l o v e

Indonesia
May 16, 2012 2:14am CST
Love is a gift from God, So any idea for long distance relationship?
11 responses
@rashme317 (250)
• Philippines
16 May 12
yes love is indeed a gift from good,, long distance relationship is quite hard to handle, basing on my experience my boyfriend is miles away from me because of his work , both of us need to trust each other so that we will have a stronger relationship, we keep on communicating everyday, he calls me when he wake up and before going to bed, .. and right now im missing him much it's been two weeks since we last saw each other , hope i can see him today :(
• Indonesia
16 May 12
I feel the same what you feel rashme317 because my girlfriend and I are far away each other, sometimes I felt missed her much when I did not hear her tidings on one day. yeah long distance relationship is quite need to trust each other and besides that do not ever miss communication each other I mean keep on communicate every day no matter how busy we are. So do I, I hope I can see her too
• Philippines
16 May 12
goodluck to both of us.. hope you'll have s atronger relationdhip with your girlfriend
• Indonesia
16 May 12
You too
@aritahime (221)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
I myself don't believe that a long distance relationship will work. If it happened to me, I'm afraid that I can't trust my boyfriend. I'm afraid that he will find a better girl out there. But, I have a friend who succeed on having a long distance relationship, not a smooth relationship, her boyfriend cheated on her several times, they often had a fight, broke up and re-united, and so on. But, luckily she ended up getting married with her long distance boyfriend. Her Love story just like a movie. hahaha..
• Indonesia
22 May 12
hehe.. that was nice story about your friend aritahime... about the topic above, you know. what I posted it here what I am undergoing with. So, I really hopes this is relationship will work for me, I do not wish get any disturbing or obstacle from any things that quite make my relation loose.
• Indonesia
22 May 12
Good luck then! Hope your relationship will have a happy ending :D
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
as long as both of the couple in LDR can be loyal and trust each other, LDR is fine and okay..
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
16 May 12
love has nothing to do with god or being a gift.. if you most people are very ungrateful and don't appreciate the gift. This besides of the fact the long distance relationship discussion is started here daily for many times!
17 May 12
Successful relationships are made, not born. Be it a long distance relationship or not. Both of you should exert an extra effort in making your relationship last. You should both agree on a certain goal, and that is to make the relationship work despite the distance. Sure, there will be problems along the way but who said that relationships are always smooth sailing??? You need to experience rough waters to make your relationship stronger. :) I'm a hopeless romantic. I always belive that distance can make the heart grow fonder.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
I think it is really hard to be in long distance relationship because the couple that involve in long distance relationship need a long patience, understanding, trust and they must keep in touch to each other even they are in a long distance. I heard that there only few couples survive in this relationship but i think it still depend on the couple.
• Canada
9 Jun 12
Go for it and learn how it is :D Follow your heart but I don't know I have never been in a relationship D':
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
21 May 12
There's no other way but to strengthen your trust with one another. Perhaps it would be binding if there is commitment attached to it too. Love, no matter how distance or near, it must bring a positive outlook with the people involved. What a better way of a long distance relationship than what God does. He's in heaven, and we're here on earth.
@GemmaR (8517)
16 May 12
I do think that you're right when you say that love is something very special; and it is never something that we should be taking for granted. With regards to long distance, I think the internet allows us to keep in touch more than ever and this should mean that there is a never a time where we are not able to speak to the one who we love. Providing that you both make the effort to stay in touch when you agree to the relationship should progress nicely. Some people cannot cope with long distance, but if you feel as though you can then that is of course great.
@mervyn07 (437)
• Singapore
21 May 12
Long distance love is indeed a relationship that is hard to maintain but it can be consider as a test for true love
• Philippines
16 May 12
hello there! long distance relationship. well how do i start? i have had this kind of relationship once, but i never consider long distance relationship as complicated thing (since it already is and there's no need to complicate things any further).. i guess for us it never worked out because we lacked Trust to one another, we were always assuming things that weren't really necessary to think of. we lacked understanding, and one of us thinks and acts immaturely. so i have learned that if you plan to enter a long distance relationship, both of you needs one word - TRUST. and everything will surely go fine and work well for both of you! make sure you would never lose communication because that's vital for you relationship to continue and build more trust and love. last but not the least, PUT GOD AT THE CENTER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. those things are enough to work. believe me.
• Philippines
20 May 12
I am in LD right now and I can say that everything is really getting better and sometimes have a wave of misunderstanding and argument. There is no perfect relationship but making it better and learning from it, for me that is what really counts.