Doubts and anxieties

By sofs
@sofssu (23662)
August 7, 2016 11:33pm CST
All of us have doubts about ourselves or our undertakings at some point in our lives . We could doubt our potential and our resources, and even our strengths. Some of us are frequently nagged by self doubts. Doubts lead to anxieties and worry. They cause us to lose faith in ourselves and in what we do. To give into worry and doubts like being a traitor to yourself. Is there a way to stop doubting yourself? Feed your faith. If you are a Bible believing person load yourself with the word of God that relates to your situation and feed your faith. If you are not, feed yourself with self belief. Talk to yourself about your strengths. Convince yourself that you are capable. The more you feed your faith the more you will starve your doubts to death. Have you ever tried this? do you thin k it would work for you?
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
Doubt occurs if you do not have a firm belief on something. Doubts are discouraging and causes us to make poor decisions. If we have doubts, we cannot make good choices in life. We cannot move on smoothly. The best thing to fight doubt is to strengthen our faith. Believe and have trust in Him. If you are a strong believer, you can fight all your doubts.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@magallon doubts and faith do not go hand in hand. Doubts come when we focus on things other than God.
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@magallon If we could do that life would be so beautiful..I can testify to that.
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
@sofssu So that means you really have to focus on Him and give everything to Him.
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• United States
8 Aug 16
i reckon that goes 'long with the native american proverb - choose which wolf to feed. i've'd lots 'f conversations with myself 's i've 'd the need to re-invent my life o'er the past few years.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@crazyhorseladycx And I bet you have come trough strong.
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• United States
8 Aug 16
@sofssu one ne'er really knows how strong they're 'til they come 'cross those potholes. i hope that i'm stronger...'n not jest delusional, lol.
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@crazyhorseladycx I know that you are very strong someone in your condition would have given up and have been tied to being bed ridden. Nope, Never for a minute thought you were delusional lol
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@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
8 Aug 16
Your post is very inspiring, I have some strengths and one of them is patience, I have endless of it. The problem is that I forget about my strengths and I forget to tell myself that I'm capable of doing things right. When I remember to tell myself my strengths, I get motivation and become more hard working. I better starve my doubts and I better do it now. Thank you, brother :-)
@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@stringer321 I am glad you were inspired. We all need that from time to time. Wish you the very best. :) I am a woman.. just for your information.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
8 Aug 16
@sofssu I don't really mind about the gender now, because we discuss about something neutral for that matter. I'm a man, just for your information. Aww... I called you brother, lol. So, thanks, sister.
@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@stringer321 I have no issues if you call me bro.. I didn't want to mislead you though LOL
@skysnap (20154)
8 Aug 16
Switching from doubts and anxieties to something progressive.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@skysnap for those who go through this, it might be the most difficult task.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
When in doubt,....
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
@sofssu always. lol
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
such a good thing to do, feed ourselves with faith.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@ilocosboy Yes, feeding your faith starves the doubts and anxieties.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
This is why I saturate my heart and mind with the Word of God, it is the best way to build up strong faith.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
@sofssu Amen!
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@salonga In tough times it jumps up within us and becomes a prayer, our refugee our source of strength and a promise to hold on to.
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@annierose (18926)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
Faith and prayers can move a mountain. I am a firm believer of God and I know that whatever we ask in His name, believe it and it will come.
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@annierose (18926)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
@sofssu That is a thing we should not forget.
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@annierose Sometimes when fear grips our soul and worries fill our mind we forget this.. This is just a tiny reminder.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@annierose So true.. ask believe that you have received and do not doubt in your heart.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
Yes, i believe and is doing this My faith in God is what i really hang on after doing all that i can do for a concern . And He really does answer .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Aug 16
@sofssu Yes , we are so blessed .
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD I am glad you hang on to him.. believe me he has a strong arm and the scripture says that it is not short that he cannot save you. How blessed we are!
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@jstory07 (134238)
• Roseburg, Oregon
8 Aug 16
You ave to beleive in yourself and believe in your strengths.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
8 Aug 16
It helps if one actually thinks about it clearly, spend a little time to think about it.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@stringer321 True it does but most of us hardly care to understand our thinking processes.
@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@jstory07 True, believing in oneself gives the confidence to move ahead in life.
@LadyDuck (457249)
• Switzerland
8 Aug 16
You cannot be free of doubts, there are so much that we do not know. Self belief helps, but we cannot remove all the anxiety from our life.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@LadyDuck self belief helps live life, doubts , fear and anxiety kill life.. we do not have to be struggling with them all our lives.. freedom from these is what makes life happy and striving for that freedom is the aim of better living.
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@LadyDuck Why burden yourself with the problems of the world., will it solve anything. The best I can think of is to do what you can and be happy..
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@LadyDuck (457249)
• Switzerland
9 Aug 16
@sofssu How can be live a relaxed life when we look around us?
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
8 Aug 16
I'm good. When in doubt I check the facts. When anxious, I do deep breathing.
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@DianneN Good but what if the facts make you doubt more?
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@sofssu (23662)
10 Aug 16
@DianneN That is really good.. so you don't worry much? Its the same here.. I never worry too much about anything,even while I am going through tough times.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
10 Aug 16
@sofssu Nothing bothers me much at my stage of life anymore. Except worrying.
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@just4him (305417)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Aug 16
Great advice! I think I do this most of the time. I do have my doubts though, but most of the time I'm squashing them with faith.
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@just4him (305417)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Aug 16
@sofssu My doubts are becoming fewer as my faith rises.
@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
8 Aug 16
@sofssu keep that faith and positive thinking flowing and you won't believe what you can accomplish. It does work.
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@HazySue Never has faith or positive thinking let me down. Not even once, because my thoughts are based on His word.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
9 Aug 16
@sofssu it is as it should be. I also have a tremendous amount of faith.
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
9 Aug 16
Anxiety is very common as I have found out recently.. My anxiety was work related.. Years of dealing with people's emotion pushed me to the corner ..But knowing the cause of anxiety is important to be able to manage it so it won't get any worse..
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@epiffanie If you have a good handle on your emotions with a few techniques that can easily be adopted you can handle anxiety.. self doubt strikes at the base.. the very foundation of your beliefs.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
8 Aug 16
I just give it to the Lord and say, "Lord, I can't figure this out, I leave it to you" and he never lets me down but of course he doesn't always give me the answer that I want lol
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@BelleStarr He never lets anyone down or never lets go.. he know our every need. What better way to deal with doubts and anxieties.
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
8 Aug 16
the mind is a strange thing, this might work for some people, not me though
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@Jessicalynnt It works for those who believe, those who let it work for them. In fact there is a scripture whcih says exactly that .. Eph 3:20 Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us
• United States
8 Aug 16
I think it works for me. I try to start my day off with thanking God for my blessings and then try to keep myself motivated by being positive (as best I can be)
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@sofssu (23662)
9 Aug 16
@Marilynda1225 IOf yopu strat that way it sure has to work for you. It just fills you with all the strength you need for that day.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
8 Aug 16
Make confidence By prepare well deliver fluently And Win the hearts
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@shshiju we were not talking about public speaking. More to do with self belief at a general level.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
9 Aug 16
@sofssu Lol Yes . But only confidence ( self belief )people can do that.
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@JESSY3236 (18886)
• United States
8 Aug 16
I think we will always have doubts because we are human.
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@sofssu (23662)
8 Aug 16
@JESSY3236 Doubts will arise we don't have to be saddled to them all our lives.
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