Why Did You Leave Me Alone

@ARIES1973 (11426)
Legaspi, Philippines
November 21, 2012 10:02pm CST
I already prepared all the required documents regarding our upcoming training for the village officials of this municipality coming November 23 and 24. The training design, invitation, request for venue, and catering services. Everything was ready including the other minor things. So I am expecting that my supervisor will be there to assist me during the event. But yesterday, he told me that he cannot do it to the training because he has to attend training as required by the Regional Office. What does it mean? I have to conduct the training alone! Hopefully, I could perform the task well so that the village officials will not be disappointed with me. Have a nice day everyone!
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19 responses
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
I bet the training is already finished by now. So, how was it? As I know, you can do it alone. Besides, your supervisor will not be letting you conduct it alone if you can't do it. Meaning, he trusts you.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
That great! Next time, I bet you will be the one in charge again.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hi adnileb! Oh, yes! The training was a successful one! I was really nervous yesterday because I am worried how the people would act. Of course I am very new to this place but when the participants started to come, my nervousness was gone and I become at ease already. I am also happy because all the villages are well represented. The second day, which is today, my supervisor came already and he too was happy with the result. Thank you for sharing!
@june2248 (154)
26 Nov 12
Hi ARIES1973, how are you? I believe that you should not feel disappointed because such kind of a situation make you more confident and comfortable in your job. So always be positive,believe yourself. TK
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
26 Nov 12
Hi june! Yes you are right. We should not be entertaining negative thoughts. I was able to deliver to the participants what is expected of me. My supervisor was happy of the results. Thank you for sharing!
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
25 Nov 12
Aries, it is a pity that you have to handle the training all by yourself. Hope you don't feel panic, handle it with the best performance as you can. Maybe it is to test your gut. Who knows after you had conduct that training successfully, you can easily get promoted and earning much better. Try your best and good luck to you..
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
25 Nov 12
Hi myfb! I think I don't have to worry anymore because the training was quite okay and the result was fine. The participants were able to learn from it. Thank you for sharing!
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
22 Nov 12
You might need to talk to you supervisor, if he can spare some time to come with you to the training camp, since you, by yourself might not up for the task. If not, do the best you can, follow the guideline, and hopefully you can perform the training as expected. Don't be worry, maybe you are up for the task.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hi kingparker! Everything went out well. I am glad of the result of the training. My supervisor came today which is the second day and he is so happy with the result. Thank you for sharing!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hello, ARIES! I hope you did well during the training even if you were all alone. You should be given credit big time for all the things you've done just to make the training possible.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Nov 12
Shhh! I was. I wanted to shout yeheey! I've done it! I can see the happiness in my supervisor's face when he came this morning. Well, He should. Thank you for sharing!
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
23 Nov 12
We all have faith for you, and stress / worrying is your worst enemy. I think you can do this, and this could be a test for your boss to see if he wants to give you a raise, or promotion. I wish you luck, and canèt wait to hear how it goes for you.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hi ricki! Everything was great! And I am so happy! There is just one thing I was not able to do to the fullest during the two days. That is to participate in myLot, he he. Of course I have a lot of catching up to do. Thank you for sharing!
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Hi Aries, I think your supervisor trust you that you can manage it that's why he left you with those responsibilities. Good luck and do the best you can do.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
23 Nov 12
Hi lyn! I supposed too, he he. So far the training is ongoing and everything is fine. I can handle the people. I am presently assisting them in the writeshop. Thank you for sharing!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Nov 12
hmmm your boss knows you are intelligent and handle alone everything. They have the trust on you and they know you can maintain very well. So you get a chance to proof yourself so carry on my friend and BEST LUCK for it.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Nov 12
Oh, well, Thank you for that! Perhaps, he really thinks that way. Because if not, maybe he will be worrying about what will happen but as I've observed on the first day, he seems so relax, he just asked if through text message how was it going. And when I said everything is okay. He just replied, yeah I know it will. At least now, it's done and I'm happy with the result. Thank you for sharing surekharathi! Have a nice day!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
22 Nov 12
oh, don't worry,you can take that training well. if i were in your shoes, i would be happy when i take training alone...
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
23 Nov 12
Actually, I am already happy because the first day seems to be going so well. The village officials are very cooperative so I don't have a hard time explaining things. Thank you for sharing!
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
I believe that you have the ability to do the training the best you can. Your supervisor trust you that he can afford to do other things. It is a challenge for anyone in your situation. It is not about him now, but it's about you. You are qualified and have the finest ability to make it. I am just curious if you don't mind, what kind of training are you going to conduct?
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
23 Nov 12
Hi friend! Yes, and I am so happy that I was able to do it. As I am writing this reply, I am facilitating the writeshop. Thank you for this wonderful word of encouragement that you have shared. By the way, the training is for the village officials in my place of assignment. It is about assessment of their performance. Thank you for sharing!
• India
22 Nov 12
Hi friend, you got a nice chance to prove your talent. You have the ability to conduct the training and do it in a good way, it is really a great opportunity for you to express your talent , don't worry about you are alone, think you have the ability to train others in the perfect way and do it. All the best
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
23 Nov 12
Hi vid! Thanks God! The first half day went out well. I invited another speaker to help me with the topic and I'm so happy for the successful presentation. I got a lot of participants, 94% of the expected participants came and I am so happy about it. I can breath well now. This afternoon I will just be conducting the writeshop. Thank you for sharing!
• India
22 Nov 12
I think you will learn more and get more experience, if you do it alone. In case your supervisor helps you, he will get the credits and you may lose an opportunity to learn more. Hope it is happened just for your favour only and work with interest. I believe you can easily make it if you put your interest completely on the work. Thank you.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hi! I am glad because everything went out well. One of my worries is what if I cannot explain the topics well? But so far, I'm glad because the participants were satisfied with the results of the training. The people from this place are very cooperative and I didn't find it hard to teach them. Thank you for sharing!
• India
22 Nov 12
Hope you are well prepared for tomorrow's training. So what kind of training do you actually give the village officials? Is it something technical or anything else?
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
23 Nov 12
Hi Saishaana! I am teaching the village officials on how to accomplish some forms about performance evaluation as they need it to accomplish a report which is one of the criteria in some contest. I hope everything will turns out well until tomorrow. As for today's activity, I am so happy with the result. Thank you for sharing!
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
It's your chance to shine. If you'll look at it on a positive note, it is your chance to prove to yourself that you can handle this kind of event successfully. Just do your best! Pray for God's help! :-) Be thankful that you have a challenging task, some people have nothing else to do.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Nov 12
Hi friend! I should really be thankful because I can be able to prove my worth in the organization. Thank you for the wonderful tips. Have a nice day!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Nov 12
Hi Aries I think perhaps h e feels you can handle it well and he has his own obligations to attend to. I bet you will conduct the training really well and please the village officials too.We my lotters might well send some prayers out to get you doing really really really well conducting the training.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Nov 12
Oh, thank you so much hatley! I'm so afraid since this is the first time I have to do it myself. Besides I am new in this municipality and I am not very familiar how would the people would act on occasions like this. Hopefully, everything turns out well. Thank you for the prayers and for sharing.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 12
it`s okay aries.. you must be ready i think you can do it..
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
30 Nov 12
right..you can do it like my prediction you should be confident for your ability my friend
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hi adhyz! I also thought of it two days ago. And I really was able to do it. I can say that this is my first successful training! Hopefully, more to come! Thank you for sharing!
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Yes I know you can do it independently, It's an opportunity for you to manage that kind of situation so that next time you will be able to manage it confidently without any doubt feelings. Just be in yourself and keep at it ! :)
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Nov 12
Hi nelerkz! Thank you for that word of encouragement. Yes you are right, I should take the situation as an opportunity rather than a burden. It's about time that I show my abilities. Thank you for sharing!
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
22 Nov 12
You will you were there already and go on with it. Yes, they will not get disappointed at you believe me. You can win their smiles and greetings. Just do your best.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Nov 12
Hi mavic! I'm so glad for the support from my friends. This thing would be enough for me to gain enough confidence that I can really do it. Thank you for sharing!
@kat_2x (105)
22 Nov 12
I guess yes you need to do the job.. Im sure that your supervisor believe on your capability and trust you.. Good luck! I know you can do it! be confident and trust in yourself...
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Nov 12
Hi kat! Yes, I just have to. He really told me that he knows I can do it. But of course there is some part of me saying the other way. Well, hopefully everything will be fine. Thank you for sharing!