It's hard to trust someone in the present when you've been hurt in the past..

Surrey, British Columbia
April 26, 2016 11:09pm CST
For me,it's really hard to trust someone that i love to ,since i was hurt in the past with the one i love.Specifically,in a relationship status and i have been trusted him through believing his promises that i expect it was true then i failed .In fact,i should deserve someone better to whom i can trust again and not a liar one.However,i had a hard-time to believe from someone's promises recently .well,i don't know if i can trust again because i don't know if i can handle myself thus i am scared to be hurt again and again. Inspite of that ,i can still smile and cheer up life to the fullest thus every good and bad times happens with a reasons. how about you?happy mylotters. i am looking forward for the sharing emotional past that affect the present decision to trust .
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@MGjhaud (23246)
• Philippines
27 Apr 16
unfortunate events are inevitable, we can only hope that everythings going to be ok and will not happen again. learn from those people and move on..
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@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
27 Apr 16
Yep, the right decision is to move on
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@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
27 Apr 16
We have to trust someone. It can be difficult but in time we will become trusting even though we've been hurt before.
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@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
27 Apr 16
Yeah in time..
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@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
27 Apr 16
It is normal reaction. It is a defense mechanism i guess, once youve been hurt it is natural for you to be cautios and be skeptical so that you wont be hurt again. But youll be able to eventually, when you healed. Its good that you can still smile. That is what you should do, its not because weve been lied and hurt to that we will also stop our world coz of it. Life must go on..
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• Surrey, British Columbia
27 Apr 16
absolutely right,thank you.