Mother past away

United States
March 31, 2011 7:37pm CST
I recently lost my mom witch was also my best friend. I feel empty,and everything seems diffrent in my life. People say it needs time to get over it,right now i think I get never over it. Who made the same expereance?
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
5 Apr 11
Everybody grieves differently. No two people are alike. Nobody has the right to tell you to get over it! That is so insensitive and mean to say! If some were to say that to me, they wouldn't be my friend anymore because that's mean of them to say that. Losing your mother is very hard but you will learn to go on with your life because you know that's what she'd want you to. In time it gets easier to deal with. The pain never goes away but it'll get easier to deal with. My sincere condolences in your loss.
• United States
8 Apr 11
Well I guess they dont mean it that bad. They only try to help.A lot of people cant really deal with it and dont know what to say.
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
8 Apr 11
I don't care if they meant it in a bad way or not, it's a mean and unfeeling for anybody to say and should never be said. Unless they have something nice to say they should keep their mouth closed.
• Australia
5 Apr 11
i lost my mum to a heart attack the day b4 mothers day 2 yrs ago.my mum was also my best friend.. losing your mum is not something you will get over, you will learn to live without her even thou she is never really gone. she remains with u and always will... the last time i spoke to my mum we were havin a fight, the next day she ws gone.... to everyone out there never go to bed on an arguement worst thing i have ever done and i will never forgive myself. look its nearly been 2 years for me and i still ball my eyes out. i had my first child 4 months ago and its so hard not having her here to help or just so i can ask questions. im also getting married next year and thats gonna be hard. but i know she is watchin over me and is gonna be there no matter what..... things will get better it really will the pain will never go but it may fade. Be happy thats all she would want for you
• United States
8 Apr 11
yes you are right,you never get over it! I am sorry for your los my friend , but I am happy to hear that you became a mother.I am a mother of 4 and I try to keep the legend of my mother alive and telling them what a wonderfol person my mother was
@jazzsue58 (2666)
1 Apr 11
I do feel for you. I lost my dad in 2005 - even now, the hurt feels so raw sometimes. I'm okay for weeks, but then I get a day when I'm upset about something,and my mind drifts over to dad, and I remember how I saw him, not when he was alive, but after he'd just gone ... Yes, the grief stays with you, but it eases.At least my dad had a long life. I tell myself it's something that happens to us all, and that one day I'll join him. My mum's still alive, but very poorly. And I don't see her nearly enough ... Going to do something about that right now.
• United States
1 Apr 11
yes once she is gone you think oh mom I wished I could tell you one more time how much I love you
• United States
1 Apr 11
I was not raised by my mother so I cannot relate to the loss of a mother. 2 weeks ago I lost my grandmother and it is very painful and you feel like time will not heal. You can cry, scream, get angry then it will be time to smile and remember her always. Keep her wonderful memory alive in your heart and allow time to heal/grieve her loss. My sincerest condolences to you and wish you well.
• United States
1 Apr 11
I am so sorry for your lost
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
my mom is still doing fine, but i like to say condolence to you, losing your mom is the hardest thing to accept in life.. most people say that losing your mom is harder than losing your dad, mom is the one who took so much time to take care of us when we were still a kid while our dad goes to work, plus mom have this softhearted attitude, that whenever we get into trouble mom is the first one who really forgives us and understand our situation sometimes my mom always take the blame for me so that my dad won't get mad at mom stands up to shield her kids from all the pain life can give us... i'm very sad with what happen. Your mom is now at peace together with the Lord, i hope time will ease your pain
• United States
1 Apr 11
thank you so much ! I remember how she blamed me all the time when I came with a new tattoo. She never stoped telling me how ugly that looks.Now I really miss that.
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
you'll go through a process of healing...just think that she's with the lord now...and she's watching over you...she's not physically there...but you know that she is..
• United States
1 Apr 11
Yeah I wished I could do that