How far woould you go to help out your friend?!

@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
India
March 10, 2011 10:34am CST
ok so i have a friend and she is obviously going through some kind of guy problems, and it makes me sad she doesnt wana talk about it so i dont really get to know whats happening and i don't wana go on bothering her about it cause she might get annoyed.. so then i have no idea what to do now? what would you do? i dont wana leave her alone cause i know its getting worse day by day
4 responses
• India
15 Apr 11
Don't rush things. give it some time and see if she opens up. if not its her loss not to trust you enough. Dont end up being annoying trying to help others.
• India
15 Mar 11
hummm the situation seems like your hands are been locked.. but dude i think you should give her some time thought it makes you very sad that she isnt discussing the problem.. jus try and give her some time spend some time with her that will make her happy try to gain her mood always keep her mind filled with happiness... dont try and let her think abt the guy problems its your duty you take an initiative be patience and each and every thing will come out automatically
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
10 Mar 11
I think you just have to decide what kind of level you want this friendship to be on. If you want her to be a best friend then it's your right to be a little nosey. If she takes it offensively then you know what level she has you on. Things like this will teach you a lot about your friendships with people. I say don't worry about annoying her, try and be there. Even though she acts like she doesn't want to talk about it she probably does.
• United States
10 Mar 11
I would go as far as she would ask me to go within reason of course. If she is not directly asking I would say to simply continue being a friend and listening to her vent. If you see the room to voice what you think can be a resolution then by all means, however if she says she does not want help and or talk about it then I would suggest to simply be a friend and hopefully one day she will understand that you are the friend she can count on and will perhaps then open up more. Best of luck with your friend.