Do you ever what happened to the people who was part of your life in the past?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
July 25, 2010 11:15pm CST
Today is such a lazy Monday, and I can't help but just wonder what had happened to the people who were part of my life way back when I was younger. I've been searching for them online, and found a few but most weren't there anymore. I don't want to contact them, just want to see what had happened to them. Do you ever find yourself in a similar situation as me?
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• United States
29 Jul 10
Sometimes I do wonder, but I don't follow it up. The people in my life now mean so much more. That was then, and this is now...
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
31 Jul 10
wise saying cobra. It's useless crying over spilt milk. Sometimes we do spend a lot more time crying over things that happened in our past, things that have hurt us maybe, relationship problems that we cannot change since a lot of time has passed. This is done at a cost. We end up not giving much importance to our present and our beloved ones.
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
26 Jul 10
Sure, I do some time. I got broke up with my boy friend and passed several years, but feelings still linger in my heart. Though I don't contact him but I am keenly searching for him in online and tried to collect informations but is useless. Ah! I am the loser, I could not fine him.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Hmmm... Well, he's a loser too for not trying to find you as well.
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Sometimes I do the same thing. I sometimes dream about people who where part of my life in the past and end up googling their names in the morning. Sometimes I hear a similar name or I remember an incident that makes me remember them and wonder what happened to these people. Sometimes, when these people are long lost friends whom I have not talked to for quite sometime, I try to contact them. I want to let them know that they are remembered. Just a few weeks ago, an old sumeer love called me on my phone. He got my number from facebook. We are having good conversations every now and then since the day he called.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
That is what I'm actually moved to do these days. I can't seem to find them anymore. The old 'flames'. Not really to stir the boat, but just wondering what has happened after a long number of years.
@Kabachu (31)
• United States
26 Jul 10
I know what you're talking about. About eight years ago my best friend moved from California to Arizona to North Carolina and I'm still over here in Cali. I haven't talked/contacted her in about five years and sometimes I just wonder how she's doing.
@greygoo (795)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
yes i have wondered a lot about my friends from primary school. i heard some of them weren't as lucky as i am. some of my classmates then have stopped attending school. i saw some of them when we were still in high school, but i'm in the university now and it seems some of them didn't get the same chance to proceed. when i went home to the province last may for a short vacation, i heard from my mom that she saw one of my classmates in the local department store. she was working there as a cashier. i also heard from someone that she has a child now.m(_ _)m i saw another classmate, a guy, and he was working in a donut shop. we talked and he seemed happy. i hope he really is. this is a chronic problem among people from the provinces--we don't get as much chance of proceeding to the next step after high school compared to those from the big cities. in the province, income is lower and educational institutions aren't as good. *sigh* maybe i'll try searching for the others online like you did. i'd really like to meet them again. they were a very special part of my childhood.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I think it's good to reconnect with people. Most especially those who were part of your life when you were young. You see, some of them would change, but some would stay true - but they would be shy to talk to us because our lives are far too different, and they worry that we'd not give them the time of day.
@swn_chik (266)
• India
26 Jul 10
Yes, I really want to know where my first love is and last time when i searched him on facebook I found him there and came to know that he is in India . I met him when I was in 8th standard but the irony is that i didn't sent him friend request or any message.I just wanted to know where he is and this much only.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Hmmm.. that is what I would like to do too. I don't want to ruin their lives or make known to them that I still exist. Somehow, I just want to see what has happened to him over the years.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
28 Jul 10
I have often found myself wondering about some of the people from my past. I have managed to re-connect with a few of them via FaceBook. Others, I have not been able to locate. I live in another state now, and I am married with a decent life of my own now, but there are still a few people from my past that I would like to find out where they are today and how they are doing...
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
27 Jul 10
I sometimes think about my old classmates and what they are doing today. It could be interesting to meet some of them and ask them about the lives they have today. Some years ago I met one of my old classmates in town, and he was still in touch with some of the others from my class. He told me a bit about them and how they were doing. I recently saw one of my old classmates in the newspaper, there was an article about her. It was interesting to read it. I haven't seen her for many years, but it was easy for me to recognize her on the photo.
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Hello laydee, oh, Hell YEAH! it is really keeping me from being too much active in mylot. actually been days already and i don't why. probably i ran out of motivation despite the fact that i have ideas here, some of them i have already forgotten. but i am trying to be active since i got nothing else left to do.
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