"Bindi" = A cosmetic mark used to enhance forehead beauty!

Bindi - Bindi a decorative cosmetic beauty enhancer mark.
@nishant5n (1067)
India
October 15, 2011 1:33am CST
Hello dear friends, I understand that many of you do not know about "Bindi," and are wondering what is it? You many have not seen it ever before in your life. But I have noticed that "Bindi" has reached all over the world and has been accepted and worn as a fashionable cosmetic mark by people from other traditions also. Models wear Bindi with western dress. It is a forehead decoration mark worn in the form of dot-patch. Traditionally, it is a dot of red color. For Indian women it's an essential part of their makeup. It really enhances beauty in my personal views. It gives grace to the look. Do you agree that it gives better and improved look? If you know it very well, do you think it's a cosmetic necessity? If you ever tried it, how was the experience? If you have first seen "Bindi" in this discussion, What's your first impression of it? My niece is so affectionate to "Bindi" that on weekdays she wears a black "Bindi" after matching it with her school uniform. (A common misconception about the "Bindi" is that only married Hindu women can wear red Bindis as a symbol of wedlock.)
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6 responses
@shskumbla (3338)
• India
15 Oct 11
Hi nishant Traditionally Bindi takes a big place for Hindus. Recent time most people think its a fashionable cosmetics. I think its necessary to wear Bindi especially for women.
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
15 Oct 11
Bindi is the symbol of Indian cultural. It has many myths and stories behind it. Every women who wears a Bindi, feels proud after wearing it. If you ever have a chance, just try to watch a women while she is wearing a Bindi. It's a matter of maybe two seconds, but it shows the dignity of "Bindi"
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
19 Oct 11
Yes, I got your point...I was just reiterating it...
@shskumbla (3338)
• India
16 Oct 11
I am saying that some people put that to show style. But Hindus necessary to put that Bindi. Some people don't like to put that..! Its the change of putting Bindi.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
15 Oct 11
Hi Nishant Good, I always liked Bindi on the foreheads of the Girls. They look so very charming and pretty. Then came Shanti - the old Tele Serial on Doordarshan and - Mandira bedi re-invented those Bindis with Designer ones - mesmerizing indeed and yes they looked ravishing on her Personally, My mom prefers the bigger ones - thogh she is not a Bengali but I think it is bengali who normally prefer those kind of Bigger / Larger Bindis. My wife and the current generation I think is happy with the smallest sized ones. But yes, for all those who use that "Bindi" - be careful about the dates and the gum used - it might cause irritation and skin issues. You might be aware of this one... but my mom did suffer from some allergy with a specific brand and this was when I came to know that they can be the cause too
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
15 Oct 11
Hi nishant Mom has wished you with her ashirvad and wife conveyed her regards to you and family. And I add to them - regards to bhabhiji and mom :) (late as ever - that is my trademark) At Orissa they dont have this festival(karva chauth) today and I am unsure when they do celebrate it but as we originally belong to UP, we have still that name and tradition continuing. However neither my wife nor my bahu (brother's wife) are much aware of the complete set of rituals. Mom too keeps changing some of the things (of late). I mention this because I feel that after mom, there will be none in the family here who would keep up with that tradition as per the book.
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
19 Oct 11
Oh, that very nice Sid, Really, your native place is also UP like me...nice again. Yes, we are forgetting our traditions and cultures. Valentine day and Friendship day is more exciting than Karva Chauth and MahaShivRatri
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
15 Oct 11
Hey Sid, I knew you will like "Bindi". My di also likes big "Bindi." You are correct, cheap "Bindi" will definitely have cheap gum which can cause skin problems. It really important to purchase branded or good quality "Bindi." Please convey my wishes and regards to "Bhabhiji" and "maa" on this festival of "Karva Chauth." Does it has same name there?
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
15 Oct 11
I have often seen Indian women here wearing the bindi and I always thought that it was a mark of high caste but I gather, from what you say, that it is worn by Hindis, regardless of caste, and not normally by Christians or Muslims. Here in England we often don't understand or know the difference even betweem Pakistanis, Bangladeshi, Indians or Srilankans and we only have a very hazy understanding of caste! We tend to forget that India is a large continent with many different cultures and races, more diverse, probably, than Europe. I am always pleased to see a woman wearing a bindi (and usually they are also wearing the very attractive traditional dress rather than Western dress). I see it as something which definitely enhances the beauty because it tends to make one naturally look at the eyes (which are generally the most attractive part of any face) but I'm also aware that the person is proud of their culture and, perhaps, is expressing something about it which I don't fully understand. I think I have never seen a Western girl wearing a bindi. If I did, I would think it a little odd and, perhaps, not quite 'right'. In the 18th Century it was fashionable for some ladies to apply small patches to their face (usually on the cheek). These were called 'beauty spots' or 'beauty marks' and were intended to represent moles. Their purpose was, really, rather different from the bindi and more of a case of 'making a virtue out of necessity'.
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
15 Oct 11
Thank you for the picture! My first reaction was how odd, even ugly, she looks! Then I looked again and realise that it is not the bindi (and the eyebrow decoration) which is odd but the peculiar knots in her hair and the too large, over emphasised lips which are ugly. I am not a big fan of make-up or of the vagaries of 'fashion' in general. I prefer the 'natural' look - except for obvious adornments, such as the bindi and some kinds of jewelry - for most women and I'm glad to say that MOST people, especially people who are in the public eye, do too!
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
15 Oct 11
Hats off to you! What an observation! that's why I always enjoy and respect your responses. Over makeup really looks ugly. Maybe it is good for drama actresses or stages performers where it will be seen from a distance.
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
15 Oct 11
Gwen Stefani  - Gwen Stefani likes wearing Bindi.
Since you are not very much familiar with Asians, you may have problem in identifying the difference between Pakistanis, Burmese, Bangladeshis, SriLankans, and Indians. But Bangladeshis/Burmese are quite easy to differentiate from others... However, South Indians and SriLankans are quite similar as they are not from far enough, and to some extent as is with typical North Indian Moslem and Pakistanis... But it doesn't matter OwlWings. So you like "saree" the traditional wear of Indian woman. Today while searching for "Bindi," I read somewhere, "What is common between Hollywood Icons Miley Cyrus, Alecia Keys, Gwen Stenfani, Katy Perry and Madonna?--They have of late been spotted wearing an Indian fashion accessory -- The Bindi" many thanks for your wonderful response. here is a snap for your kind perusal
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
15 Oct 11
Dear friend, I feel it one of the long lasted culture we Indians have, even many of such traditions have been vanished. There were times when women used to put rings on nose and various other traditional ornaments were put on the body. I feel many these do have its own health and scientific reasons. Usually Indian culture and tradition is more close to spiritual side. It is communicated with nature and being friendly with nature in healthy way. I feel bindi do have great spiritual and health side which our great old ancestor might have found it. Anyhow it is also known that in India Munis and Rishis used to communicate through mind waves. I feel lot so such traditions which have health values that is close related to nature's power is still in Indian traditions.
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
15 Oct 11
Sounds like "telepathy"...actually the point where this "Bindi" is used is the place of source of immense power in human body where there is fully developed spinal cord. Our brain and spine have several such power points. I think, if trained properly through meditation and other means not only this power source, but also all of the others can be activated. This was known and practiced by Indian "Munis," "Rishis," "sanyaansies," "gurus," etc. A basic law of science: Matter cannot be destroyed; it can be changed from one form to another. They used to travel through time....not very far away, per my knowledge, just some 80 years back, the last known omnipotent person, Swami Yogananda Ji..
@srganesh (6340)
• India
15 Oct 11
hai nishant! bindi is our traditional mark for the girls to have. but it is not reserved for married women alone. instead they have to have bindi in their forehead also as an indication of their marital status. now a days, most of the girls don't like to put on the natural bindis but use sticker ones and that too very small in size so that it adds to their fashion look.
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
15 Oct 11
Bindi stickers - Bindi designs
Yes there are different different kinds of stickers nowadays. It's festival time so while shopping with wife I was just wondering how far has "Bindi" reached! And to make it clear, we can say" All married Hindu women wear "Bindi." All unmarried women do not wear "Bindi." So, did you notice it? Do you like it?
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
15 Oct 11
A little correction, nishant! All married Hindu women wear Bindi on two places, one in the middle of the eyebrows and the other on the tip of the forehead. And un married Hindu women shall not be expected to wear it the middle of the eyebrows even, now a days!
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
15 Oct 11
ShriDevi's Bindi Style - ShriDevi's Bindi Style is great and unique.
Thanks for the information. It is a new, but interesting concept for me. Yes, I have seen this two bindi system mostly in movies based on culture of Hindu families in south. I like that very much. It really has an essence of purity. many thanks for such great responses.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
15 Oct 11
hi nishant, am asian too but wearing bindi is not part of our culture. fellow filipinos will stare if i wear bindi outside of the house and that will feel weird. i dont like to be stared upon. my husband has sent me bindi and sometimes i wear one when i talk with him. he is abroad working. ann
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
19 Oct 11
Hi Tigeraunt, I can understand your situation, no one wants to be stared upon... I am very happy that you still wear "Bindi" indoors and you and your husband both like it Thanks for sharing these valuable moments.