Why do single ladies chooses married guy?
By enelym001
@enelym001 (8322)
Philippines
October 18, 2011 11:08am CST
Well, not all of us ladies... But I still wonder what is with married guys that single women (mostly smart, intelligent young women) chooses them over a single guy. I don't mean to look down on them, it's just that I have a really good girl friend who gave her all to that guy who was married with two kids.
I don't blame her coz she said she don't know it at first. But later on the guy admitted it to her. I think those times she was really crazily inlove with him. And decides to just shrug her shoulder of the fact that he has confessed and accepted the situation wholeheartedly. They got married in papers (they did not actually attended the wedding - it was another couple who acted to be them). That's what both of them wants at that time. They've been in a secret relationship for I guess 3 years before they finally got "married". But never lasted a year or two of being "married" with my friend. He soon realized it was a mistake to be fooling her family. What a lame excuse!
But I was glad they were not together anymore. 'Though she was still carrying the guys last name - and I still think she loves him.
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8 responses
@sexyice (873)
• Latvia
18 Oct 11
As the Bible - forbidden fruit is sweetest. And all good men are busy or full of sh**s. 
And in life it is true, so in world are lot of women, who better take married guy, than search free guy, because it is easy and it is like game - get it, which is occupied. 
I am bad person, because, when I was youngest I do it too, BUT not special. I like boys and always boys wants me and leave girlfriends, because thinking then I take he. I think this is girlfriend problem too, because if you are ideal for your guy, he doesn't want search other girl. You can't blame just single girls.
How do you think?
And in life it is true, so in world are lot of women, who better take married guy, than search free guy, because it is easy and it is like game - get it, which is occupied.
I am bad person, because, when I was youngest I do it too, BUT not special. I like boys and always boys wants me and leave girlfriends, because thinking then I take he. I think this is girlfriend problem too, because if you are ideal for your guy, he doesn't want search other girl. You can't blame just single girls.
How do you think? @enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
Yes I got your point. I am not actually blaming it on girls alone. Because she had known it already that the guy isn't really single. The guy admitted it to her but still she chose to accept him. Guys should be blamed more for luring girls to have a relationship with them even though they are already a family man.
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@naseemkum (1803)
• India
19 Oct 11
Why should be the married guy blamed. The girl already knows that he is married so if she continues to make love with him it wil affect that married women's relation why could that lady choose that way. There are lot of guys in society to love and get married with them. I think the fault would be with the girl. If she knows he is married with childrens she should suddenly ends up the relation with him.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
23 Oct 11
Well I guess you are right. Both of them are to be blamed on this. I guess the reason why I blamed the guy was because he did not tell his status to the girl when their relationship was so fresh. He waited until the girl have completely fallen in love with him and already gave herself to him, when we was sure this girl is crasy for him thats the only time he got the guts to tell her the truth.
@monilove35 (45)
• United States
25 Oct 11
I believe that a lot of women and men get the thrill of just knowing that they don't have to be dedicated to that secret person along knowing that things are understood because they get the opportunity to return back home to there wives or husband, but what both sexes fail to realize is that if they are revealed there will be repercussion for there decisions. I myself take my hats off to them if they get away with it I am not just one of those women that likes to share or like being number two. again whats done in the dark will eventually come to the light. And if he or she cheats on the other spouse whats there to say that it won't be done to you
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
But the loosing end will be the ladies, because they will end u torn, hurt and well, having a really bad reputation.
@masang (295)
• Philippines
19 Oct 11
Maybe the lady is not God-fearing. If you are well-founded in your Christian faith you will not do anything that can harm yourself, your family, your dignity, others and above all your relationship with God. It is not love at all if you will not sacrifice yourself for the good of others. When you know that the person is married even if you love him, it is just right to end the relationship even if how painful it is.
@flowerfest08 (1677)
•
19 Oct 11
maybe because they are already more successful and experienced, i also don't know but I also know someone that in this situation, just this one she know that the man is married even before the relationship started, and she doesn't care that she is his mistress, this girl that I'm talking about is also educated, actually her family is rich, and she's pretty, so she can get a single boyfriend if she wants, but rather she chooses the married one. it makes me puzzle too actually.
@mhelsdelacruz (160)
• Philippines
19 Oct 11
there are really some ladies choose married guy because at first they dont know. .Good that they are not living together. .and married man also keeps it secret because they want to play the feelings of the other person. .when they know already that the girl is so inlove with them then thats the time they will reveal that they are married. .
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
23 Oct 11
Yup that's exactly what he did to my friend. He even tried to reach out to one of our friend who openly oppose to their relationship. He swears he will never hurt her and he says he really love her that is why he is going to marry her. I thought why can't he just persuade her to live with him - and don't include those papers.
@rjkolth (27)
• Philippines
19 Oct 11
There must be some ladies who likes married guy but I think it's only few of them. Some ladies just didn't know that the man they like is married because the guy want it to be discreet. All of us have different opinion, maybe some ladies are just fall in love for the wrong person and they don't mind if the guy is married, they will not mind anything just for love.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
18 Oct 11
I don't know about this particular case, but--in general--it's because the married guy's "good time" doesn't depend on the single ladies' approval of him. He knows he's out there for fun ... not 'to pass any kind of test' or 'to win any kind of approval' or anything else. The same way a lot of single guys should go out there!
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
Love is blind.Even if the girl is first timer to have relationship and the boy actig that do not have kids or relations when they start in relationship love can true blind you if you will not know about anyhing or no experience yet..Somfetimes emotions can led through that ,and not being careful at first..
