Advice

Lancaster, Pennsylvania
April 7, 2017 8:15pm CST
It's been awhile since I been on here. Anyways I've been single for several years and I met this woman and I want her I am trying my best to get her. Mind you I am a lesbian, and this woman does not go that way but mind you she did kiss me sometime. She tells me she's all she wanted in a man but I am a female. So I am in the process of turning into a male. Also I do anything and everything for her. She has broken up with her ex and he wants her back like she does not want him back. It's worried that he is still living with her because his parents do not want him in their house. I do not know what to do about her, I want to keep fighting for her to see if she wants me. At times I want to get give up. What would you do if you were in this situation?
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4 responses
8 Apr 17
I hope you are in the process of being a male because that is what you want and it's not for her. If its not what you truly want you will end up resenting her for making you someone you're not. Maybe you need to take some time out to discover who you are first away from her.
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• Kolkata, India
8 Apr 17
The situation is new for me. May be what you are doing is a really good thing that you are doing out of love. How long its been that you guys are with each other? And since you say that she is not lesbian, so do you think she is going to accept the relationship properly? Fisrt see all of these and then take a decision. The decision that you are taking is a big one.
• Lancaster, Pennsylvania
9 Apr 17
We are not together but we known each other for over a year.
• Kolkata, India
10 Apr 17
@hulkiie52411 two years is not much.. Still.. So are you guys trying to be together now??
@Shavkat (137312)
• Philippines
8 Apr 17
I think you need to take the time first. It should be in mutual understanding between the two of you.
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• India
8 Apr 17
Only if she is agree with you
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