Is Love Blind?

September 28, 2010 12:36am CST
When we are first in love, and during the first weeks or months or even years of our marriage, we must see our loved one as perfect, and we can tolerate no unpleasant feeling toward her or him. But as time pass by, unknowingly, if we ignore it little by little our relationship with our partner is getting miserable.
12 responses
• United States
28 Sep 10
I think that sometimes we are blinded by pure love. People can so quickly pass in and out of our lives, and it is not very often that you get that tingle in your soul about another person. Maybe it is the way they talk, or a vibe you get from them. Sometimes you can just sense a connection with someone and nothing can stand in the way of that feeling to you. So for me and I think others... Love Is Blind.
28 Sep 10
I think for some, love is blind because they never experience how to loved and be loved.
28 Sep 10
I think for some, love is blind because they never experience how to loved and be loved.
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
9 Mar 11
Yes love is blind.When you fall in love at first sight you are guided by the outward appearance and sweet talk.They are not the real nature of the person with whom you are going to live and share your happiness and sorrows.Outward looks are deceptive in many cases.You should study the inner nature which alone gives happiness in the long run..
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
29 Sep 10
Marriages are two types..love marriage which is prevalent in the west and arranged marriage which is prevalent in India and about other countries I do no know.In love marriages the boy and girl meet each other and after frequent meetings they decide to marry.But in arranged marriages parents or the care takers first see the boy or girl and considering so many aspects they decide and the the boy and girl see other subsequently and mostly they agree and sometimes they may decline. Subsequent to marriage only they start loving each other and develop mutual regard and admiration.In most of the arranged marriages why say 99% they get on together well till the end.Divorce is very rare particularly in India.After marriage both should develop mutual trust and respect for each other.Differences are bound to be there and they should be taken in sportive spirit by both.Mistrust leads to misery.Why mistrust when we have to live together day in day out..I wish and pray that every couple in this world be happy because life is short as we all know......
@ADMaroC (76)
30 Sep 10
Yes! I guess so. love is blind :) because there are some people who keep on loving the irresponsible people..while their are others who are good.. some people also dont look to physical.. but inside the person.. just like me i dont look to physical appearance i just want to know everything about him wether she is god or not! :)
@angel107 (307)
• Germany
28 Nov 10
Somewhat true. Because when you are inlove you tend to disregard other things and when the relationship is over. It is when you will see clearly what you have disregarded before.
@eson21 (19)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
We always say that love is blind,i guess it make sense,but for me i think lovers are blind because you see the person as he/she is,you accept him/her the way tgey look outside and what's inside i mean their attitude.no matter how she/he is,where she/he come from we love them as they are...well i was able to say this because i'm in a relation right now and i love him the way he is.i think the feeling you feel for each other is more important as long as you love each other.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Love is blind as what we can see about the person we love is all beautiful or good when to others what they see is maybe the opposite. That's alright anyway as long as we won't regret it. When the one one we love give us the importance and the gratitude of loving them the way they are.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 10
actually, love is blind but does not mean on it's blindness, you can ignore or abandon it. The feel of love remains to be nurtured, protected, cared for and nurtured continuously
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Love is GOD so why saying love is blind..? yes, it use to happen to most of us when we love someone that we consider the person as the most special one...and even many times people usually question us "WHY HE OR SHE?..." then they start saying " are you BLIND? " but the truth there is that we see but we doesn't mind and we understand... sometimes even the worst person in the world may can be the important person in our life,,... there's a quote that is related to this " LOVE covers our sin " HAVE A NICE DAY AHEAD.
@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
NO! I strongly disagree with this phrase. Love is NOT BLIND! It sess but it NEVER MINDS.
• China
28 Sep 10
Sometimes, sometimes, I'll believe everything has an end, Together to leave, there is time, Nothing last for ever, But I sometimes prefer not to let go ... nostalgia ...
@avic24 (57)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
As i speak to myself, I would say yes! love is blind. When I'm inlove, I usually listen to what my heart says I'm not into the appearance and one thing more I ignore what other people tells about him. I love the feeling of being inlove that it. :)