Does our relationship with our siblings changes over time?
By sunset_haze
@sunset_haze (97)
Philippines
February 1, 2011 3:54am CST
My sister and I love many things in common. We like doing many things together but there are times that we just can't agree with each other. And sometimes this leads to heated arguments and quarrel. I wonder if this will change when we get older and have a family of our own. Can you share your experiences and views on this?
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5 responses
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
3 Feb 11
Well that depends upon several factors, if we are living together, we may not disagree, but if separately and far from each other, thinkings are effected, moreover as we grow older, there will be difference in thinkings too.
Thanks for sharing
Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead.
Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
@sigriol (39)
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1 Feb 11
My sister and I are best friends. We are both over 30. We were really close as children but when we were teenagers we grew a part. We used to have lots of arguments but today we hardly ever argue and haven't for years. Maybe it is because we are so much alike that we agree on most things.
@vandana710 (37)
• India
19 Apr 11
It is nice to hear from you that you and your sister shares a very good relationship now..I really liked it....Because see if you are living together in a family there is love and a fight as well and if there is no fight at all there is some problem .....I too have a sister both of us are same like you..at the time of teenager we had lot of fight but as now we are married we don't fight at all ,we also agree on most of the things....
@pjnjclyn (176)
• Newton, New Jersey
22 Mar 11
I have an older sister and there is 6 years between us. When we where growing up we fought alot and when I say alot I mean alot. It was really bad for sometime. Our parents used to worry when they had to work and knew that we would be home they never knew what they where going to come home to.
Now that we are in older I am in 35 and she is 42 things are much different. We are very close and talk about everything. There was nothing that we did differently I think it has to do with us getting older and we are really all that we have to each other.
Even when our fighting was at it worst it had nothing to do with the love that we have for one another and there was no one else that could say something because you did not say anything about my sister.
It will get better as you get older what are your ages now?
Remember this that there is nothing like a love that you get from another sister.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
My sister and I were so close before too, although we don't agree almost all the time... 
Now that we are a bit older, we have grown apart from each other since we have different sets of friends ans beliefs. 
But we still care much about each other and really hang out when we have the time.
Now that we are a bit older, we have grown apart from each other since we have different sets of friends ans beliefs. But we still care much about each other and really hang out when we have the time. @lovebebe (27)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
My sister and I always make an argument but it will change the mood for awhile. It will turn to be happy moment. I think whatever argument and fight still being sister to each other will not affect it. Distance will change a little but sometimes will also close you more. When your apart you always seek each other company you miss her for all the fight and trouble that's make you laugh.
