How do you and your parnter act with one another?

@Absinto (2385)
Portugal
August 6, 2010 6:36pm CST
For example, i am a person whose loves to smack my man around but in a playful way. We both are the same in that aspect. We don't really act like normal couples, like hitting each other in public or calling one another names, for us this is normal, for others we just look like to crazy people. Whats your opinion and how is your typical relationships like?
6 responses
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
I would say that my relationship with my man is also a bit weird. We are both crazy actually. We fight a lot of times and someimes call each other ugly names and act abnormally. But no matter how each party got hurt, we make up afterwards and things just get back to normal like no fight really happened. We call each other crazy and ugly all the time..but in a way of a joke. And a lot of my friends would really say that we are indeed two crazy people.
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@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
7 Aug 10
In my case its the same thing. But thy are so used to it that if we dont act in our normal way they think there is someting wrong with us :D
• Canada
7 Aug 10
Every relationship is different.. I like mine to be young.. and fun.. So mine is pretty much just like yours! Me and my boyfriend always hit eachother, push eachother, pull eachother around and whatnot. It sounds so violent when I say it like that but it's really not bad. My boyfriend would never hurt me, and I'm 100% sure of that. I don't think I could date a guy who doesn't let me do this to him.. I like being playful. I'm sure I sound like some crazy abusive girlfriend but I'm a pretty caring and gentle person.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
7 Aug 10
Like you said every relationship is diferent, we dont need to have those typical relationships that people see on tv or those that they think is ideal, we just have to be ourselves
• Canada
7 Aug 10
If we all had those Tv type relationships life would be too boring and predictable
• Portugal
7 Aug 10
My boyfriend and me are the same. People usually stare, since they think we are actually fighting. We find it amusing, we get along very well, and can talk for hours, but sometimes we like to act like kids! Most people won't understand but my friends who know both me and him think our relationship is awesome and suits us like a glove! I guess different people need different things in a relationship, they look for different characteristics in their significant others, and since they don't understand the dynamics of others relationships they just decide it's odd.
• China
7 Aug 10
Hi ,I think it is normal relationship for a couple . Do not care about others' thoughts . Just enjoying yourselves ! May be your behavior is infantile in others' eyes , but if both of you like that , it is OK . Do you think so ?
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
7 Aug 10
Well i dont think that its childish but it is a form of expressing love altough in a weird way
@Suke002 (311)
• United States
7 Aug 10
Your relationship sounds like how me and my boyfriend are. He'll insult me jokingly and I'll hit him and he'll keep me from hitting him. We just play fight and we'll fight over hypothetical situations too and it's just our way of loving each other. People think it's weird that we can go from yelling and crying to loving each other 2 minutes later. No matter what we fight about or how bad a fight we might have, we never break up. It's kind of crazy. lol
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
7 Aug 10
I think our way of having a relationship is the best. People should only break up if they see that it isnt working out or if one of them do something that they shouldnt have(cheating). Because when people do love each other they will always find a wa to make it work and be happy =D
@Suke002 (311)
• United States
7 Aug 10
I agree. lol I always thought it was weird how people just break up after a fight. A fight for us just means we're communicating and venting to each other and then feeling better and then loving each other all over again. lol It's weird but that's life.
@diogz22 (516)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
There are different forms where people shows their affection. Probably your way of being playful is the way you two shows your affection. You should not worry what other people will tell about your relationship as long as both of you are happy in that way. Then there should be no problem at that at all.