Heart Aches

Philippines
August 28, 2010 9:07pm CST
Why do people tend to broke your heart even in a simple way,it is because,you don't love her anymore or it is just you want to test the people surround you of how to handle problems?
9 responses
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
There are really some who are fond of playing other peoples feelings or sometimes they are unaware that what they have done can hurt others.
• Canada
29 Aug 10
That is so true....We still may hurt the ones we love but aren't aware of hurting them....
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
Love is equal to pain (heartache). When you give love there’s no 100% assurance that you will also receive love. Sometimes the person we love doesn’t love us the way we love him/her. Falling in love or simply loving makes us happy and contented however, pain and sorrow will always be there since life is not permanent. The happiness that we feel today may not be last forever because surely tomorrow is a possibility. I always believe that love is equal to pain and sorrow. Even we find our true love or soulmate still we encounter the pain in the future. We don’t tend to hurt someone especially the person we love and vice versa. But since we are just human that commit mistakes, we hurt them without knowing and controlling. There are some situation what we cannot control and end up hurting them. There are also people who doesn’t know how to love or afraid to love and because of this they keep hurting other people or us. Maybe they’re happy when he/she saw that we are hurt but surely at the end of the day the guilt is there and also the pain. Well, I guess it depends on how you believe and feel love. :)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
Well, not all people does this. There are just people who're not so sensitive on other people's feelings. Even i tend to do the same. All you have to do is state what my mistake is and i'll immediately apologize for that.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
5 Oct 10
Laughter is best medicine to all disease so as the stress. It will through the pressure in mind and lightens it and feel happy.
@len1415 (195)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
It is a lame, nonsense excuse to just intentionally hurt someone. But if one meant to do it on purpose, the One who is above all things will make him/her responsible for all his/her acts.
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
Not everyone just intend to do it. There are some situation or sometimes that person has no choice but do it for the sake of both party. But there are some people that breaking heart is just a hobby that they enjoy. Anyway there's a "karma" and cannot get away from it. Always remember that God is always there, and He has something best for you.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
29 Aug 10
Well in my case i've had my heart broken by the same man over and over again....But we also had alot going on in our lives and I know he didn't mean to intentially hurt me it just happened and we are starting a fresh and new life and hoping that we don't end up hurting each other again...
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
Sometimes we just have to. For example is if we fall out of love to our current partner. We have no choice but to break their heart since it will be very unfair to both of them to go on in the relationship. But there are some that are just jerk and just want to play with someone's heart. Those are the people that did not love their partners in the first place. They just want to get what they want and when they got tired they ditch them. tsk tsk
• United States
29 Aug 10
There is absolutely no excuse to inflict intentional pain. It is within a person nature to chose to hurt or be kind to others.