my mother is 53 now, and her face covered with wrinkles, my heart is so sad :(

February 29, 2012 7:58am CST
my mother is 53 now, not too old, en. But her face is covered with wrinkles because of hard working day and night. time is a knife, indeed. when mom was young, she was so beautiful. And to support the family, she has been working with all her effort. She looks quite older than her age. I hope after i graduate from the university, i can make much money and give her a relaxing and happy life. mom, i love you. how are your mom, my dear friend? wish your mom happy and healthy!
5 responses
@ajalitus (127)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Wrinkles are common...It's just a part of aging. I don't know why physical appearance is big in the society. It's not a big deal. Even if she looks older that she is...so what? Whoopty doo.
4 Mar 12
oh , women love beauty, don't they? and what I really worry about is her health. I just think she deserves a happy life and i don't want her to do hard work any longer. yes, wrinkles are not terrible, however, wrinkles represent aging, and i have to see my mom being older and older, which makes me sad.
10 Mar 12
you are a positive person, while i am a little pessimistic. thank you. your words are inspiring and enlighten me on the altitude to life. Yes, i should see more good facets in life than the bad ones.
@ajalitus (127)
• United States
5 Mar 12
Well, I could understand you worrying about her health but wrinkles is a different matter. You say wrinkles represent aging. Well, doesn't aging represent more wisdom? A different perspective can help you feel less sad about this aging process. I think about age all the time but I don't feel sad. If you really think about it, you begin aging after you stopped growing. It's just a slow process. It's a part of life. I learn to accept it and adapt.
@nishdan01 (3051)
• Singapore
2 Mar 12
Facial wrinkles can happen due to variety of reasons. Not moisturizing and not hydrating are two common reasons. Plus, squinting and the way you sleep also determines how fast you wrinkle. Those anti wrinkle creams out there are not of much help. I would advise her to boost Vitamin C. It helps to boost collagen and than keep elastic fibers of facial skin away from wrinkles. You can read more on: http://skin-care-facial-care.factoidz.com/premature-aging-6-reasons-why-you-age-faster/ http://beauty-tips.factoidz.com/five-effective-ways-to-reduce-wrinkles/ Third article would give you more on reasons why aging occurs faster. http://aging-anti-aging.factoidz.com/what-causes-aging-understanding-why-we-age-at-different-rates/ I appreciate the way you care for your mother! Carry on your good work.
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• Singapore
6 Mar 12
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10 Mar 12
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4 Mar 12
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@fantabulus (4000)
• India
29 Feb 12
Ohhh why you are worry after the age of 50 wrinkles are common. Women in young age see beautiful but after one age her face is changed. So everyone tell this dont proud on beautiness.
1 Mar 12
oh, because the wrinkles are too many. she looks older than her age. what i didn't mention is that her health is not so good, maybe this is the thing that i really worried. thank you for responding.
@champoy186 (1638)
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
That is normal. Everybody will also experience this once they get older. You don't have to be sad because that's human nature. Someday you will also have wrinkles on your face. All of us will go through on this.
1 Mar 12
thank you for your comfort, my friend. your words make me a little relieved, maybe i am just too sensitive.
• South Africa
10 Mar 12
I too became quite sad looking at my mom this past weekend aned realising that slowly but surely her face is wrinkling!!!
12 Mar 12
oh, I hope that your mother is OK now. As my friends said, the wrinkles are common, the health is the thing important.