It Happened Again!

@bluesa (15022)
Johannesburg, South Africa
November 23, 2015 6:58am CST
It happened again, yes it did. Yesterday I woke up thinking about a friend my sister and I had not heard from in about a month. He is that sweet friend who will send you a - have a great day - message, with a cute picture. But he met a lady he adores and so of course his main focus became her. So, anyway, I woke up thinking of how I used to appreciate those messages from him, I told my sister and she said, yeah those messages had added to her day too. I then went to make a cup of coffee, and as I got back to the sitting room where I had left my phone, the screen lit up, and lo and behold, it was a - have a great day - message, with a cute picture from that friend! I called to my sister and she went to check her phone, and she had gotten the message too, I said to her, can you believe, I had just been thinking about him, and after a month of silence here comes a message, she looked at me and said, I wish you would stop doing that, because, when I dream someone is going to phone, they do, when I dream that we're being invited somewhere, it happens, when I think of someone, they tend to contact me. I don't know why, and it does unsettle me, but it happened again yesterday. Have you known someone is going to phone before your phone rings? Have you dreamt things that then happen? Have you thought of someone and then they contacted you?
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
23 Nov 15
This happens to me all the time, I look at the phone because I know it's going to ring and sometimes I stand up and go toward the entry door because I know that someone is going to knock. I have dreamed several times things that later happened.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
24 Nov 15
@bluesa It's so long time that this happens, I am okay, this happens many times each month. My friends use to joke asking me if they are safe or if I had weird dreams about them.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
And are you okay with that happening, @LadyDuck ? I feel it unsettles me for the day.
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@JudyEv (342145)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Nov 15
I think the times it happens to me is just coincidence. I'd like it to happen more often. That would be cool.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
23 Nov 15
Yes I have even been in the process of calling a friend when their call to me comes through, two minds that think alike. lol
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
Hehehe, those moments make me jump! I keep catching a friend of mine like that and he says I need to stop already :-D.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@JudyEv , it is strange and yes, a little spooky, I think it is because I am never certain of when it is going to happen ,so it throws me a little each time it does.
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@JudyEv (342145)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Nov 15
It's strange isn't it? A bit spooky.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
24 Nov 15
Three is a saying in Hindi, which if loosely translated will be like it -"if you remember someone with your heart, that person may visit you or call you" so you were remembering your friends and your thoughts reached him through telepathy and he sent a text message to your. I think there is some kind of telepathy which works between two people. It happens with me many times if I remember a relative or friend, I would get a chance to meet him even if not at each others homes but in the,market or street.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
24 Nov 15
@vandana7 Have not you heard - kisi ko Dil say yaad karo to vo mil hi jata hai.
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@vandana7 (100603)
• India
24 Nov 15
@dpk262006 ..no. Actually, there is a rat troubling us right now. So will I get it if I think of it?
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@vandana7 (100603)
• India
24 Nov 15
Really? :) I did not know that?
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@allknowing (137801)
• India
25 Nov 15
This has happened to me many times, specially with my husband where we think of doing the same thing which we had not thought of in years sometimes.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@allknowing .That is wonderful that you and your husband are so connected, it is special.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
23 Nov 15
yes. sometimes a person's name would cross my mind then i would get a text or an email from them later or the next day or within the week. i check my phone now and then i case a missed a message. but when i put it down and leave it, that's when it beeps.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
And do you also find that unsettling? I feel unsettled when it happens.
• Philippines
23 Nov 15
@bluesa not really. but if i dreamed of them before they showed up or i bumped into them or they emailed or sent a message, maybe i would, but that hasn't happened to me yet.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
@hereandthere , yeah, when I dream someone is going to phone and invite me somewhere and they do, I feel extra unsettled, good it has not happened to you.
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• United States
23 Nov 15
My youngest daughter and I tend to be on the same wavelength. When I get a text or call from her I always respond with "I was just thinking about you" (which is true). If I text or call her she responds the same way. Nice that you got your "great day" message from your friend
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
It is great that you and your daughter have that link. Thanks, I was happy to get that message, just a little unsettled that it came through so soon after I wondered how it was going with said friend, after such a long silence from him.
@sofssu (23662)
30 Nov 15
It used to happen to me a few years ago.. the funny thing is I would know the name of strangers too who would call me.. just before the phone rings.. I was so afraid of that .. that I started to pray about it and then the occurrences stopped.
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Dec 15
@bluesa It was indeed. But now I feel that I did not receive a gift which was given to me.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
1 Dec 15
@sofssu , it is a catch 22, a person does not want to feel unsettled, but then a person wonders if there is or was a reason for it.
@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
1 Dec 15
That must have been nerve wrecking. I am glad that those occurrences stopped for you.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
24 Nov 15
I'm a great believer in the Law of Attraction.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@valmnz , when things like this happen, then I think there really is something to it too, Val.
@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
24 Nov 15
Now how about dreaming about Mr right arriving at your door
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
25 Nov 15
@bluesa oh I so wish all girls find Mr Right - I dream that for my daughters every day, and they are getting on in life and getting set in their ways too. I want hundreds of little grandchildren so I hope its in the stars that they do find that Mr
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@Inlemay , both your daughters are still quite young and might find the right men yet, the men would have to be worthy of them though. I hope they do find them and you get to be a doting Grandma.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@Inlemay , Hi. I have so many goals, that Mr. Right does not factor in my life, and the older I get the more set in my ways I am. I would rather dream lotto numbers :-D.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
24 Nov 15
Yes, not often but now and then. If I ever dream of an air disaster or something I will definitely pay attention to it!
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@Fleura , I guess that is the worry for me, if a person can dream they get a phone call and it happens, then what if the next thing is something more important or scary than that.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@Fleura , or run like an Olympic sprinter from it all!
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
25 Nov 15
@bluesa Listen to your subconscious I think!
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
24 Nov 15
You should be grateful you have that power. Its ESP and not everyone has it. He felt you missing him and decided to let you know he was OK. My husband and I know what each is thinking and when younger and we were apart we knew when the phone rang who it was. Its a marvelous thing to have.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@PaintsOnSlate , it is an amazingly strong bond you and your husband have, that is truly wonderful. I guess it just unnerves me a little when these things happen, but, sometimes it brings a smile to my face too.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
23 Nov 15
its really nice thing and feeling while it happened, but with me something different happened and its that :-- if i meet some person first time then i feel that i have seen before, and some thing which happens in front of me, which i feel already happened, and feel that this is second time though its first time.and some scean of TV which i say, become true even i not watched it before and don't know about it.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
You are experiencing a strong sense of deja vu, as they say. Many say that we live more than one life. I am not certain of that.
@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
@birjudanak , deja vu, is, for an example, when a person sees a building for the first time, but feels that they have seen that building before.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
23 Nov 15
@bluesa what is deja vu and what they. Say I not understand what you say sorry.
@babaraimc (1310)
• Pakistan
23 Nov 15
it is amazing, it mean if you start thinking about "Shakira" , she will call you??? lol it happens sometime , i think with everybody
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
@babaraimc . Unfortunately it does not seem to happen when I think of famous people :-). It only happens when I think of friends and family.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@babaraimc , haha, I think we will end up chatting on here either way. :-)
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@babaraimc (1310)
• Pakistan
25 Nov 15
@bluesa ok, i am a sort of your friend start thinking about me, lets see , i will call you tomorrow or not
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@Traceyjayne (1784)
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 15
I did dream of someone that I hadnt seen in about twenty years and then the next day I bumped into them.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
29 Nov 15
Now that is uncanny! Were you a bit unsettled, or did you think it was just a coincidence?
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 15
@bluesa to be honest I was a bit unsettled at first as it had been so long since id seen her ...., maybe if it had been a few months I would have thought it was coincidence.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
23 Nov 15
Is this a case of mental telepathy, the process of transferring thoughts from one mind to another?
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
26 Nov 15
@bluesa I do also experience dreaming for a person that I have not been seeing then the next day I will see him.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Nov 15
I am not certain what it is, I just know that sometimes I will dream a family member has phoned and the next day they do phone, or I think about a friend I have not heard from in a long time and a message will come through from them, or they will phone.
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@suzzy3 (8341)
26 Nov 15
Yes I have , it is weird that two or three ,all we have to do is think about each other and the phone goes or someone knocks the door for a visit. My husband say he thinks about me intently and I normally ring him. My mother in law used to say she was expecting my call , then I would ring her after thinking about her. She knew when I was going to ring.. She has gone now and I really miss her. I think if you are close with certain people you do get a connection. Cannot explain but it definitely happens.
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@suzzy3 (8341)
27 Nov 15
@bluesa I have always been able to do that with certain people. I used to walk towards the phone before it rang. My Mum used to say that's incredible , and pointed it out after that I stopped .
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
27 Nov 15
Yes, it does look like that for many, that thinking of someone close seems to bring about contact. I cannot explain it either. I am sorry about your mother in law. It is lovely that when your husband thinks about you, you somehow know to phone him.
@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
27 Nov 15
That happens to me. One example was years ago, I had not heard from my sister in law in awhile and I was going to write her a note. Just as I sat down to write it , the phone starts to ring and it is her calling to catch up.
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@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
27 Nov 15
@bluesa Yes, it does.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
27 Nov 15
That is a woah moment if ever, sitting down to write that note and the phone rings. It leaves a person wondering.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 15
That is really nice. I would not be spooked by it but would enjoy the contact and that they too had been thinking of you!
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
29 Nov 15
I was happy to hear from him, it was just that it was so odd that as I mentioned to my sister that I had not heard from him in a long time, that there his message comes through. But, I guess we connected somehow that morning, and it is nice he seemed to be thinking of me that morning too.
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Nov 15
Oooh yeah or you have a phone in your hands you want to ring someone and the person rings
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Nov 15
@Missmwngi , yeah, exactly, that happens and a person thinks woah! :-)
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Nov 15
@bluesa Oooh yeah or even you want to send a message and the person sends first he hee
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@DeborahDiane (40321)
• Laguna Woods, California
26 Nov 15
That happens to me, too. It is a strange feeling!
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
26 Nov 15
It really does leave a person wondering, and catches me time and again.
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• Laguna Woods, California
28 Nov 15
@bluesa - I always feel strange when that happens. Maybe we all have a little ESP.
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