My brother has a mistress ....

Hello Dear! I suggest you tell the truth. Tell your brother to confess his infidelity to his wife. If he don't or he can't then you do the move. Tell his wife the truth. Do not allow yourself to be used as an accessory of your brother's infidelity. Remember, you are also a woman and I bet you know how it feels to be cheated and be betrayed by someone you love. Do the right thing and that is telling the truth and not hiding it. Remember, no smoke that can't be noticed.

its really tough decision ,he is your brother but it wouldnt be fair to his wife if you know he is cheating on her and you are not telling her,but its all up to you i dont think anyone can tell you what exactly to do everyone has differnet opinion,you should judge it by yourself what to do,try to talk with your brother about that maybe to convince him to confest by himself and maybe to save his marriage,because lying doesnt lead anywhere.if he really love his wife he should confest his mistake and try to save his marriage...thats my opinion

Keep well out of it and don't take sides! It is between your brother and his wife. Let him deal with the situation and if she asks again, tell her to ask your brother not you. You won't win either way on this one, so stay clear!

I am not sure what to tell you, because I don't know the woman and I guess I watch a lot of television maybe too much at times and what if she found out you told him and she was a physco? You never know who is out there you have to try and stay safe, but on the other hand he is your brother, so maybe he needs to know but I am sure if he suspects something he will find out sooner or later. I am sorry that I can not give you any advice but all I can say is good luck with what ever your decision is and stay safe and take care. Have a good day.

Hello Didi, i would say his wife about that. There is nothing wrong in that kind of relations, if both - husband and wife are o.k. and happy with that together. In the marriage that kind of truths must be said, i think so.

As some of the people above are saying, don't take sides...talk to your brother but don't be the one to bring that kind of news to your sister-in-law...

Hi Didi, I think if it were me that I'd try to stay as far removed from that situation as possible. It is between your brother, his wife and the mistress. I would play dumb and not get involved at all.

I don't think you should involve yourself with their problem. What I can advice is to talk to your brother and ask him his reasons why is he doing it.

hello didi, It's a wife and husband problem anyway if you know something and cannot decide which side you are going it's better to keep distance, but remember like what they always say "Truth will set you free". :) have a nice day!