is it ok to have 2 girl friends at same time ??

I think that you just "revived" the forgotten love you had for your former schoolmate and you are just blinded by the thought that you used to love her. You have so many "what ifs" running through your head. Don;t you think it is being unfair to your girlfriend? I mean, there is nothing wrong with your girlfriend or with your existing relationship. So why make a trouble? If you continue entertaining your thought about your former schoolmate, I am sure that both of the ladies will be out of your life in no time and you will be left with no one. Now I ask you this--- Does your girlfriend deserve to be treated this way? What if the tables were turned- your girlfriend seeing her former crush back in high school then she finally decided to spend lesser time with you? how would you feel?

Dear Daman To begin with , i must tell you that, you have got a very confusing brain.Once it's occupied with something , not that easy for you to come out from the trance. Which we call basically a dual and confusing personality. However, as long you are not married you can continue but Indian society does not permit to have 2 spouse at a time.Being monogamy is always should be best for you.

Dear Damanpreet Singh! I have gone through your profile and came to know that you are just 26 years old. This is an age when you are filled up fill hormones which makes you to attract towards any good looking girl. The circumstances have made you a congenial atmosphere to get in fall with your girl who was your school crush. In my opinion you should ask yourself and get the answer if you are doing a right thing or a wrong thing. After having a relationship for 5 long years with a girl who likes and loves you immensely, I don't think it would be a proper thing to get into the love with another girl. Since you are an Indian and under our social circumstances you can't have both of them as your better halves as this thing goes against the law. You have to choose between the two and since you say that you love both of them, ultimately you are going to ditch one of them. So I feel before things go too late take some decision and continue your relationship with one of these two, which is the only alternative left with you. Just think if girl is having similar situation as yours will you tolerate that? Can you tolerate the fact that your girls are cheating you? Similarly your girls will get offended if they come to know about this dual affair of yours and there is every chance that you may loose both of them. In long run after discovering your affair with two by your girls, even if you settle with one, she will always have the dent of 'Cheating' by you in her heart which can be dangerous thing after your marriage. This is a serious issue which requires immediate attention and be sure that no outsider can help you in this problem and you and only you have to work on it carefully and consciously to arrive to a decision. In my opinion before your girls know about your dual relationship story, it is better o come to conclusion about the girl with whom you will be comfortable and leave the other girl. You can never sail in two boats at a time dear friend1 Wish you all the best! Thanks!

It's a general rule of the society that you should only have one and having more is probably considered cheating. I don't know about your place, but in our country it would definitely be an issue. In my opinion, most women would prefer to be the sole partner in a relationship. To answer your questions, it really depends because some people are open to it, having an open relationship. However, if you must pick only one, who would it be?

Hi, You should be looking at the situation from the girl's side. Is it alright for you if they have two boyfriends too? If it can be done then, go ahead but I'm sure, you would think twice before answering yes to the proposed arrangement. You should choose only one unless they agree to have them both in your life. If they don't, then expect fireworks in the future. Believe me, I've been in a similar situation before and it is never pleasant at all.

It's not ok to have 2 girlfriends at the same time unless they know it and they agree with it. If they are not aware of it and something happens and one of them finds out, you will be in a very difficult position and you will probably loose them both. I only did that when I was 20 years old, I had a short relationhip with a guy, I think we were dating for 2 weeks. And I met a new guy, more interesting and we started dating as well, but I couldn't choose. The problem is that, I was feeling guilty and I couldn't find enough time for both of them so I broke up with the first guy. My other relationship lasted for 2 months, I don't know if I made the right choice but I think I wanted them both for some time and it was a bit selfish, so I had to decide eventually! How can you find time for both of them? I hope it works out for you!

I am sad for that girl who helped you out of depression and been with you for the last 5 years. It's just sad how she'd think that you never loved her in the first place because you're back with the girl you loved before her. It's also sad that you couldn't see her worth but instead sought after your selfish ways. You should have cut relations with her before to proposing to this girl. You should have had the decency to at least let her feel that the relationship couldn't go much further instead of feeling that she wasn't good enough - she will think this once she finds out. Anyhow, there's never an easy way to break somebody's heart. But you got to choose. You cannot have everything. Have a great mylot experience ahead!

We cant tell you if its ok , you should ask the girls that , if you really love them as much as you claimed you will hear what they have to say and put their feelings into consideration . You are being selfish and love is kind, you are lying and love is honest. Maybe what you feeling is not love , not until you tell both girls the truth . You are betraying both woman trust and that is the worse thing a person can do to someone .

Do those girls accept it you have 2 girlfriends? And what does: proposal means? According to me it's to ask someone to marry you. I think you do know if it's ok or not, if you would find it ok you would not even think about asking it over here. The only thing you want is to hear from others it's ok, so you can blame others for your behaviour and put your consience asleep.

Hi friend, good to hear about love in your life. It is really hard to maintain 2 girls at the same time. As you mentioned you have same feelings with two girls and it is not lust. As well as your school gf accepted your love. If both of your gf meet at the same time, you will face some unwanted issues in your life.

Many person have secret relationship in their life. I can't tell too much about your question. I just tell my opinion about this. Maybe in other place in other country is OK to have more than 2 secret lover. But I think, It more easy if we have just one relationship only. In other word, It can make us easy to manage it

Its difficult to forget your past. Same has happened with you. But how long? You can't marry both of them. What if someone finds you with the other girl. Chances are both of them will dump you and you will feel devastated. What I suugest is confess your feelings to the girl who loved you in college. Tell her that she was successful in making you forget your old love but now she has returned and you can't stop thinking about her. She may understand and step back. Again, she may tell the other girl . At least reality will be in front of you.

If you love them both, fine, but you should only be faithful to one. Because that would create conflicts among the three of you. Just a suggestion.

Hi there! For starters, of course its not ok to have 2 girlfriends at the same time. You'll just end up hurting both of them, no matter how you say you love them. Think of it, the moment they found out that there's 2 of them in your life, they would be hurt. Of course, we really don't know how you really feel, all we can do is advise you which you can follow or not. But from my point of view, if you feel strongly to 2 girls, I don't think that its really love, maybe a strong infatuation. Then again, who am I to judge? But my friendly advise for you is that think things over, be sure on what you feel because if this goes on longer, you'll be ending up to hurting both of them

I think that having two girlfriends is fine as long as you are very clear to both that you are not commited to either of them. I would do some pros and cons thinking. What do you need? What do they have to offer? WHich are you really inlove with? Which are you just feeling gratitude and intimidated by?

Love is unselfish, as I see it. And I wonder what each of the girls you are with would think and feel if they knew that you have two girlfriends. I would be very much hurt. I think that your feelings are not as true as you think if you cannot do what is best for them.

To have 2 girl friends at the same time is totally immoral,and I think that may be you just like both of them but can not say"love",and I think you should have a single vacation and think about this situation,then after some days' relax and thinking you must can make it more clearer and know that which girl you love deeply,I think is good for all of you guys,if you really love your girl friend pls do not hurt her.

It's not bad to love more than 1 person coz you can't control your heart without brains. Brain is powerful. I'm pretty sure that you know what your girlfriend would feel if she'll discover that you have another girl. right? its painful, hurt... It's up to you if you have conscience. Just think of it. If your sister is having an affair to a guy like you. Would you feel happy? Well, for me, I would hate you. I know what you feel, I've been there. I once loved 2 person but I chose one. I learn to let go because its selfish to have them both. Just choose one. I know you're smart and know what the right think to do. Don't let your heart controlled your actions. Use also your brain. Trust me... And one more thing. Learn to endure your feelings.

Yes, it is wrong to have more then one girlfriend unless you two are not exclusive. You need to choose now before one of them finds out and you lose both. How would you feel if one of your girlfriends told you she had another man in her life? If you truly love someone you should want to make them happy and be faithful to them. Don't think one is too good for you. Follow your heart. Obviously if she thought she was too good for you then she wouldn't be dating you.

be a one woman man dude. You may love them both but if they found out you're not loyal, you may end up alone. You gotta choose whom you love the most and would be willing to spend a lifetime with.