My baby is learning to sit!

@mermaidivy (15395)
United States
February 23, 2011 10:23am CST
I started to put him on the floor to learn to sit. I put pillows behind and next to him and under his arm so he can have some supports. Is that okay to let him lean forward on his own? Because he is not sitting up sturdy yet so he does that. When I pick him up from sitting, he is upset because he wants to sit up and see the world! But at the same time, I worry leaning forward like that is not good for him... Any mom can help??
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@zralte (4178)
• India
23 Feb 11
Yeah, like zweeb mentioned, kids that age are very flexible. So don't worry too much about it. Though you'd better not let him sit up for too long until he can sit properly. Every baby wants to look around and see the world. Supporting is fine too. How old is he? Don't rush him just because you think it's time. Each baby have their own time. Just because some babies sit up at his age does not mean that he will be. Some babies skip a developmental stage. My two daughters almost skip the sitting stage. They started crawling in a matter of days after sitting up. I was starting to worry that they are late development-wise, but they ended up to be early crawlers and early walkers. My point is that, let your baby decide when he is ready to go onto the next stage, with an encouragement from you. And remember that every mother wants their baby to be faster.
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@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
23 Feb 11
Thank you!! That's what I thought... everybody told me I should do this and that because he is 5 months old... You should put him to sit, you should give him blah blah blah... I didn't think he was quite ready until just recently. So I didn't listen to other people, I think I know what my baby wants...
@zralte (4178)
• India
23 Feb 11
Anything concerning pregnancy and baby, everyone is an expert. Best thing to do when everyone is giving you advice after advice is, just nod along, make appropriate sound, then decide for yourself what is good for you and your baby. He is your baby, you know him best. Friends, family and neighbours don't live with him, so they don't really know him. That is not to say their advice are not appreciated. After all, they will not be giving advice if they don't care. So, trust your instinct more than you trust others' advice - including my advice It is good to ask around and get different opinion. But at the end of the day, you are the one having to make the decision, and having to live with that decision.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
23 Feb 11
Yea, it is what I do, I listen to people's advice and I take what I think my baby needs. Thank you for your comment!
• Bangladesh
24 Feb 11
I think,It's a good tropic but it's not correct to submit such a kind of photo...I'm really shocked!!!!!!!!!!!!it can hit many hearts..
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
24 Feb 11
I didnt' submit any pictures, the picture that you see is the picture of the interest - parenting.
• Bangladesh
25 Feb 11
its ok. but parenting.....
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
23 Feb 11
It's alright as that's the process of him learning to sit. He'll find his way around, don't worry too much!~Oh ya, we had a feeding pillow earlier which is some sort like a U-shape so that helped him to support a little when he sits in the middle
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
23 Feb 11
But it doesn't hurt his back? His head can almost reach his feet...
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
23 Feb 11
Nah, they are very flexible at this age, don't worry!~
@zeciram (161)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
It's fine to let him lean forward. It will not hurt him. Babies are flexible. Congrats on your baby's latest development! Enjoy each moment with him. How many months old is he by the way?
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
24 Feb 11
He just turn 5 months old 4 days ago
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
24 Feb 11
First of all, how old is your baby? A baby often wants to sit from age 2 - 3 months old. A good way is to let the baby have supporting pillows leaning with its on them. Something which is strengthening the back muscles is to let the baby lay on his/her belly on a blanket on the floor. It will make the baby to want to lift its head along with trying to use its arms and legs. It is a really good muscle training. If the does not want to lay on its belly.... I used to lay myself on my belly on the floor holding my head in the same height as my baby. I did peek a boo. It was a smiling happy time.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
24 Feb 11
hehe yea he likes to be on his tummy on my lap. I do give him enough support and let him try to sit.
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
don't worry too much. its part of childhood. let him enjoy it just make sure you sit behind him to support him in case he lean forward to prevent him from being hurt.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
24 Feb 11
I didn't know that baby can be this flexible, I always thought they are so fragile...
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
23 Feb 11
Ya i know what you mean. At that age it does not look comfortable. Many you should sit him ina seat of somekinD. Where he has more back support. Besides pillows would not be recommended in leaving him alone even for just a minute.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
23 Feb 11
No, I definitely won't leave him alone like that.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
23 Feb 11
http://www.ehow.com/how_2205434_teach-baby-sit-up.html I'm not a mommy & my children experiences begin with 3 year old children who were past the sit up stage, so I did some research. eHow agrees with using the U-pillow. I always thought you just waited until they figured it out on their own. I know my Aunt used to put her fingers out to her boys while they were lying on the floor & when they grasped her fingers, she'd slowly pull them up into a sitting position before picking them up. She thought it gave them the reference that they were going to be picked up when they sat up. It didn't take them long after that to figure it out!!!
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
23 Feb 11
Thank you for the respond!
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
Im a father of two , when my eldest do like that i only assist him until she can manage to do so.
@DanaS2011 (351)
• United States
23 Feb 11
Let your baby be and your baby will be a baby. Just monitor and stay close just in case your little one needs a helping hand. My son learned to sit up and crawl all in the same month. I was so amazed. Now he's so anxious to walk and I support him. Me and his sister hold him up while he get the feel for his feet
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
24 Feb 11
My sister in law said if I don't let him learn how to sit the he won't know how to eat... is it not true?