Friend invitation
By zearah
@zearah (5381)
Philippines
November 9, 2010 2:17am CST
Hello, I have more than twenty friendship invites.I check and observed that most of them have zero post.Whoa! If you are in my shoes will you accept them all even if they did not yet contributed to this site?
I am hesitating to accept them all.You know my reason.Kindly share your opinion.Thanks.
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14 responses
I am still in doubt to accept few invites here.You know why, about three months passed and yet still zero posts from these Lotters, hahahah@sujaysen (594)
• India
10 Nov 10
Yup, I have got $215.73 after donating to charity, but I cannot rate anymore. Because I was too much nervous in the test and I left the window for three times what they are saying. I think there is something glitch. But Mr. Bryan is really a gentleman and very helpful. I am grateful to him always. How much did you get there in October?
Yes, I agree with you. The lotters should be active before sending their friend request to be accepted. Ok, Zearah, please keep in touch. You can send me a friend request here and then I can give you my mail id in your personal message box. I cannot give it here openly lol. Have a nice day. Wish you all the best in TAD. Keep MyLotting.
I have been spammed and exploited.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 10
I will accept all of them since they are new, why not give them a chance to expand? You will not lose anything if you add them, and when you have more friends mean respond to your discussion will be more, and at the same time, your earning will increase too. It is good to make more friends than to create a enemy. 
Those are my principles from yesterday! After I feel too difficult to open and read my messages due to unavoidable spamming from unwanted friend I realize I need to protect myself from self interested individual.
@gnomeland (421)
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9 Nov 10
hi, i feel the same as you because some people just want to 'collect' friends like on other sites but i feel the fun of this site is to join in and contribute. it is great to have friends on this friendly site but how can you have any idea about these peoples views on life, religion, politics etc if they have not answered or contributed to the site.
@mrpoker0112 (243)
• China
13 Nov 10
hi,i have met with the same case ,at first i approved all friendship invitations
and i found that some of them wouldn't appear for a second time ,just each blank account remains ,it's so annoying, afterwards when i received another invitation with a zero point account i wouldn't approve it ,cause i thinnk such person doesn't know how to show respect for others ,znc it's a waste of profile resources go approve his/her request .but sometimes i don't deny it at once ,just to see how it goes in the following days .
best wishes !
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
They can be your referral to you online earnings, you can introduce them your money making opportunities. Anyway, if what happen is in the opposite you can disregard their invites anyway or delete them. My opinion is this, i add friends, i do not reject but if that new friends i have is annoying i rather delete than suffer from their referral invites.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Nov 10
I accept the friend requests that I get from users with few posts. Sometimes they are only interested in promoting their sites and I end up getting up getting lots of messages about sites that I am not interested in, but I still accept the friend requests. If they start spamming me I ask them to stop and tell them that I am not interested, and if that doesn't work I delete them. I don't want to deny the friend requests from every new member because some new members spam me. It is my experience that some members with few posts are simply new and will start posting one day
@skkalra (966)
• India
9 Nov 10
Well, If this happened to me I will at first look at thier profile if they are new ..I may accept them but if they are not new to my lot and just building a list of friends ( you can see how many friends they have ? ) for some promotion or something like that..( I have experinced it, I have seen such profiles )..I am sure not to accept such friend requests..
Hope, its okay...Good Luck
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
If i were you i'd think twice about accepting them. There are registered users here who'd just nag you on being their referal by sending you endless messages. I don't accept friend who has less than ten posts or rank.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
10 Nov 10
Hi zearah, i will accept them because they are new to this site. I will try to help them out also if needed. But most of the members i saw they will not be active even after a month also they just add all the friends and vanish. Those we can delete.
Have a nice day.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 10
For me I would have accept them and if there would any problem from them in future then I would have removed them from my list.
But as you said, you already had experience, so I think you should take one or two days to see what is their progress in participation and if they are good then you can accept them, now it is up to you to decide whether any one is active or not.
As you are an old member, so you should remember your initial days at myLot and how did you got friends over here.
Be happy and be the reason of happiness in others life...
Good day...
