Is love sweeter the second time around?

@resuri (116)
Manila, Philippines
September 13, 2015 10:41am CST
We should all know our limit and set boundaries. We are not all perfect as we all do mistakes. Do you give a person a second chance or maybe third or fourth chance?
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• United States
13 Sep 15
Not hardly - life's too short.
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@resuri (116)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Sep 15
We should all forgive
• United States
13 Sep 15
@resuri Not necessarily, it all depends on what the person did. Your title indicates 'love' and so you would give a love interest 3 or 4 chances...?
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@resuri (116)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Sep 15
@AbbyGreenhill For me, it depends on what the person did of I will give him another chance because we should set boundaries so nobody will take us for granted
@cgalavia (1436)
• Philippines
14 Sep 15
Though it's hard to forgive someone who have made mistakes still I want to forgive,give a chance.Yes ,I do believe also in love is sweeter in second time around,I have been in to that and now everything seems okay,what happened in the past is not as always as it is,there's always some changes.
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@resuri (116)
• Manila, Philippines
14 Sep 15
If the person commits to change his/her ways that is forgivable. I am glad that love is sweeter in second time around for you. You both love really love each other
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• Philippines
14 Sep 15
I would agree to most responses regarding forgiveness and qhat the other person did. However, in my opinion, I technically dont give second chances nor forgive that easy --it's a case to case basis. With regard to romantic relationships, I technically dont believe in second chances. Once it's over, then it is over. I feel that, I would never say over if its still worth workin for but if not, then there is no point in fixing what is not meant to be fixed. Also, i consider cheating a big no in any romantic relationships. In this case, why would I need to fix a relationship when I know the person is not happy with me -- that they need other people to satisfy them. This only mean that they dont need you and that they are not willing to work it with you and thats enough reason to end the relationship. Although some would reason out that they just got caught in a situation, but you should also know that they shouldve avoided those situations to begin with. Like what my partner always say, "you wouldnt put yourself in the situation where you will be compromise." Well my dear friends, he is right, and it is true. Hence, Im not saying that we shouldnt give chances to our special someone, but we need to consider what really happened that ended the relationship. So if you think that they have given you enough reason to take them back, then do what makes you happy.
• Portugal
16 Sep 15
if i really loved the person i would give him a second chance as long as the reason why we broke up wasnt cheating. if we broke up because he cheated on me, i wouldnt be able to accept him back because i wouldnt trust him again as before. so depends on the reasons of the break up ^^
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Sep 15
Why not ? If God is so forgiving then why can't we . And i also experienced this love is sweeter the second time around , after me and hubby had a big problem and forgave him . No need to elaborate on the problem though .
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@resuri (116)
• Manila, Philippines
14 Sep 15
Why not? Tell us your love story. It is very interesting. We should learn a love lesson from you lol
@mkrnex (785)
• Bangalore, India
14 Sep 15
21
Oh give them a second chance,but not third or fourth definitely.As humans are prone to mistakes it happens sometimes.But forgiving the ones we love is the greatest thing.
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@resuri (116)
• Manila, Philippines
14 Sep 15
Yes, God has forgiven us, what more we are as humans. twice is enough not third or fourth because they should have learned from their mistake then
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
14 Sep 15
I've never experience such but I'm open to the thought of getting back to my ex if God allows. I think it will be sweeter the 2nd time around because we have known each others mistakes and come to accept each.