger to them selves or others, I would turn them in as well. Like you said it is the right thing in the long run!
@laglen (19759)
• United States
23 Jun 10
You are right Epicure and thank you for mentioning that. Any sacrifice we make still is nothing close to what God did for us.
@epicure35 (2814)
• United States
23 Jun 10
Dear Laglen, Life is sometimes so hard because we make it so. But God is so good and is our refuge, our high tower and an everpresent help in times of trouble.
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• United States
24 Jun 10
Now a days you never know what you would do in there situation. I know with Kathryn being my only child right now that i would probably do what ever I needed to so that my child could be protected. On the other hand i wouldn't want to be taken in on act of treison.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
25 Jun 10
you can still love them and turn them in.
@piya84 (2581)
• India
22 Jun 10
@Laglen I think thats quite common for any mother to be in denial mode for sometime till she believes his son is really terrorist.Many times people do have multiple sides to their personality where friends and family member know one side and other side which is dark remain unseen.So they do get shock when sometime like this happen and they find it difficult to accept.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
22 Jun 10
good point piya. Denial is a very real issue here. I think I may try to deny as well.
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
21 Jun 10
If he had mental problems, she should have gotten him professional help, before he went off on the deep end. As a mother, I would still love him...but I'd be disappointed as he**. I don't think I'd have a comment for the media either.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
21 Jun 10
silence is golden. I can understand a mother defending her kids but dont make a fool of your self.
• United States
21 Jun 10
I can't imagine how horrible it would be to know that my son was a terrorist who tried or who actually did hurt innocent people. I would also continue to love him but I think I would go away and hide out somewhere because you know how the press is and I don't think I could deal with that along with my own personal pain. I think this mother should have tried to get help for her son if she thought he had mental problems, too.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
22 Jun 10
I agree and I would be hiding out with you. But like a poster said above, she may have tried to get him help...