What Do You Think about Keeping Your Private Life Off of Facebook?

@mythociate (21437)
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
November 30, 2012 10:01pm CST
On her FB-page, my mom 'shared' an image of a sign that said, "The Only Privacy Notice You Need about Facebook: If It's Private, Don't Put It On Facebook!" That's good for her generation and for most of my generation; but for Facebookers that grew up with 'Facebook being the closest thing they have to a "hangout" (what with their busy lives, & with Facebook on computers or -wireless being MUCH more-convenient than "getting cleaned & dressed-up to go out"),' using Facebook-posts against people is akin to 'following them around after school or -work.' What do you think?
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• United States
3 Dec 12
You could expand that to pretty much every internet hangout. It's really really hard to erase things from the internet once they're out there, especially if they've gotten posted to other places beyond their origin. So I agree, it's better to keep things private, especially if it can get you in trouble.
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• United States
1 Dec 12
I think that Facebook shouldn't be a person's primary hangout. Course I'm not on Facebook anymore so maybe I'm just speaking as a Facebook-hater, but I don't believe online relationships and conversations hold a candle to the real thing. In fact, increased use of social networking is linked to an increased risk for depression. Perhaps that's the mind's way of letting us know that this is no way to run a meaningful relationship. I agree with that sign, if it's Private, don't put it on Facebook.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
27 Dec 12
I don't like Facebook either, but mostly because my computer/power-setup is way too slow to use Facebook for more than one-or-two 'posts' per day (including 'saying happy birthday to people,' 'responding to a thing-or-two on the News Feed,' etc.) Maybe I can find some article on 'How to Facebook by Email,' & skip the whole browser-process (like I'm sure most of the Facebookers do by mobile instead of desktop).
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• United States
29 Dec 12
Maybe the solution is a new computer. Or, alternatively, you could Facebook less. Once again, I'm speaking as a Facebook hater.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
30 Dec 12
Yes. But where else is EVERYBODY I KNOW going to check-up on EVERYONE ELSE I KNOW?
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@marguicha (216916)
• Chile
4 Jan 13
I am of the old school and I value a lot my privacy and my intimacy. I could name a lot of new ways of doing things that shock me. Facebook is one of them. I thought at first that FB would be a good idea, but as soon as I understood it a little, I discovered that it was just another way of not communicating the important to the people who really matter.
@hvedra (1619)
3 Dec 12
FB and other social networking sites can be useful as a kind of on-going notice board but people forget that it is public no matter what your privacy settings - because someone could copy and share whatever you put up. That said, it is often those who are immature and idiotic IRL who are immature and idiotic on Facebook. It's just an extention of the school playground for them, the one they never left and are still running around in even when they hit middle age!
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
27 Dec 12
Makes me wonder if any of the people who were beneath Mount Vesuvius (when its eruption flash-froze everything) would've been embarrassed at what it caught them doing. That's what posting to Facebook does. It preserves everything you post like a safe-deposit box.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
1 Dec 12
I agree. I have seen lots of posts of my friends detailing their lives, some of which in my opinion shouldn't be shared at all, then when some people make snide comments they will tell them to piss off and mind their own business. For want of attention, or lack of something to do, some people would share whatever they think is worthy. But what they think is worthy is not always necessarily Facebook worthy. I always tell my kid siblings that whatever they put on the Internet, be it Facebook or any their social networking sites, will be there for a long time and can come haunt them someday. It can harm their chances for a good school, or a shot at a bett job, even some chances to be friends with some people.
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1 Dec 12
I think a good rule of thumb is if you wouldn't have the discussion at a family gathering, it shouldn't be put on your wall. If you wanna walk about your drunken party, at least limit the audience for it. And for the love of god, I don't wanna hear about your poop!
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
I agree with you. if you do know that something of your life is personal, it then must not be made public in internet social networking sites. the fact that people have accesses to everything only... we can no longer be be assured that even if what we post is private, it cannot be sure to remain as it is.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
1 Dec 12
I think that if something is too private to your life then leave t from the display of facebook., anything that public has a way of making its way around, there is no such thing as private when it comes to facebook.,
@dharanil (319)
• India
1 Dec 12
Mythociate, Posting personal information in FB is obviously a threat. I've read many news regarding, ' things happened because of sharing personal info. in FB. But its continuing. For me, The person who posts his personal info. is punishable, even the person who misuses the info. is not punishable.
• China
2 Dec 12
Well actually I agree with it,I never put my private life online,I think those secret should just keep it by yourself and someone very close with you.If you put your private life to Facebook then may be you will get hurt,so as for me I usually put my happy things to Facebook.
@mrsuniega (786)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
there is really should have a limitation on being public on Facebook. I know a lot here are being on public, posting pictures that should be private like naked photos, posting the area where they are right now. you know this really concerns me about security since there are some cases that a facebook user has been stalked all the way. Facebook is good but we should used it with limitations.