im inlove with my bestfriend/exboyfriend who is seeing another girl
By petiksmode
@petiksmode (2983)
Philippines
September 7, 2010 5:47pm CST
yeah i know that is not so right..but i really do and everyday i need to convince myself its not right but everyday my heart beats for him...
oddly he love me as well but dont know what to do with his 3 year relationship,,
i know this sound to b ithcy but i already shattered buckle of tears for this..
T_T
it is freakingly insane
6 responses
@rustyhalo (103)
•
7 Sep 10
you'r case is just like the same as my exgirlfriend. she say that she loves me but me i'm seeing annother girl. so sweet life don't you think?? ^^
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
do you love her back?
the thing about this guy is he is not only my ex but he is my bestfriend after we separated we remained to be good friends for 6 longs years..longer than our bf/gf relationship
@rustyhalo (103)
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7 Sep 10
my case is that the relationship between us was long then 8 years. so when separated i don't believe no more in love. so i don't love her back but i have some feelings through her :)
@asxenon (1440)
• Malaysia
8 Sep 10
Maybe you should widen your circles of friends and move life forward instead of dreaming that your ex will come back to you. If he really love you, she will need to settle things between his current gf first before anything else would happen. At the mean time, since he is not doing anything to break off his relationship with his girl friend. I suggest that you find your love somewhere else.
Good luck and hopefully u'll find your true love soon...
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
thats one thing i hvae lots of friends, there are others who show interest in me but i dont care about other guys :(
thanks i wish that too
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
Sometimes it's really hard to explain why we fall for someone who we should not be falling in love with...crazy thing called love.. emotions are sometimes mixed up as the heart beats faster causing your mind to think about the situation and just let the feelings draw you apart... i guess part of the psychological aspect of being in love is knowing the odds that makes the mind baffled creating a sense of wanting and being with that person..
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
yeah or could be the challenge of getting what you want the hard way :D
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
8 Sep 10
Wait I can't get it what do you mean he is seeing another girl then you said that he loves you as well?
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
he is with the girl for 3 years now...it was too late for us to realize that we still have somethign for each other
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
It is natural to still feel something for someone you have loved for how many years. But you have to open your eyes that he is with someone else. You have a life to live. The time you spent on thinking about that ex of yours might be an opportunity wasted to find someone who is right for you.
I know it's hard to move on, I have been in a 5 yrs relationship but just ended years ago. 
Yes it is painful, but we have to move on. Not forgetting the past, but learn and grow from it. So we can better handle any relationship you might have in the future. 
Yes it is painful, but we have to move on. Not forgetting the past, but learn and grow from it. So we can better handle any relationship you might have in the future. @petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
im not even inloev with hom years back just now i realize that i am really into him..
this is a pain in the neck everytime
