Time for Dinner

@NailTech (6874)
United States
March 30, 2012 2:09pm CST
So what is the earliest you ever eat dinner? I'm sitting here again and my family wants to eat by 3:30 or even slightly earlier. That leaves the whole night afterwards open for being hungry again (and then people wonder why I eat too many snacks at night), I don't understand why they like eating so early. I would think 5 p.m. would be the ultimate time for it but they are the boss here, as always.
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16 responses
• Canada
30 Mar 12
Dinner at 3:30?!? Wow, that's even earlier than most "early bird specials" that seem to start from 4:00 Why on earth do they want to eat so early? Do they start their days earlier than "average"? I remember my father used to start work at 7AM and he'd get home about 4:30PM. He always expected my mom to have dinner on the table or almost ready when he got in the door. My sister and I hated it because we weren't even hungry yet but, because he was hungry after work, we ALL had to eat. My father wouldn't tolerate anyone not being seated at the same dinner table so we were bound by his schedule. I'm the opposite now... I prefer to eat around 7PM and it works fine for my daughters because they are both in post-secondary studies and there are nights they don't get home until about that time. It allows us to sit and eat together and I really like that.
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
30 Mar 12
Ha, yes. It is quite early. There is no talking to her either, once she makes up her mind. I will tell her that about the early bird specials that start at 4, haha, I never thought of that one. She does start her day earlier than most and for what I'm not sure. She is up like 3:30 and then her naps start at about 5 ish at night and she sleeps til maybe 8 p.m. and watches an hour maybe of TV and falls asleep again. This early dinner thing has been going on a while though. I'm not sure if that's why her blood sugar is wacko or not, but I find it is just annoying.
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
30 Mar 12
BTW, "her" is my mother. :-)
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• Canada
31 Mar 12
Awwww ok, I sort of get it now As people age, they often sleep much less so your mother is running on an earlier schedule than a lot of people. If she has problems with her blood sugar, I'm surprised she isn't eating several small meals each day to stay regulated. Many people I know have about 6 small meals rather than the 3 meals per day that "most" people would eat. Maybe she can come to an understanding that her food needs are different to others in the family now? Does she refuse to eat unless everyone else eats with her?
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
That's early! In my family that time is for afternoon snack. It helps fill in the hunger for just a while. Then we have dinner at around 6pm. I don't usually eat anything else after dinner, even if I sleep at around 12 midnight. It's hard to resist but I have to. Haha!
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
30 Mar 12
I hear ya, I'm glad it is not only me who thinks this. Most of my friends agree it is early. Nothing can change her mind though. I'm sure when she orders out, people know her by the early birder customer, or something to that nature, LOL. If I eat at 6 p.m. then I won't have any snack, maybe just an apple if that.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
31 Mar 12
That really is early. There's no way you could convince her to have a good snack then and another one a few hours later? That's probably what I'd wind up doing anyway. I wouldn't be hungry for a meal that early, but I'd be hungry before bedtime.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
2 Apr 12
That's life sometimes. At least it's something you can deal with until you can change it.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
1 Apr 12
Nope, no way. So I'l have to do the compromising myself until I can move out.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
Yea I guess but wow why so early, it baffles the brain.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
31 Mar 12
Wow!! Have your dinner at 3:30??? That is a few hours after you have your lunch! Here we can have about meals anytime we want as we don't need everyone to sit and dine together. Usually my mom and I have our dinner at 6:30 or 7:00 pm. If I feel hungry after that I will have light snack with me. I know very well that eating right before sleep is bad so I think 6:30 is fine.I think it depends on what time we sleep. You eat early if you get to your bed early~(^^)
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 12
Absolutely correct! You may have your meals anytime you want. You got no choice right since mom control the meals time. Skip lunch and have your meals at 3:30 is a good idea but make sure you get something for yourself at night. Otherwise I am afraid you will get starved~(^^)
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
Yea, don't I know it. I might as well just skip lunch altogether and really call it lunch at 3:30 then a snack for a dinner at 6 p.m. LOL! Who says we have to eat breakfast, lunch and dinner in that order right?
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
or* really call it (typo)
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
30 Mar 12
3:30 for dinner, that's very early, unless you go to sleep not later than 8 p.m. or so... I can't imagine that I wouldn't be hungry at night after that, I guess I would eat snacks too. For me the earliest I have dinner is between 5-6 p.m. I have it between 6-8 normally, and it's usually something light, but at least doesn't leave me hungry at night.
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
30 Mar 12
I will sometimes eat at other times if the family isn't eating together but my dad has even told her several many times he was not hungry yet at the time she wants to eat. She does everything so different I'll tell you. One of a kind, LOL. She takes naps from about 5 til 8, and if she doesn't fall asleep again by 8ish again after taking her blood sugar she will stay up maybe an hour to watch TV with my brother at least. So old already, at 72. :(
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
30 Mar 12
Occasionally, I don't get to eat at lunch time so I'd eat around your dinner time. It would be a combined meal of lunch & dinner because I won't be eating more later... Perhaps just having a cup of tea with biscuits if I fell hungry again.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
1 Apr 12
I have been trying to compromise with eating some fruit and/or yogurt ( Greek, yummy!) in between and it is helping me, this past few days anyways. I made dinner tonight so I tried to make it more towards the 4 p.m. time, which is fine with them if I'm making it, LOL.
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
2 Apr 12
Greek Yogurt is delicious. I like the plain one and add some honey or raisins in them. I've been served those, mostly in middle-eastern style meals, as some kind of dips; similar to sour cream, but I think it's even better...
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Apr 12
Yes, I love it and it has more protein in it than other kinds of yogurt. It feels much thicker to me, as well. I get tired of eating the same kinds of foods year after year and this is a nice change up for me. I can't really eat raisins but i do love them. Yes it does have the same consistancy as sour cream.
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
i work at night so im used to eating my dinner at an odd hour.. i eat my supposed breakfast around 4pm and eat lunch by 10pm. when i get out from work around 3am, thats about time that i grab somethin for dinner then.. guess it's ok to eat twice or more than that. i used to do that before when i had morning schedule and its ok.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
Well, your situation is different cause you work and at those hours. There is no one working here at those hours so the time thing is really odd for me.
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
2 Apr 12
Wow that's early. But the earlier the better so whenever one wants to have an early rest in preparation for the next day, she or he can go to bed early. But for me, the earliest was 5:00 and I woke up at 12 and felt so hungry. I just drink a glass of milk and slept again.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Apr 12
I wish i could go to bed earlier for the net day sometimes but unless I'm staying at someone else's house for the night it isn't possible here either, cause the 44 yr old single brother has to have the TV on every single night watching it with his momma as if he were either the hubby or the lil kid. I'm not sure why he doesn't live elsewhere except he doesn't have a high paying job. :(
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
5 Apr 12
I think the earliest I ate dinner was 4 or was it 4:30.between that. Whatever time, however early I eat I still feel hungry afterwards anyway. Even if i eat at 7, i'd still feel hungry an hour later..i think the best time would be 6 pm.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
5 Apr 12
Yea, I still feel hungry after an hour too but if I eat at 3:30 I'm twice as hungry after that time, again. I just can't win for nothing, lol.
@joystick (1675)
3 Apr 12
I know that feeling, but I find no sooner have you eaten really early, then people still are hungry a few hours later.I find that eating early means that we also tend to snack all evening and that puts all the weight on again, defeats the object.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
3 Apr 12
It definetly does. I feel like I'm at a no win situation everywhere I go with the family situation sometimes.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
3:30 is too early to eat dinner heheh sometimes i would even have brunch (breakfast and lunch)at that time - yeah i know it's bad right? i need to change that habit. we usually eat dinner around 6 - 7:00 in the evening. well that is good of you to be eating snacks at night, since you eat dinner so early. you would really get so hungry by the time the night comes.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
no it's not bad at all, i like the idea of a brunch sometimes. i would rather not be resorting to the snacks though, or otherwise just be satisified with something very small. but i can't. oh well, what to do.
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Well, 5:00pm is the earliest I have eaten dinner. 3:30 is way too early for me.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
It is, and I wanna eat at a normal time, and be otherwise normal cause everyone expects me to be. How the heck do I do that, though, when everyone else here is not normal either.
@demibug (72)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
hahahaha. If it were me then, I wouldn't be able to call it a dinner at all. That time is for my afternoon's snack! hehehe. But I guess, it that is your situation, then you don;t have much of a choice. Just tell them that what you're eating is your midnight snacks since your dinner is so early! LOL
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
Exactly, I agree. This is ridiculous.
@tinjan11 (75)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Having a dinner for 3:30 is so early. It's a snack time for me and my family. We usually eat dinner together around 7pm.As far as I remember, our earliest dinner would be 5:30pm -6pm when there was a blackout when I was a kid.Sometimes, 3:30 is my lunch especially when I am busy having my duty in the hospital.Dinner dutring that time will make you hungry again in the evening.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
I am always hungry in the evening and that is the worse time to eat a big snack. I try to go small nowadays though and it barely works as I'm trying to not gain some weight back again.
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Yeah, I think 5 pm should be the earliest in order not to get hungry the whole night. If you eat your dinner at 3:30 pm, your stomach is already crouching at 9 pm.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
1 Apr 12
I agree, it's not that I want to complain either. I think there is so many quirky things about my family at times, i feel like I'm not in the right family. Maybe kidnapped at birth, LOL. Just kidding. I think.
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
My family usually eat dinner at 5:00-5:30 pm. I think 3:30 is way too early for dinner. You will wind up eating again 3 to 4 hours later. :D
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
2 Apr 12
Yes and thats is what I usually do too. I try to eat as light as possible so as not to gain more weight back though. Last night I only ate some yogurt and an apple but wanted something else before I went to bed again, only my will power held off thank goodness.