Love can be only once ..

India
February 18, 2011 4:23am CST
Well.. We all have learnt about love from the books or the movies which has left a big impact on us to accept many things on us about it. And this concept that true love can be only once in our life. I have had a very long relationship with a girl and them we broke up. Again I have been to other relation for short time and never felt like that..but another thing is there I didnt have this feelings which I have now for her also whom I met at the first and thought the true love.. Yesterday me and mine friends had a very long discussions about and I was not agree with it..as we can't define a relation in dimension of true love and can say true love can be once only... What do you think? True love can be once, which movies educate us or the meaning has been changed with time..since it was right for Romeo - Juliette.. Thanks...
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10 responses
• China
18 Feb 11
i have to confess that everynoe's first love is difficult to forget it.and it truely influence you a lot after you break up with your first love. ,but i do not think true love can be once only.
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• India
22 Feb 11
I also think the same... Thanks...
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Feb 11
No, i don't think that true love can be once. There are a few people who loved once and married the same. We fall in love many times and then how to judge the real love. Basically i have not that conception that true love comes once. have a nice day.
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• India
18 Feb 11
Thanks for sharing your views..
• India
23 Feb 11
I really don’t know if there is anything like true love or its just our imagination and a sort of standard that we like to attain. I say this coz before my marriage, I had met and fallen in love with quite a few boys, both in high school and college. None of the relations lasted long or had any seriousness, but at that particular moment, it was like true love to me.... I went thru severe depression and heartbreak after each relation petered out. Then I met my husband who was then a friend at college and we’re together for 14 years now and feel as if we even breathe together... perfect soul mates. However, then I come across people in their middle age or old age, who’ve had happy marriages but are now widowed ... they are again looking for a partner, a friend, again looking to love and be loved. So I think love itself is the true achievement... there is nothing as true love.
• India
23 Feb 11
I dont know what do you understand from true love...but its there man ...from the true love which I think about ... If you will go to find negative things in any thing you can get...but dont we need only positive things from the defined postive energy of our life "Love" ? Thanks...
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Feb 11
I really don't agree that we are only able to find true love once in our lives. That is the reason that people are able to go on with their lives after they've lost their mate. I do, however, think that people have a different kind of relationship with each different person that we love in our lives. I know that I love my husband with all of my heart. However, there was another person in my past that I loved as well. However, the love was different with each of them.
• India
22 Feb 11
Yeah dear I am totaly agree with you .. Many of the person here misunderstood me as they thought I am trying to say love can be only once ..but the question were what other thinks about it? And I have also written same thing that we feel different for all different relation and there is no parameter which can define which is more true.. Thanks...
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
18 Feb 11
I don't agree that true love can only be found once. Of course with different people the love will be different in some ways. But i think one can find love more than once in a lifetime. I have fallen in love twice in my life. One I spend almost 20 years with and the second I found recently. I feel lucky since Many people don't find it even once in their lives.
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• India
18 Feb 11
You are right dear...it all depend upon the person... Thanks for sharing your view...
@koolit83 (41)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
..in my opinion love can happen to anyone at different situations..but it is true love that is the one which really matters..
• India
22 Feb 11
Thanks for your view...
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
18 Feb 11
hello friend! i am not agree with you.i do not believe that true love can be once in life.we are human bing so we can do relation with other.sometimes it goes for long time and sometimes for not so long.for live in this world we have to make relation it can be 2bd r 3rd time.so we do not said like that 1st one is true love then what about 2nd one?i think if we love anyone from bottom of heart then it is a true love and it can happen many time in our life. thanks a lot.
• India
22 Feb 11
You should have read everything there in discussion... Thanks...
@mark98 (567)
• China
19 Feb 11
True love can have many times, but for us the first true love the most fresh.
• India
22 Feb 11
Thanks for your view...
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
It is because yu are mistaking love for attraction. Love is a duty. It is something that you do, and not something that you feel.
• India
22 Feb 11
I am not agree with you for calling love is a duty in all aspect .. Love can be duty for our mother/father, brother/sister or wife...but can't be for some one whom you find very much fimiliar while you were in college/school or in office.. Thanks...
• Kolkata, India
7 Jul 14
True love happens only once. Love happens many times. And by true love I don't mean a specific person but it can also be a hobby or your current work or anything. But yeah, true love is something we hardly ever get. Then again, love is not meant for keeping right? :)