When can you say that the friendship is finally OVER?
By jennbart
@jennbart (1330)
Philippines
September 16, 2010 1:37am CST
I think my friendship with another person would be over when I found out she has been betraying me on my back. Forms of cheating when I gave her my full trust. Spreading nasty rumor, or hitting on me below the belt or is way too personal. Or if I found out that the person just seem to appear to be friendly in times when they need me then, they always seem busy when I need them for support.
4 responses
@k1124n4ku (122)
• Indonesia
16 Sep 10
i would say that friendship is over if my friend hurting or betrayed me over and over again. i will forgive him if his mistake doesnt big or not do over and over again. cause friendship is a take and give to each other. so you can feel what the real friendship is all about. understand each other.
@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
I think my friendship with the other person is over when he/she doesn't want me anymore. Like he/she doesn't want to talk to me ever again! How can we be friends if we can't talk to each other or he/she doesn't want to talk to me. Forgiveness is through communication only. I really don't care what he/she did to me on the past since I have no guilt feelings. All i need him/her to do is come and talk. If he/she doesn't want our friendship then fine, it is over!
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
yeah, there are a lot of people in the world who you can be friends with anyway, so why wait for her to talk if the person does not like to talk anymore? With mine, I disses people who promises things to me then after sometime, KAPUT! they are gone, and they wont even tell you they are sorry for not being able to do what they promised. They wont just appear anymore, and will never talk to you ever. what is up with that?
@ania66 (78)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
Just like in any other relationship, Respect and Trust (together) is one essential aspect of Friendship. Hence, when you learn to disrespect or distrust someone for any reason that resulted from his or her actuations or dealings with you as a friend, then it won't be healthy anymore for the friendship to stay as is. Well anyway, the good side of the story is that in Life, People come and go! So, just 'move-on' and Peace Out! ;)
@winstonbaltazar (355)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
I experienced that too with the person I treat as my best friend. Eventually he's not on that idea too. For me our friendship is not over but the bridge that connect the two of us is like a guarded gate.
