i dont think my dad loves me..
By IDear2Dream
@IDear2Dream (140)
United States
December 28, 2012 1:16pm CST
when i was little i always use to be around my dad and my brother and sisters alot we use to have fun and all my brother always use to get in trouble it was funny and as i started gettin oldermy father didnt pick me up like that anymore i would always call him ask him can i come over dad he said ok ill come pick u up i would pack my bag and have my clothes on waitin for him to come he would never show i use to cry and then ill fall asleep then when i call him ask him why he didnt come get me he would make up a whole bunch of lies and then around school time he would never take me school shopping.
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7 responses
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
28 Dec 12
Unfortunately parents don't realize how much they are hurting their children when they forget things like this or they neglect to do these things for their kids. It might be a big deal to you but to him it doesn't mean so much. Make sure you talk to your Dad and let him know how you feel. It's a good thing you have a friend like Gifts to help you out with these parental issues.
Now you are living with your grandparents and there is obviously a lot of love there for you.
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@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
Oh, I'm sorry you feel that way about your father. I'm sure he still loves you just as much, but a lot of things might have caught him up. Why don't you ask him for a talk, a serious one, so that you both could clear your minds over the situation.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
Maybe you feel indifferent due to some changes, but it doesn't mean that your dad doesn't love you.
Or else why not talk with your dad and open up what your heart desires.
It's always good to have a heart to hear talk with our parents.
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
28 Dec 12
Hi Idear2Dream
I am shocked to see this how can your dad do this to you when you were so happy with him in the past , are you sure he lied to you all the time ? if you are sure then i am shocked to see such a dad and pray to god not to give such a father even to my enemies. I pray to God to change his attitude towards you you also do the same .Hope for the Best .
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@arnold1428 (125)
• India
29 Dec 12
this is really something which we dont expect but there could be some reason behind it try to find out that then you will understand
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@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
29 Dec 12
Perhaps you and your dad could go out for lunch and you two could have a long talk together. Sometimes as children grow up, the relationship changes between children and their parents.
Does he give you money for school shopping? Does he think that you are now old enough to go school shopping on your own?
Perhaps he is treating you as an older person and you are not realizing it.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Feb 13
hi 1Dear2dream thats just so sad bu t I hope your gra ndparents do shower you with love. you father will wake up perhaps on of these
days had realize how badly hes been treating you. He should be taking you to see your siblings b ut remember who really does love you and be grateful that they do. God bless you and keep you happy always. welcome to mylot too.
frp,
hatley.
frp,
hatley.