do you think women who get married always become bitter?

I think it happens with everybody and in every house. its just that when you are not married, you don't have any responsibility but after getting married there are a lot of other responsibilities that come up, taking care of the house, husband, child and all of this somtimes takes a toll on the wife. So, its alright to burst out at times. Don't worry it happens to everyone.

Well, I guess this happens. But there are two sides to this. I am not saying that I have the perfect relationship ever, however my husband and I have been married for 8 years. We are pretty happy. We go out dancing, see movies, watch movies and sports. We make sure to make together time each and every day and on the weekends its us time. That is a must. And I really dont complain to him very often unless its a big issue and he isnt to picky if I dont have a meal for him ready. He will just heat up something quick and make something for both of us. As he knows I have been busy with the house and the kids. So whatever your thing is, I would say stay flexible and thoughtful not critical. Be kind and understanding not judgmental about petty things, think if it really matters and how it will effect her. And keep communication open and honest. But not to honest to were you regret things that you say that you dont really mean or just should not say to the other person. Congratulations. I wish you the best.

You need to take care of yourself, and get enough rest, eat healthy foods and do not hang around with people who gripe about their spouses. Think about good things. One of the recommendations I have often read, and I find that works, is to remember why you dated him, and what you liked about him and why you considered spending your life with him. I bet you have been under a lot of stress lately, jobs or something, right? Start a personal list about what is good in your life and relationship. When I get too wrapped up in what is making me unhappy, I just look back at some posts I have made, etc. I get coffee in bed any morning I want it. He can clean a stove cleaner than I can. He always makes sure my car has enough gas. Just remember things like that, and find happy people to be around. It will help.

There is no reason for a bride to get bitter if she is well cared and loved by her husband. Wives becomes bitter when husband neglects their duty as husband and start treating the wife as slave. Yes,slave like do this and do that and after all those commands she never receives appreciation or even a kiss. That's just a simple reason why some wife feels bitter. There's a lot more...wives needs attention and care too.

I don't believe that marriage creates the bitterness in life. We can be bitter about something whether we are married or not. We go through a lot of changes in life. Marriage brings about its own kinds of changes in a relationship. It doesn't have to lead to bitterness.

I'm a woman and I'm also a wife. I dated for 2 years with my husband today. why woman becomes bitter after marriage? mmm..I think it also depends on the husband. sometimes man also changed by the time they becomes husband and father. marriage is a process, and couple will learn each other during that process. for me, dating is full of fake situation (we try to make our couple happy that's why we sometimes loose our principal or pride), but it won't happened in marriage life. we become who we are, not only the wife but also the husband. when the husband does something bad maybe the wife turns into bitter one..:)

it is all up to your mentality condition. if you see marriage life as candy, it must taste sweet.However, if you see it as burden, bitter is inevitable. So i hope you can adjust yourself and have a happy family happy life.

o okay fourth time copy paste we all are super well behaved in dating but folks we are human being and we Aint Perfect. we all have little flaws so what? accept each other as you are unconditional love is the best and it endures through all the trials and good times as long as you both live and a great sense of humor too and tell each other you love one other.also always keep the lines of communication going. laugh a lot and have fun, I was married 33 years and none of them were bitter.

Yes woman no need to be bitter after marriage because they will at their husband they love before. When they just courting by their husband before they are excited and after marriage some problem arise. many things happened and excitement gone maybe because of many problems and struggle that comes to life. So if this thing comes to their life sweetness maybe absent and lessen on their romance. Excitement decrease.

Hi there birdie, Don't make it in general. It depends on the foundation strenght of the relationship. In my observation, some couples after got married, they focused on the thinking that they had already the burden of responsibilities and that their lives has been changed. Well in fact, should not be. Couple still could do like dating, exchanging gifts without thinking of its cost. Getting married is just continuing the romance in your relationship. The only difference is just it should be serious and have to consider the partner in everything you do for you are not living alone now. Some wives got bitter because, they thought, they should not act like in the courtship stage for they are already married and should think for a better future for their families to be. Some says that letting the flame burning makes the relationship last long, which I believe is true. Nothing is impossible if both will be there for each other, understanding and trust to each other are the vital keys to survive in a relationship. Don't be afraid of something that still not happening, do something positive to avoid it to happen instead. Happy mylotting.

Okay, it is a lot whole natural and so as to love. Marrying means you truly love the person, and if you get to the point that you start to feel unexcited upon seeing him that doesn't mean that you lost the spark however it is more of like gaining the true meaning of love that carries out trust! The one you mention wherein the wives are happier during dating years, that is not love at all, its in the stage of lust --- passion burning all over. Don't worry that coldness will never be uphold, rather it will be passed as long as you continue LOVING :)

For me yes by the problem they have so bad to it.

hi birdie816, I dont think so with your opinion. It depend on men marry with us, but if we marry the right man and love each other, I think we have no problem and make it such a taste bitter. married is beginning to have a better relationship with maturnity and understanding each other