WILL YOU DRINK AND DRIVE THIS CHRISTMAS?

@rainbow (6761)
November 30, 2006 7:38am CST
This was sent to me by a friend and I cried my eyes out. Please read it and pass it on. On the last day before Christmas, I hurried to go to the supermarket to buy the remaining of the gift I didn't manage to buy earlier. When I saw all the people there, I started to complain to myself: "It is going to take forever here and I still have so many other places to go... "Christmas really is getting more and more annoying every year.How I wish I could just lie down,go to sleep and only wake up after it..." Nonetheless, I made my way to the toy section,and there I started to curse the prices, wondering if after all kids really play with such expensive toys. While looking in the toy section, I noticed a small boy of about 5 years old,pressing a doll against his chest. He kept on touching the hair of the doll and looked so sad. I wondered who this doll was for.Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: 'Granny, are you sure I don't have enough money?'The old lady replied: 'You know that you don't have enough money to buy this doll, my dear.' Then she asked him to stay there for 5 minutes while she went to look around. She left quickly. The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand. Finally, I started to walk towards him and I asked him who he wanted to give this doll to. 'It is the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for this Christmas. She was so sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her.'I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus will bring it to her after all, and not to worry. But he replied to me sadly. 'No, Santa Claus cannot bring it to her where she is now I have to give the doll to my mother so that she can give it to her when she goes there.' His eyes were so sad while saying this. 'My sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mummy will also go to see God very soon, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said: 'I told daddy to tell mummy not to go yet. I asked him to wait until I came back from the supermarket. Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He then told me:'I also want mummy to take this photo with her so that she will not forget me. I love my mummy and I wish she doesn't have to leave me but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister............. Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.I quickly reached for my wallet and took a few notes and said to the boy. 'What if we checked again, just in case if you have enough money?''Ok' he said. 'I hope that I have enough.' I added some of my money to his without him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll,and even some left over. The little boy said: 'Thank you God for giving me enough money' Then he looked at me and added:'I asked yesterday before I went to sleep for God to make sure I have enough money to buy this doll so that mummy can give it to my sister. He heard me.I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mummy,but didn't dare to ask God too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and the white rose.' 'You know, my mummy loves white roses' A few minutes later, the old lady came back again and I left with my trolley. I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when i started. I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind.Then I remembered a local newspaper article 2 days ago,which mentioned of a drunk man in a truck who hit a car where there was one young lady and a little girl. The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-assisting machine,because the young lady would not be able to get out of the coma. Was this the family of the little boy? Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the newspaper tha the young lady had passed away. I couldn't stop myself and went to buy a bunch of white roses and I went to the mortuary where the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wish before burial. She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest. I left the place crying, feeling that my life had been changed forever.The love that this little boy had for his mother and his sister is still, to this day, hard to imagine. And in a fraction of a second, a drunk man had taken all this away from him. Now you have 2 choices: 1) Send this message to everybody that you know. 2) Or ignor it and act as if it never touched your heart.If you send this message, maybe you will help prevent someone drunk to go driving. Let me know what you think please, did this story make you think twice?
26 responses
@cvarvell (1116)
• United States
30 Nov 06
wow. I dont drink
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@rainbow (6761)
30 Nov 06
me neither, especially not if I have my car. If I did remembering this sad story would hopefully make me think twice.
• United States
1 Dec 06
Thank you for sharing that, even though it was very sad. I never drink. If I did, I would not drive. All we can do is pray that others will be touched in a meaningful real way, and realize that drinking and driving do not mix.
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• Australia
1 Dec 06
yeah i dont drink either, i just stay as the sober driver
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@udayhase (173)
• United States
1 Dec 06
"I went to a party, Mom" I went to a party, and remembered what you said. You told me not to drink, Mom so I had a sprite instead. I felt proud of myself, the way you said I would, that I didn't drink and drive, though some friends said I should. I made a healthy choice, and your advice to me was right as the party finally ended, and the kids drove out of sight. I got into my car, sure to get home in one piece, I never knew what was coming, Mom something I expected least. Now I'm lying on the pavement, And I hear the policeman say, The kid that caused this wreck was drunk," Mom, His voice seems far away. My own blood's all around me, as I try hard not to cry. I can hear the paramedic say, This girl is going to die." I'm sure the guy had no idea, while he was flying high, because he chose to drink and drive, now I would have to die. So why do people do it, Mom Knowing that it ruins lives? And now the pain is cutting me, like a hundred stabbing knives. Tell sister not to be afraid, Mom tell daddy to be brave, and when I go to heaven, put "Daddy's Girl" on my grave. Someone should have taught him, that its wrong to drink and drive. Maybe if his parents had, I'd still be alive. My breath is getting shorter, Mom I'm getting really scared. These are my final moments, and I'm so unprepared. I wish that you could hold me Mom, as I lie here and die. I wish that I could say I love you, Mom So I love you and good-bye. The above is a poem from the Mother Against Drunk Driving petition. This is what I think of when there is drinking going on at a party, etc.
@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
that is so awful and scary - you made me cry again. Thank you for sharing this with us all. I'm giving you best response because sometimes people just read what the best response was and I wnat everyone to realise the true extent of how their actions can affect others!
@rainbow (6761)
4 Dec 06
copy poem or not - if it helps someone to avoid the horrors ofdrink driving then it's worth it. This was onlt a copy story but it's cuaght a few eyes! I put your copy poem on a bulleting on myspace to all my friends there, if we pass things like this on maybe those bad attitides will change. Anyway - you made a big effort so you deserve the best response!
@udayhase (173)
• United States
4 Dec 06
Thank you very much, although I probably don't deserve it, considering it's just a copy of a poem. In any case, if anything will, this poem helps people realize the pain and anguish a single bad decision can cause.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
1 Dec 06
I don't drink and I certainly hate People who drink and drive they don't seem to realise what they cause with that and I wish the law would look out for them more and stop them by taking their lisence away for more than just 12 months
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
I think anyone who gets caught deserves all they get and should be severely punished. Vehicluar manslaughter should be treated in the same way as normal manslaughter - in England it carries hardly enough prison time at all, around 2 years and then they get let out early for good behaviour, it's discusting.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
13 Dec 06
Yes I know and it awful they have taken a Life and they can just carry on living
@rohit89 (1967)
• India
1 Dec 06
no i dont drink....and i also suggest all my mylot friends to not to do soo......wish u all a very happy christmas in advance have a nice day..........
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
thank-you, please remind all of your friends how important it is! Hope you have a good christmas too
@itsjb07 (356)
• India
1 Dec 06
nope....thank u for u'r information
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
thank you for caring enough not to do it!
• Portugal
1 Dec 06
I drink or drive. I donĀ“t drive drunken.
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
good, please remind others that you are with of the dangers. Thank you for your reply!
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
1 Dec 06
You made me cry rainbow. Its such a sad story. Usually I never read this type of stories cos I just cant forget. Thankfully, I or anyone in my family dont drink. I will send it to all my friends via email. Thanks a lot for this nice eye opener.
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@jaginfo2006 (1757)
• India
1 Dec 06
well first thing i dont drink
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
good for you - remind your friends please.
@nanhegujral (4632)
• India
1 Dec 06
I want to celebrate this christmas at home and not in the hospital so I will not drink and drive.
@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
thank-you, let's hope others are so far sighted!
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
1 Dec 06
Wow,that really tugs at the heart strings! I am not a drink driver,infact I rarely drink at all and refuse to drive even after one drink.There are so many innocent lives taken by these selfish,stupid people!I really think the laws need to be alot harsher than they are at the moment!
@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
please read the poem udayhase posted on this discussion - it's terrifyingly honest. Tahnk-you for caring and for your understanding of how this can so easily affect anyone.
• India
1 Dec 06
i dont drink.. so no question of drinking & driving
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
ggod for you, please remind everyone else about how dangerous this is, thank you for your support!
@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
1 Dec 06
this is very touching...gives you a new grasp on reality doesn't it? I do drink but I NEVER drink and drive.I know it could be my family that suffers one day. It makes me want to cry when I think that could have been my own grandson..If you must drink...DO NOT DRIVE DRUNK or better yet just stay at home and drink!
@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
It's scary isn't it? I sobbed my eyes out, it could be any of our families any day of the year but Christmas seems worse somehow. Have you read the poem udahase posted - that's terrifying! Please read it and pass both on to everyone you know before the parties really get going! Thank-you for caring!
@vinaykant (812)
• India
1 Dec 06
I read ur whole article so i deside i will not drink on this chrismus and if i drink then i will not be gofor drive. Thanx dear.
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
I know it was horrible and scary, I sobbed my eyes out although it's something I'd never do. You can see why I had to pass it on. Drinking in mederation is not too bad but to try and drive a car after a drink is crazy. Tests have shown that even a half pint will affect a lory drivers judgement so there is little hope for the rest of us. Hope yout holidays are happy, I did not mean to stop you drinking altogether, just remind us the harm we can do.
@rishaayu (339)
• India
1 Dec 06
I will niot yesterday only i sae that wat can driving an ddrinking can cause and it is not good so my advicrto al dont do it
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
bless you, it's so scary I hope you get over the shock of it. I'm glad you would never do it, please tell allyour friends about what you saw - it may just save someones life. Thank-you for your reply, it must have been hard for you.
• United States
1 Dec 06
Every since I had my daughter i've really haven't had a taste for liqour at all. On Christmas Eve and Christmas drinking will not even be on my mind. I will be with family and enjoying nice clean fun without having to drink to let myself know that im having a great time. It hurts me that people drink and drive drunk knowing that at all second they can kill an innocent person, family etc... or even themselves. I wish people didn't it.
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@Priceless (1277)
30 Nov 06
Wow. Theres no way I will
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@rainbow (6761)
30 Nov 06
Thank-you, lets keep our families safe this Crimbo!
@brians (679)
• India
30 Nov 06
nope... I dont drive affter I get drunk :)and this christmas I will not drink
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@rainbow (6761)
30 Nov 06
Thank-you, let's hope we can make more people aware of how dangerous it can be.
• Italy
30 Nov 06
Gwa, that's so sad...T_T I'll give this to my friends which drive..As for me, I will not drink
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@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
thank you. I know it's sad but if this awful story can in some way help another family then it's worth us all cringing a bit.
@cnetboss (2475)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
Drinking while Driving is a No NO.
@rainbow (6761)
1 Dec 06
ggod for you - remember to remind everyone you know!
@JoeyCa (1810)
• Belgium
30 Nov 06
I never drink and drive, it's immoral... people who do not only risk their own lives but also other people's live.
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@rainbow (6761)
30 Nov 06
That's how I feel too, it disgusts me, that's why I had to show this story to you all, you never know maybe it'll help someone.