keep friends (a letter from a student)

China
November 22, 2012 5:45am CST
I'm a student from Hu Zhou Senior High School. I have a problem. I'm not good at keeping friends. I can make friends quickly but i will also lose them in as short time. I really want to have a longer friendship, but I don't know how. I would be grateful if you could give me some advice.
4 responses
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
It is indeed really hard to find a good friend that you can be with a longer time. I also have many friends but i can only tell that they are not a long term friend.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hello, laziocsu! Why are you losing your friends? I mean, do you just one day wake up and not find them interesting to be with? Or do you end up fighting with any one of them?
@sharryCD (121)
• China
23 Nov 12
There is a huge difference between making friends and knowing people. We will make friends with those who share the same interest with us, or those who have the similar charactersitics, hold the similar view towards a thing. Once we find that kind of friend in our life, we should spend time in nurturing this friendship. But we donot do these things on purpose. We talk with our friends just because we have the desire to share my feelings with that friend. I think this is the meaning of friendship: to be the true one here.
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Welcome to mylot, hope you will enjoy here. Anyway, if you want a long friendship it's just an acceptance for the both of you and help each other when someone is in need and whatsoever. Only yourself can intervene about it. It's just you on how to make it. Just be yourself and good. :)