Do you daughters are father's spoiled child ?
By aweins
@aweins (4199)
India
August 12, 2011 5:19am CST
my daughter is papa's girl. she eats , sleeps, cries, plays, go to school, gymnastic class even to the toilet with her father. when ever she is asked to tell the name of her best friend, she always name her father saying that he is my best friend. in her school, we both go to drop her but she wants him to sit out the whole time, she has just started going to school so we wait till the school gets over. in her gymnastic class also, she wants her father to be inside the hall. which is very difficult. in the starting i use to sit for some four five days but then they do not allow that. parents are not allowed inside anywhere. yesterday she was invited to a birthday party so she was wanting her father also to come with her. but he did not, i went there and it was good because there was no male in the party. all children and some mothers with small children like me. then i told her that see nobody's father is here and she should not unnecessary cry for him accompanying him everywhere. but then i become the main bold black listed person on her list. she is always saying, mom do not want pops to be with me , i will not study anything with her, i will not do any conversation with her, i will be with my pops, he is the best of the best. he is my pop and nobody else.
3 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
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12 Aug 11
I think that a lot of girls in the world are closes to their Dads than their Mums. I was always closer to my Dad when I was a child, but then a lot closer to my Mum when I became a teenager. I think that I could relate to my Mum a lot more when I was that age because obviously she'd been through the same kind of things that I had in her life so that she would be able to give me much better advice about various things than my Dad would have been at that point because obviously he'd never been through it.
@aweins (4199)
• India
13 Aug 11
i do not know that at that age also will she come close to open up her secrets to me or take me as a best friend, but , i think that she can go to her dad, because he is her best friend. and my hubby is not like a very authoritative type or disciplined like sleeping time, wearing this, eating that, girl this, go here, not there....and he gives so much freedom is in his life and in people related to him that people feel much more comfortable and relaxed , i think. so my baby is overly pampered by him, or in right words, spoiled by him, hahhaa.
@bobosusanwang (135)
• China
12 Aug 11
I think your husband should be very proud of this! She is so cute.Maybe it confuses you though,is there any thing special that happend between her and her daddy? Did you not spend not as much time with her as you hubby did?
@aweins (4199)
• India
12 Aug 11
oh no, friend, not at all. we both are together always and we give her time equally but she loves to be with him and loves him a lot. she do not even like sharing him with others, lol, i mean, if he is having a long conversation on phone or chatting for a long time, she do not like that at all. she is possessive about him very much. that she is about me also, to be true, but regarding him , it is too much.
