Some commentators forget to write their own stuff

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Preston, England
October 30, 2015 6:18am CST
It is great to see comments and reactions to our articles. I do my best to respond to as much as possible and visit back those who have been so good to me, though it is frustrating when they haven’t added new discussions of their own to be able to start interacting with. It is possible here to gain income just from commenting on other people’s posts so some members don’t write too much themselves, which is fine. Arthur Chappell
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@yukimori (10143)
• United States
30 Oct 15
I don't forget to start discussions. I choose not to start discussions. Sometimes I have a limited amount of time to be here during the day. Sometimes I get carried away having fun in a few threads my friends started. Most of the time I just feel bad about starting discussions because I'm really bad about keeping up with the responses other users post on them. It's not fair to everyone else, so I avoid it. Maybe I'll feel differently when I'm finally caught up on my existing ones. I'm getting a bit better, but I still have a lot to go through.
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@vandana7 (99376)
• India
1 Nov 15
May be right now, more discussions means more choice?
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• Preston, England
30 Oct 15
@yukimori that's fine - I'm sure everyone does what they feel best with - your stuff is great
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• Preston, England
2 Nov 15
@vandana7 absolutely - the more we write on different subjects the wider our chances of attracting attention
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
30 Oct 15
Some of the users here are very good in starting new discussions, while some of the users start few posts. If depend upon from person to person. I agree with your point that those who come and respond to your posts, you feel like reciprocating but if they have not started something new, you cannot reciprocate.
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• Greece
30 Oct 15
I have taken a quick survey and it appears that people tend to make more comments than posts. It is quite hard sometimes to think of a new topic.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 15
@41CombedaleRoad - It is more or less correct that posting comments on discussions started by others is far more easier than starting our own posts. A new discussion, if it has to be meaningful requires application of mind and it is not easy to start a new discussion each day. I fall in this category. I start less discussions and respond more to others.
• United States
30 Oct 15
@41CombedaleRoad I can always come up with topics, but if commenting takes less time and pays the same, why work that hard?
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
30 Oct 15
I run into the same situation here and there. I know you don't need to write to earn, but I feel like returning a visit is only polite and if they have no posts, I feel thwarted.
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@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
31 Oct 15
I agree.
• United States
2 Nov 15
Yes, I feel the same way, but I have found that looking through their other comments allows me to add to the conversation.
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• United States
30 Oct 15
I only start a discussion when I have something to say. Alright, so I tend to have quite a bit to say about a great many things, but I usually can find a discussion on which to reply to quench my need to spout out words.
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• Preston, England
30 Oct 15
I tend to have too much to say in life so this is my best way to express myself without constant chatter
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@iamshane487 (1139)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Oct 15
Yeah, I am encountering that way where it's tough to see the current post of the members who commented our discussion. They should post more and earn more.
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• Preston, England
30 Oct 15
not everyone has the time sadly and posts in themselves don't earn us anything but they need posts for people to react and respond to. Each new post is a fresh canvas for everyone.
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@poehere (15126)
• French Polynesia
30 Oct 15
I see a lot of discussion with hardly any comments. I like to write and also comment. But right now I find that some of my discussions don't draw a lot of attention. So I like to comment instead now.
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• Preston, England
30 Oct 15
it can be cyclical - your own writing certainly deserves attention @poehere
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• Preston, England
30 Oct 15
@poehere I don't check a post's length - I start reading the first few lines. If it stays interesting I reach the end.
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@poehere (15126)
• French Polynesia
30 Oct 15
@arthurchappell Thank you so much. I draw a little but I draw a lot more when I comment on other stuff. I don't draw a lot of attention to my own stuff because I think people don't read long posts much.
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• Canada
30 Oct 15
I think it's an unfortunate truth, in this type of community, that some folks simply won't take the time to compose new discussions. It's easier (and quicker!) to swoop through and comment on other people's thoughts. Granted, it takes more effort to come up with something interesting or original to say but, as you mentioned, the effort can certainly open the door to much more interaction... and that benefits everyone
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• Canada
30 Oct 15
@arthurchappell I totally agree! I've only come back to myLot within the last few days, after being here for years in the past. I've yet to start a new discussion, since my return, but I'm still figuring out how I can fit myLotting back into my daily routine. As you say, other responsibilities do have their place... but I'd definitely like to write here more. Crossing my fingers!
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• Preston, England
30 Oct 15
they often simply don't have the time due to other responsibilities. I could reply to a dozen read articles in the time it takes to write one
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@vandana7 (99376)
• India
31 Oct 15
Aw...this was katerina's grouse so I started coming up with junk posts every day... a couple. I would rather not. Today I could not come up with a single post because I did not know what to write about.
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@allknowing (130942)
• India
31 Oct 15
I have noticed there are many who do not write many posts but interact well. As long as there is activity I suppose that makes one's day here.
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@allknowing (130942)
• India
31 Oct 15
@hereandthere You participate well. I have seen that. I like to write posts as ideas just flood my mind sometimes
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• Preston, England
3 Nov 15
@allknowing my notepads tend to get swamped with my initial ideas for posts
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• Philippines
31 Oct 15
@allknowing i hope i'm part of those who "interact well." i wonder how sites like these would fare if there were no supportive audience like me?
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@Gina145 (3949)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
30 Oct 15
I haven't done much writing myself here lately. The only writing I've been doing is for my bonsai blog. Time to get creative
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• United States
30 Oct 15
Some people come up with some really good discussions and it's fun to interact. For me, I find it hard to come up with interesting things to talk about
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
30 Oct 15
Each to their own I supposed. Some like to write and some to comment - there's room for both approaches here.
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• Preston, England
30 Oct 15
diversity is the spice of life - it is good that the site is flexible enough to make both approaches work
@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
30 Oct 15
I tend to be quite sporadic when it comes to writing new discussions. A lot depends upon what I can make of the current news items.
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@Issa22 (86)
• Makati, Philippines
30 Oct 15
I'm a newbie here and It's kind the like it to comment and like some of the post rather to post but I do some discussion also..
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@slund2041 (3314)
• United States
31 Oct 15
It would be nice if everyone would post as often as they could, so it will give us all something new to respond too.
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@sofssu (23662)
2 Nov 15
I feel that way too sometimes.. I usually like to comment on as many discussion they have as possible.. but after a point there is nothing much to say on then old discussions.
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• Preston, England
2 Nov 15
Especially if others have commented first and much that you might have said has already been covered
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@sofssu (23662)
3 Nov 15
@arthurchappell That is true.
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@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
31 Oct 15
But isn't it annoying when you go visiting their page and realise they've added nothing new to comment on!
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
1 Nov 15
Wow, that's a point I haven't actually thought of, people would actually want to read more posts from me. I always thought comments and responses were less intrusive, cos if I make a boring response, then at least they are not obligated to comment. I also struggle to come up with topics, am just not a very interesting person unfortunately... :(
@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
30 Oct 15
yeah I spend more time reading and commenting on other people's things rather than writing my own
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• Preston, England
30 Oct 15
I try to get a balance between the two
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• United States
30 Oct 15
I don't know the "magic sauce" here. I am writing twice per week and commenting twice per day now. I wish I knew the correct focus.
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