Ooops! It is too hot.

@dpk262006 (58675)
Delhi, India
January 11, 2013 12:36am CST
Hi all! Please don't get mislead by the subject of the post.. Many of us prepare beverages/dishes of our choice in our respective kitchens. Supposedly, you have prepared soup or a gravy dish on any given day and you are going to serve it to your guests. Knowing fully well that as soon as the dish will be served on the dining table guests will start sipping it. My question is - Will you care to inform your guests that beverage/gravy dish you are going to serve is 'piping hot' and they should consume it with due care or will you leave this decision to the guests and would presume that it is for them to check the intensity of dish before consuming it. Your take on this please. Have a great day to all!
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
11 Jan 13
Hullo Deepak! And so, did you have guests or did you go out to dinner yesterday?Or did your beloved wife serve piping hot soup to someone who got scalded sipping it? Well! I drink very hot beverages [hotter than the normal person's that people almost find it terrifying]but I make it a point to announce that the dish is piping hot if it is exceptionally so.If it is decently bearable then I may choose not to.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
Hi Kala! The beauty of your responses and comments is - you always go deep into the discussion to read between the lines. I neither had guest nor I had gone out for dinner yesterday. But the later part of your observation is correct. You are very caring and show concern for others, this is the reason you announce before hand that the dish/beverage you are going to serve is piping hot. You know the intensity of a beverage more than the person who is being served. Thanks for sharing your views.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
14 Jan 13
Hello Deepak, How are you..... We are usually careful when we serve something very hot to children. We not only warn them but also help them in cooling down the dish or beverage because they are children. As for Adults, I think if they can see steam coming out of the hot dish or beverage, they don't need any warning.It just happens that we are too polite with guests and may warn them, but may forget to warn the family members,just like when a stranger pushes us, we polietly say sorry, but when family member pushes us even if by mistake, we react rudely, though we love them. As far as I know person serving will always warn in such cases, but may sometimes forget to do so, unintentionally, so should be forgiven for that and as they say every incident in life will teach you something so that you can avoid the same disaster next time. It depends on you, how good learner you are....
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
15 Jan 13
Thank you very much Deepak. And I wish that you will never have to face any such kind of problem in future and hope you will never have to say again.oopps!! it is too hot.......at least for food and beverages
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 13
You are welcome! Thanks for your wishes.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
15 Jan 13
Hi aps! Nice to see you on board. You are right that when steam is coming out, one should make out that dish is too hot to consume at once. In a family people start taking each other for granted that they sometimes forget to mention some basic things/basic courtesies. Yes, you are right that we should learn from our mistakes. Thanks for enriching the post with your wonderful response.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 13
Hi Dpk happy new year to you. I usually don't won't tell my guests that the foods are hot and to be careful as I assume that they are aware of it with the obvious steam coming from the foods. Most of my guests are good eaters and know when to attack the foods served.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
Hi Zandi! Happy New Year to you too. It means you leave it upto your guests to guess that the dish/beverage being served is 'piping hot' and if they want to consume it quickly, they should do it at their own risk. Thanks for sharing and joining us.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
I will tell my friends that it's really hot. And I will assume that my smoke coming from the dish is enough to give a signal that it's sizzling hot. Oh uh- I know how it feels
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
Hi Jai! As it is you who prepared the dish/bevarage you are in a better position to know how 'hot' it is. You telling your friends before serving shows that you 'care' about others. Thanks for the positive response.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
I think that they need to know. Otherwise, if they happen to touch the container and burns themselves, they might get mad and ask why weren't they informed about it.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
Hi jen! I hold the same view that it will in the fitness of things, if they are informed in advance about the dish, even if they see it steaming. Otherwise if they burn themselves them may get irritated and say something unpleasant. Thanks for sharing.
@wondlan (30)
11 Jan 13
I only know that i love food,beautiful food
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
It is good that you love food. Do you love piping hot food?
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
@SViswan (12051)
• India
12 Jan 13
Ha ha ha...looks like you landed in a soup somewhere :-P (pun intended). Did you serve a dish and forget to mention to your guest that it is piping hot? Being a mother and so used to reminding kids that dishes are hot, I automatically would tell the guests too ...especially if I see them about to eat immediately. But when I am a guest, I usually check out how hot it is before I take the dish. That's probably because I've got used to checking it for the kids.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Jan 13
Hi SV! Nice to see you here. I landed in a soup but in a different manner . I did not serve anything to my guest but I was served piping hot soup and me being absent minded sipped it without checking and burnt my tongue. It shows that you are very caring and while serving you would declare that the beverage/dish is hot. Thanks for enriching the post.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Jan 13
A simple warning to them that it is hot is a simple cared for my guess so no accident will happen. And I think even a child will recognize if it is hot when they see a smoke coming from the food.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Jan 13
Hi lyn! All I could gather about you is that you are 'very caring' and you care about others. You are right a simple warning will be helpful. Thanks for joining and sharing. How you have been doing? dpk
@celticeagle (160806)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Jan 13
I would hope that any of my friends have enough common sense to check such things before delving into any dish. If not its their own fault. I mean they are adults. I could see with a child or something but not other adults.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
Hi Cel! It means that your guests or whomsoever so are serving the dish should be alert enough to see the intensity, you do not feel it is for you to announce that the dish/beverage is hot and they should take it carefully. Thanks for kick starting the post.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
I do prefer to tell my guests that what I just served is too hot to consume right away. I would appreciate if I was told the dish is still hot if I were the guest. I know the dish would give off a bit of steam when it is served and it is only common sense not to eat it immediately when you say that but still I appreciate being told and would do the same for others.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
Hi Joli! You appear to me very caring as you do not forget to inform your guests that the dish being served is too hot and they should consume it carefully. Yes, you are right if you are being served something very hot and you are informed well in formed, you would also feel comfortable consuming the time. Thanks for your positive response.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
11 Jan 13
I might tell the kids to be careful. As for the elders, they definitely are supposed to be more well mannered and use their heads...
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
There may be some occasions when you might have been served piping hot beverage 'theside' did you feel OK consuming the same or did you wish that it would have been better if you were informed in advance. Thanks for joining.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
11 Jan 13
Unfortunately the only times i have been served such piping hot dishes, I have known that the dishes to arrive on my platter would be that way... as normally at home, we do never have had those piping hot dishes and it was only at the restaurants. Today, yes, I do prepare some soups but then I never have them piping hot... doesnt go well with my health.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
11 Jan 13
Hi, its my habit to make announcement of 'being hot' whether it is tea/cofee or these days its hot soup.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
Hi viju! Need I say you are very 'caring' or you would understand it. It is good on your part that you announce in advance that the dish is pipping hot and needed to be consumed carefully. Thanks for joining.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
11 Jan 13
Great to see you dear viju
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
12 Jan 13
Dpk - @sid - Tnx for your concerns and i'm so sorry as i couldn't give you more details of the situation.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
12 Jan 13
If I am serving something naturally it is going to be hot. If they take their time getting to the table it will end up being cold and they'll have to heat it in the microwave. If it's an adult I assume they know the food is hot/warm and to proceed with caution. If it's a child, I will tell them "it's hot and you should blow on it" I might even wait a little bit before dishing it up for them. Being adults we should have the common sense to know whether or not a dish is going to be hot, just by watching the steam rise from the dish.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Jan 13
Hi arieless! Yes, you are right that if a hot dish is not consumed immediately it will turn cold and will require to be re-heated in microwave oven. Yes, as an adult one should automatically come to know that dish is hot and be consumed with care. However, a small caution by the host will help. Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
I do tell my guests on the food that I had served them, most especially giving them a background on what they eat such as exotic foods. Sometimes, it’s also putting a notion that you are really hospitable and caring because you tell them whether the dish is hot or not. and how to eat it properly.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 13
Hi heay! It shows that you are very caring and you interact well with yours guests and make them feel special when they are in your house. It is a positive trait which is appreciable. Thanks for joining.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Jan 13
• Philippines
12 Jan 13
Thank you for your reply! yeah i try my best that i give them quality time and quality service most especially when they visit my place.
• United States
11 Jan 13
Hi! You always say that the dish is hot out of care and courtesy! You don't want to see any of your friends or loved ones get scolded!
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Jan 13
Yes, Sara you are right that courtesy demand that it be said that the dish is hot because the one who has prepared it knows it how hot it is. Thanks for joining.
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@vandana7 (99282)
• India
11 Jan 13
If I come to your place, and if you serve me piping hot dish...then you should be prepared to foot the medical bills. By the way...are you angry with me...I have been saying Happy New Year, Happy New Year, Happy New Year, and you are not responding... Something wrong?
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Jan 13
Hi Vandana! HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU! I did not receive or see any of your message where you wished me Happy New Year. In case, I missed your message my due apolgies to you. Normally, I reciprocate on being greeted. Back to discussion - if you have been invited and am going to serve you something very hot, in all probablity I will forewarn you that the dish is hot please consume it with care. I would not like to foot your medical bill on this account ..... Lol! Thanks for joing us. Have a grt day!
• Marikina, Philippines
11 Jan 13
Oh. I will leave the decision to the guests of course. We just know it by nature. I know this because we sometime ate at a restaurant and no one comes up on us just to say the dish they served is hot.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Jan 13
HI! Eating in a restaurant should not be equated with eating at home. In restaurant when we have ordered some hot beverage we are supposed to cautious before consuming it. But in our home, if the dish has been prepared by someone else, then s/he should inform us how hot it is. Thanks for sharing.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Jan 13
I do that with my soups all the time here. As I taste them for salts and things. Sometimes I burn my tougne. How are you theses days?
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Jan 13
Maria - You should be careful, while consuming hot soups and should not burn your tongue ......... You could check them by taking a small sample before sipping your soup. I am doing fine. How about you? Thanks for joining.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Well, better to inform them first before they'll gonna sip that particular piping hot beverages or gravy dish. I do not want to be blame after they'll sip it and will ruin their appetite. They are my guest and so they should go home satisfied with my dish.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
11 Jan 13
Yes, I would warn them. I would not want them to burn their mouths. I would say it in a friendly and warm way, so it doesn't come across as if I am their mother. Also, if a dish is spicy, I would let them know that as well. I would serve both a mild and a spicy dish, if I offered a spicy dish. I would be mindful of any allergies. If I knew that someone was allergic to seafood, I would make sure that I say that 'such and such' dish has seafood included in the sauce or whatever. Making sure that guests are aware of the contains and conditions of the meal that is being served to them is important. Many times when I have eaten at a restaurant, the waiter would let me know if a dish is piping hot or is spicy, etc. So, I would provide the same professional service to my guests at my home.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Jan 13
Hi Z! You appear to be very caring because you would not like them to burn their tongues, if your guests consume a very hot beverage or dish. It is good if you tell your guests in advance that the dish is spicy or you have used particular ingredient in it, this will help them consume or not to consume the dish. This way they can not complaint to you that you did not tell them about the ingredients in advance. Nice to meet you.