"you don't have to understand, just look!"

haha =D YEah, thus there might be reasons for ple to be telling us that, because it's based on assumption, as well as their past experience?? haha =D NO matter what it is, as least we look, and try to understand, even if we fail to understand, we still get to learn something new ^_^ Who knows from there, our interest for it, might grow, and we will be the next noble peace award winner?? haha =D Right sexy mommy?!?!

that's true kun, some people makes things complicated by trying to find or look for more beyond what they see. hehe but its also helpful sometimes, coz through understanding and looking for more scientists was able to invent and discover new things...hehe

yeah,i think you are right,there my friend! if i take a closer look at it,it will make me confused cause i can't see things clearly,but if i just let it pass,then it will not affect me at all,right? what can you say?

Hi Mspitot, There might be some surprises in the picture after looking at it. But the friend was not able to explain it or guide our friend accordingly. She must be nice enough in giving the instructions!

yes cause showing those pictures with no understanding is i think useless.

msP,i guess,she just liked me to see those pictures but unfortunately i can't see clearly and since she just don't like to send me the file which is bigger size,i just understand what am i seeing.even if it is really hard to understand the picture. yes,it's nonsense if you may say so. but i also respect her privacy why she won't share with me the big size of it.so for that instance,i just understand what i am seeing. msF, i find your usernames funny,both of you have the same ms, well yeah,i guess she just don't like me to see that picture,but what is the use of sharing it,right? it's really nonsense.

hmm, so you ask her why she's showing that to you? didn't she ask anything after she showed that picture to you?

yes,it's kinda pointless to me also.but i still would like to understand what is really the picture she wants to show me. yeah,i agree that when you look at a certain thing it is automatically needed to understand it,or you just don't have the capacity to understand things when you look depends on your psychological thinking. yes,all of us have different interpretations when looking at things. but i think that she just don't want to show me the big size,so it's enough to have the small size.yeah,i can see it but i just hoped that i can understand the whole thing so i can make a good impression on it.

she's showing me what her brother and sister looks like but i can't see things clearly.she knows it,i told her so.but yeah,she don't want to send the file so i just let it pass.that's all.what can i do if she doesn't want me to see it clearly? i just kinda annoyed cause what's the purpose of showing it when you don't want others to see clearly?

I think your friend was just being impatient with you. Your friend may not think about things as much as you do and therefore just wanted you to look and enjoy looking for the sake of it and nothing more. The fact that you weren't clearly able to see who was in the picture makes it difficult for you or anyone else to look at it and just smile and say "it's nice." It's one thing not to understand what you're seeing but another to not be able to see what you're seeing.

hmmm,nice thought you got there,canellita! abstract shows different meanings for the ones who can see it. though the artist have their own interpretation on how the picture goes. it takes a lot of understanding to see what's really in the picture.but all i have from my friend is a picture of his brother,which i thought it was her. so i asked her,and gave a comment on it.though i really can't see the whole face how it looks like.i just want to understand it.

how can you say it's nice if it wasn't?hahah better say what you can see for them to understand what you are looking at.

You know sweetie, we will always have that problem. We won't get the same glimpse as others, no matter how hard we try. Next time, try to either glance or look.

cheers,my friend! some people just don't mind what they see,or what they are sharing for someone else to see. i think it's also in your own perceptions on how you take a good look at certain thing. just imagine,when you are walking on the street,you look at places or people but just a glance won't let you understand things clearly,right? it's as if my friend was saying that i just have to glance..not look!

ahahaha! well,i can say,i did glance and even looked at it close enough but yeah,as you said,maybe we just have different kinds of perceptions and interpretations regarding that matter.

It was something meant for that purpose, to understand by looking which I couldn't actually get the message. I've never seen it in the market anymore. Perhaps that speaks for itself. Thanks for the topic. It brought back a memory to share here.

yes,it's fun to remember things we've seen or experienced in the past,for somehow it would give us knowledge and made us think of what we are now.

some pictures really are hard to understand.well,those of like paintings is much harder to understand specially abstract ones you really have to concentrate and stare for minutes to identify what it's like. maybe the picture in your table calendar was not properly well taken.or it's just you that doesn't understand what it's like?

you have a point there,my friend.but what is the purpose of showing the picture when i can't see things clearly and asking me to comment on it.dear,i'm so confused?

yes,we have to understand things we are looking at cause without understanding we don't have mind at all!hehe

i just want to see how the picture really looks like.maybe i don't have to understand the whole picture but i want to see how the friend's brother looks like.she was showing me pics of her brother that time.the main reason why we are showing pics is because we want others to know what is there at the picture.then i thought it was her all of a sudden it was her brother.which makes sense when you really want to know what's the picture all about.

yeah,you are right.when it comes to looking at things there is really understanding needed.if you look then don't bother to see things beyond,what's the purpose of looking?it's nonsense!

so you mean you still have to understand right? every picture has details everyone must enjoy,even how good or bad it is,there's meaning to it.

hello there,yeah all of us has different perceptions with regards to looking things. but i'm just stating here is you have to understand what you are looking. for looking is always combined to understanding,right?

So you're like saying hearing is the same as listening? Looking isn't the same as understanding Anna... Here's my example: In cooking, you can just look at someone cooking Chinese food without understanding why it is being tossed, mixed in such a way... It's quite complicated to just even look at it that you don't really need to understand why... you just get so hooked on with the taste that you don't really bother to ask why they put this, why they do that, etc... when you ask with the how's and why's, that's the time you're trying to understand... Get it? :)

hi there,gail! you got me thinking there. i have read your post since you first post it,but i have no time to get back. i can say you really are right with what you have said. hearing is different from listening but still if you try to understand it,it's like listening also,right?all comes to understanding. what we see in front of us yeah,sometimes you don't need to understand but when it comes to your mind,it's like thinking and understanding at the same time. when you try to watch a cooking show,you carefully look at the details if you are really interested on it. but as i have said,when it comes to your mind,you may suddenly think about the thing you saw then that's the time you'll understand things. ok,i got your point there... but let's go back to my situation,i have this friend who shared her pics in her avatars in ym. yeah,and the pictures appeared small to me of course.that's why i told her i can't see clearly.but she hesitated to send me the pictures.so what can i do,since she is showing it,might as well look at it,then of course i am in the urge of understanding it cause it's my first time to see it.

how can you say that it's pretty if the picture isn't? you're like fooling people for that,i can say! for me,if i have nothing good to say,i just shut my mouth for no one to be hurt. but if it's my friend,i can talk to her in a nice way for her not to be hurt.

yes,i have told her what i can see and how my interpretation goes with that picture.but she was my friend and i want to understand what she was trying to share,cause someday we might know i would have bumped to her brother,where she was showing me the picture is her brother. as of now,i just can't figure the way how he really looks like in that picture.

yes,what's the use of showing it when you dont want to see the whole thing? by looking at a certain thing,you might as well understand it not just look at it.

exactly,my dear! what's the purpose of showing it when you don't really want to share it? i think if you are looking at a certain thing you automatically understand what it is.yeah,i guess my friend just don't want to share it out at first...

yes,by telling them that you don't understand it's easier to let them know that they won't expect good response.that's it!

yes,i know that! but what is the purpose of showing the picture when you don't want them to understand it? yes,it's just a photo of family members i think it's impolite if i just let it pass,right? i have told her that i can't see clearly but yeah,then i let it pass.

thanks for the wonderful thought there,my friend! i guess i just want to understand the details in the picture shown but since it's too small,my friend just want me to look at it,not understand the whole thing!

yes,it's better to understand things that we are looking at. when you don't want to understand it,it will also come to your mind,so there is always understanding to things. about pictures, my friend showed me pictures of her family members,i can't see clearly cause it's too small.but she don't want me to understand what's with the picture she is showing me.what do you think should i do? just let it pass,okay.then why do you have to show pictures when you don't want them to understand it?