WHICH MARRIAGE IS MORE SUCCESSFUL, LOVE- MARRIAGE OR ARRANGED-MARRIAGE ?

Moradabad, India
July 22, 2014 12:37pm CST
Love is the beginning of marriage but it is not compulsory that after marriage boys and girls love each other with the same warmth.As the days pass the warmth of love cools down. It is not right with everybody but it is being generally seen today.Before marriage a boy is half mad after the girl but after marriage he does not spend his so much time with her as he used to spend before marriage. Before marriage a boy talks big to bring the stars and moon for the girl friend but after marriage he refuses to bring even apples from the market. Love marriage is a private thing but arranged marriage is a social celebration in which relatives and friends are invited to dinner. The whole society gives recognition to it. The biggest advantage of of love marriage is this that it ends the dowry system.
2 responses
dhwani mehta
@Dhwanim26 (9)
• Rajkot, India
1 Aug 14
This is true that boy changes his intentions after marriage but not necessary in each and every cases.Here both arrange and love marriages are successful but match of couples are done in heaven so god gives whosoever life partner it relies on us to make arrange marriage into love
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Sunil Kumar Mishra
@sunilmishra7756 (4272)
• Moradabad, India
1 Aug 14
Yes, you are right. Marriage is a sacred bond between two persons to spend life smoothly and to accompany each other up to the horizon. I think that after marriage the intention of the boy is generally changed. He thinks that he could get dowry if he would do arranged marriage. Greed is the main villain that breaks two hearts. The parents are also responsible for it. Thanks a lot for a good comment.
Hopefull90
@Hopefull90 (921)
• United States
25 Jul 14
There are some people who would do better with an arranged marriage because they are so bad at picking the right person. I have two friends from India who had pre-arranged marriage. One worked and one did not.
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Sunil Kumar Mishra
@sunilmishra7756 (4272)
• Moradabad, India
26 Jul 14
It is not easy in love affair to see behind the physical attraction.In arranged marriage many persons watch the faults of both. So in love marriage the chances of repenting are more. LOVE IS NEVER BLIND BUT LOVERS ARE BLIND. IT IS USELESS TO CRY OVER SPILT MILK. Thanks a lot.