My boyfriend's sister died on Monday.

United States
January 24, 2012 11:28pm CST
My boyfriend's sister died on Monday. I knew her for four years, and I have been taking care of her for four years. She was 20-years-old, and she has had severe brain damage and seizures since birth. In her last days she suffered terribly, and there wasn't much that anyone could do for her. My boyfriend and his family are going through a lot right now. My boyfriend also stopped his drunk step-father from committing suicide, and he has a injured hand to show for it. He has nine stitches in all from trying really hard to get the knife out of his step-father's hand. I feel so bad for my boyfriend right now, and I know what he is going through because I too lost my brother five years ago. My brother was also 20 when he died. My brother died from a long time struggle with Type 1 Diabetes. I also know what it is like to deal with a drunk step-father who can be horrible to deal with when he is drunk (my step-father tried to steal from my mother's purse when he was drunk and this was after my brother died as well). I guess that I found the man that I want to be with for the rest of my life because we both know what it is like. We are both part of that club that no one wants to ever be a part of.
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
26 Jan 12
I am sorry to hear this. It must be difficult for both of you to get through it. Good to know that both of you are supportive towards each others. Hope he will get through his problem and everything goes fine.
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• United States
29 Jan 12
I hope that within time things will be a little more easier on him. People never really move on from something like this, but they can move forward in time.
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@dodo19 (47214)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Jan 12
I'm really sorry to hear about your boyfriend's sister. It's definitely not the sort of situation that you want to be in. I hope that things get better and a little easier for both of you.
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• United States
29 Jan 12
I hope that things get better for my boyfriend because he has had to deal with a lot this last week. I'm more concerned about him more than anything.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
14 Apr 12
Oh Wow... this would be a hard thing to have to go thru, and I will Pray for your situation with your family, and your boyfriends family. I know many times in life we have to deal with things and may not always understand, but when we continue to be Strong and supportive and just know one day it will be worth it all and Good things will continue to come.
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• United States
18 Oct 12
This happened in January, and things haven't been easy since then. Recently, I have gotten two new jobs, and I also lost my step-father. I am doing my best not to dwell on the bad, and focus on the good things because if I don't, then I feel that I will lose my sanity.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
16 Oct 12
I feel upset to know the story of both families. It is really hard when you have so many difficult things to deal with. I wish you to smoothly overcome all the difficulties ahead. Have a good day, friend.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
16 Oct 12
I feel upset to know the story of both families. It is really hard when you have so many difficult things to deal with. I wish you to smoothly overcome all the difficulties ahead. Have a good day, friend.
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@marguicha (217218)
• Chile
14 Apr 12
It is up to you to leave that world behind you and start a new life full of light together. You both have the scars of your past, but you love each other. I hope that helps you overcome all the wrongs. Take care!
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