I Met My Evil Aunt and Her Rude Lawyer Husband: “What will you say about their role in this world?”

@Shavkat (137313)
Philippines
May 31, 2017 6:10am CST
Some of you had read that I am away from home for a few days. I had my mission to talk with my evil aunt on regards to my late father’s share once the family house will be sold. Fair enough that they will give us initial down payment for buying another house and pay the rest of the inheritance once the family house will be sold. Thus, it is not final yet. Bu we are going to ask to put these concerns into a black-and-white agreement and be done by a lawyer. Well, you might find it weird talking with my evil aunt and her lawyer husband. Here are the weirdest and rudest things happen before, during and after talking with them: 1. We need to have an appointment talking with my evil aunt before going to their house; 2. My evil aunt’s husband lawyer watching a movie so loud that we can’t hear each other; 3. My brother and I were eating at the dining table with my evil aunt. All of a sudden, the husband lawyer cut the conversation and asking to move out from the dining table; and 4. My evil aunt was so eager for us to go away and the meeting is a time constraint. I really can’t wait to have the inheritance and cut the bond of being a family with them. Their professionalism is not real and people think they are. But it wasn’t in real life. “What do you think about their role in real life?” Image Credit: pixabay.com
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23 responses
• United States
31 May 17
I think they sound exactly to a tee like my evil sister and her husband. They are both involved with lawyers, both working for them. There is no end to their wicked evil ways against me and my son. Their quest for unrelenting and unfounded vengeance in life against those who are good is astoundingly distasteful, to say the least. They are money hungry vermin, a blight on this earth. I pray you will get free of them very soon. I too have cut all ties with mine.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
My family and I planned to cut it as soon as we get the inheritance. They are really evil and tried to follow their conditions. I firmly disagree with them. I still have the right to do this.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
@TiarasOceanView I agree. I feel so bad that they treated us this way. My late father is guiding us. They should respect us for demanding what is right.
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• United States
31 May 17
@Shavkat They have no respect only for their God of money. And they believe they are superior when actually they are less than the vermin.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
31 May 17
I think and my advice for you is get your own lawyer if you could afford one when dealing with them, I had seen these types before.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
31 May 17
@Shavkat so you were here in my city the past days to talk to them?
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
@louievill Yes, I went there for a few hours.lol Since their time is so precious but it wasn't.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
Don't worry, my friend. They can't persuade us with their own terms. We had talked with good compromise in terms of how to deal with my late father's share.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
1 Nov 17
Okay, I agree, needing to make an appointment to speak to your aunt is really odd! (Did she believe she needed legal representation present for you to talk with her?) Let me make sure I understand this, please... You and your brother made an appointment to see your aunt. While trying to talk with her and eat a meal her husband had the television up so loud you couldn't understand each other. Then, her husband said the meal was over and excused everyone from the table? (okay, I am sure I have something wrong here. That makes no sense!) Then your aunt told you she has no more time free to talk to you... after you making an appointment specifically to talk to her? Okay, even if I am misunderstanding something here, that is very bizarre behavior, especially from someone who claims to be family! (If I were to encounter behavior like that, I would be wondering 1. Are these people sane? 2. If they are sane, what games are they trying to play, with me taking the place of the plaything in the game? 3. Should I have hired an attorney to come with me to be sure I am not being lured into a position that will allow them to strip my inheritance without me being allowed/able to protest it? I am not an attorney in the U.S. but I have had over nine years of legal training, Shavkat. I could be mistaken, but I bet there are some old (obscure) laws still on the books in the Philippians that confer some advantages to your aunt if she can create the right kind of set-up to use them against you. I KNOW there are very old and almost un-remembered laws still on the books in every state here that can help win court cases if one party knows about them but the other party doesn't. Some of the old laws are ridiculous by our standards today, but when they were voted into law, they were considered odd, but not out of the question... I hope you have an attorney who knows what he is doing!
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Nov 17
It is nice that you were able to read this concern of mine. Some of the passage appeared to be unclear. Perhaps it was a long story. Let me try to simplify the past events.lol It is not normal for the family and relatives to ask for an appointment in meeting them. It wasn't like a client and salesman type of appointment in the business world. In my evil aunt's case, we need to ask for an appointment before going to their house. It was silly since we are their immediate relatives. When my brother and I came to their house, my evil aunt and her husband (a lawyer) treated us differently. At first, we were talking and having some snacks in the dining room. My evil aunt can't wait and started to discuss the sharing of inheritance. They were asking us to move out from the family house and rent an apartment for the meantime. At that moment, I said that it is not possible. We need to have the complete share before moving out. As my evil aunt's husband heard about my statement, he abruptly asked us to transfer in the living room, which is just adjacent to the dining room. There is a TV installed in the dining room and he intentionally blasted the volume high. The effect, my evil aunt, brother and I cannot able to hear each other to finalize the agreement. That's so rude for her husband to do this act. We felt disrespected just because of turning down their suggestion of renting an apartment.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
7 Nov 17
@DaddyEvil You don't need to apologize, my friend. Unfortunately, my family and I cannot cut the tie with them. We still need to deal with the inheritance issue. After this week, my siblings and I will go to my evil's aunt's house to settle things up. Cross fingers for that.lol After being settled, they cannot hear from us anymore.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
7 Nov 17
@Shavkat Okay, I see now, Shavkat. I apologize for misunderstanding part of your discussion. (I think it was the way you explained what happened that caused me a problem, not the length of the discussion. When you further explained it here, I did understand what you meant. Thank you for that!) I believe I would stay as far away from your aunt and her husband as I could, if I were you. (I don't mind confrontation, but when it is family, things can become complicated. SMH!) I am glad you and your family did find property you like for your new home. Hopefully, after you move from your present house your evil aunt won't bother you anymore!
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
i can't believe there are real evil people in this life. i hope you will get your fair share, kabsat. the nerve of that lawyer! why didn't you bring your own lawyer?
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
It was an initial talking with them. We just need to know what's running through their minds. Actually, it wasn't fair for one part of the house. They will not include the payment for it. But we can't leave the small house; thus we are going to remove it once moving out from the family house.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@ridingbet My mother was so mad about it. Now, they are harassing us again. It is unbelievable. They can't wait for us to move out.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@Shavkat yes that is a good idea to remove any appendages that you added in the house. actually, anything that you built in the house, you should remove it.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
28 Jan 18
Shavkat, my heart goes out to you. Families show their true colors when it comes to inheritance.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
4 Feb 18
It is sad to have such a story. But, I hope it will be fine soon.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
5 Feb 18
@Hannihar I agree. Well, they can't see the huge impact that issue strikes at them more than in our side. It is totally unacceptable acts. I hope they will still know 'bad karma.'
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
4 Feb 18
@Shavkat Shavkat, it usually works out one way or the other in the end. It is very sad when you see people's true colors and they do not understand that in the process they are not only trying to screw you but themselves as well.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
31 May 17
Hope you get your things seen to by competent lawyer
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
Actually, my evil aunt's husband is one of the best lawyers in our country. He is rude towards us.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
@BettyB The real truth, no. I don't totally trust them.
@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
31 May 17
@Shavkat He may be a good lawyer but do you trust him?
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
31 May 17
It is better not to have such people as your family members. I am sure that even your enemies would have treated you better. At least things are getting sorted out a bit
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
1 Jun 17
@Shavkat I hope it happens soon. It is better to stay far away from such people
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@Nawsheen I agree. It needs to stop.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
I agree. After the meeting with the evil souls, things had been heard and agreed in one goal. I can't wait to cut the tie with these people soon.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
31 May 17
i can abide by #1, but doing #2 and #3 is rude.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
Indeed, my friend. They were so well-educated. I can't understand why they acted like pigs.
@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
@hereandthere They are the evil relatives and can't help asking why money changed the fun and loving people.
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• Philippines
31 May 17
@Shavkat some people prioritize their colleagues. i guess profession is thicker than blood.
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
I feel sorry for them for treating you this way.I would remind myself not to treat my nephews and nieces this way when they grow up. It's bad enough that I didn't spent time much with them when they were young. It's sad about going on your way cutting your ties with them. But then again there are bad relatives in the world, greedy ones. This is why Mother moved away when she was young.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
They were so greedy but pretending they weren't. Once we got our share, the relationship will end and they will never hear from us anymore.
@LeaPea2417 (36677)
• Toccoa, Georgia
6 Jun 17
I fully understand what you are going through, as I have an evil uncle who has put my Mom (his sister) through legal hell. But, my Mom did win in court. We have had to cut family ties with him and his kids which is sad, but he brought it on himself. So, yes you cutting ties with your evil relatives after the legal stuff is over with is good. They will just have to accept it that they are no longer a part of your life.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
It was really sad situation.They had caused so many heartaches lately.There is no need to continue the relationship. It seems similar to your mom's situation.For us, we have to deal with 8 siblings of my father and their family. In time, this will be ended. They will not hear anything from us anymore.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
10 Jun 17
@LeaPea2417 It is really sad thing to happen. But I think there is a reason for everything.
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@LeaPea2417 (36677)
• Toccoa, Georgia
8 Jun 17
@Shavkat It is very sad when there problems like that within families.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jun 17
I guess you need a lawyer of the calibre of Prez Dudirty! hehehe
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
I hate DU30.lol I will find more sensible than him
@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Jun 17
They are not human beings. Are they the imprimatur of the property of your parents? Have you already signed an extra - judicial partition? How much is the cost of that property and how many will be the heirs to share the money? They are all arrogant, in short "bastos".
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
You perfectly said it right. They are so rude. The concern is still within the family circle. We are trying to compromise things up. But I really can't understand why they had changed so much and greediness took their soul.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@cacay1 Not only that, my friend. They love pressuring us to move out from the family house. In fact, they haven't given my late father's share.
@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Jun 17
@Shavkat It seems they are not your relatives by blood. They are so greedy.
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@Ruby3881 (1963)
• Canada
2 Jun 17
It's sad that family treats you so poorly. I am sorry you have to go through this, especially when you're grieving.
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@25life (190)
1 Jun 17
we are gradually forgetting the true meaning of relationship and becoming more and more materialistic.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
That's a good example for them who were being controlled by money.
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@rusty2rusty (6751)
• Defiance, Ohio
31 May 17
Sounds like some real weirdos. I hope you are done with them soon.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
I hope, my friend. They are not really good to their bloodline. But they are more luxurious with other people.
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@1hopefulman (45121)
• Canada
31 May 17
They seem to lack respect for their family members and were very rude to you and your brother. Not pleasant people at all!
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
It was a really unacceptable act from a lawyer. They seem so pleasant in public places but in reality, it is not.
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@allknowing (130518)
• India
1 Jun 17
Don't deal with them directly. Get a lawyer yourself. No use trying to analyse them
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
It will be done, my friend. As soon as we had some documents needed to get the initial payment of share.
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@DianneN (247205)
• United States
31 May 17
I would use my own lawyer. Something doesn't sound right with them.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
I agree. Don't worry, my friend. My family and I will request a black-and-white document for the final agreement between them.
@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
31 May 17
I can see why you want to cut the ties with them. Some people don't realize how rude they are, but I have a feeling your aunt and her husband know. Maybe they hope you'll give up on getting your share of the inheritance.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
31 May 17
I am sorry for them. We can't let them get my late my father's share. In time, bad karma will strike on them sooner or later.
@magnumopus (1647)
• Singapore
1 Jun 17
They are "fake news" in real life since from the look of it both of them are "fake people". Yes, I hope that your agreement will be reduce into writing for evidentiary purposes and to record your oral agreement in case of any legal disputes in the future.
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@Shavkat (137313)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
You said it right. They are fake people and good in deceiving others. My family and I are so alert to what they wanted to do.