How to face some old enemy in good way?
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
India
November 30, 2010 4:11am CST
Hi friends,
I discussed in earlier discussion that a friend of mine is joining a new company where he will have to work with a bad boy.
That bad boy was a good friend earlier and my friend hadfight with him on some issues, after that they did not face each other and now they will be in the same team.
He was asking me as to how is he going to face that guy?
Any suggestion?
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5 responses
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
30 Nov 10
Hi Ajay Singh Baghel: I think that he should try to be very formal with him and if he have to say something to him to be very polite. In case this is not possible he should try to ignore this guy if that's possible. The best advice for me would be: try your best not to create any conflict.
ALVARO
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
3 Dec 10
yes, he should be positive so that the other guy is not taking anything which can boost negativity in their relationship.
Thank you for sharing.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
I guess your friend have to be a bad boy as well. Dealing with such co-workers are just a pain in the neck. One of my favorite saying is 'to kill a beast, you have to be a beast'.
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
3 Dec 10
That is a good suggestion however we should think on positive side to become friends and not boost the old enemity.
Thank you for sharing.
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
3 Dec 10
Adjustment is the only solution I can see for them.
Thank you for sharing.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
Do you believe in saying "wounds will be healed on time passing"? Yes I believe because our emotion like angry will last only on that moment, or last for a month or year but more than that I think healed and forget already. see you around
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
3 Dec 10
To forget bitterness is not easy but always possible, when you face the same person who caused some serious problems in your life, all that is in front of your eyes and that is when you feel angry about the situation.
Hope they will respect each other for good reasons.
Thank You for sharing.
@irish101086 (14)
•
30 Nov 10
if it is an old enemy, then treat him like how you treat your old things. try to be positive as possible and not to get your work affected. remember that personal things and problems should not be taken at work.. good luck!
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
3 Dec 10
I believe same like you said that Personal things should not be taken at work but facing same person everyday at work will remind troubles in life which is gone. Would not be so easy to forgive and forget but that is the best solution for them to move on
Thank You for sharing.
