your bf doubts between love you or his ex, what do you do? break up or give time

love doubts - girl is leaving and boy wants to stop her ^^
Portugal
September 9, 2010 1:18pm CST
hi guys^^ if your bf/gf tells you that he is having doubts if really love you or if still love his ex what do you do? do you give him/her time for him/her to see who he/she really loves? or you break up right away? ^^ about me i would give him time bcs is normal that when we are in relationships sometimes people doubt about their feelings and he was honest so why not give him time? also if i love him dont want to lose him so at least we still can hope he choose us :) what about you guys? what you would do? please share^^
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@ree_yah (462)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
well.. i guess im letting him go... but before il let him go.. im going to make him feel how i really love him.. :) then time decides if we are ereally meant for each other... though id really miss him sooo much... but i guess thats life
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
If your bf came on confusion about his feelings, give him enough space to think by not being around him. It is not matter of letting him choose between you and his ex, but to let him be free of any confusion. Once he found himself then time to talk about the relationship and work things out together. If at the end, he founds from himself he doesn't love me but he willing to work the relationship with me, then fine i'll be open for that. Feelings gone for a period of time if you don't work out for it. Sometimes feelings develops in a long run.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
9 Sep 10
If a boyfriend is still clinging to thoughts of his ex, then he still may have romantic feelings for her. You have to know where you stand with him in this relationship. Give him time to show you how he feels. if you see his feelings are truer for his ex, it may be time to let him go. If his love is true for you, he will return to you.