What is HAPPINESS?
@RitzzView (2994)
India
March 17, 2021 12:43pm CST
Feels like its been long that I felt happy.
Don't get me wrong, I do laugh and smile. But the happiness felt by true attention, affection or care, its just different and beautiful.
I do have parents who love me, but seems like they have expectation of me they love or when I need support they kinda just are unavailable even being near.
Happens Sometimes.
And by my "happiness=care" definition you mistake me for wishing a romantic partner, let me tell you, that thing was from my sir and a meow.
It never lasted.
EVERYONE around is trying to pull us down, EVERYONE just wants attention care and stuff, no one gives back.
IDK i'm just in that one of the mood where I realize how many people have let me down..friends, sister, cousin...what's left? Oh yes, everyone are covered.
So yes, happiness just looks like a mirage, maybe I will have it this time, I have a good friend. And they let me down again.
What was i expecting?
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@kaylachan (60151)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Mar 21
I think you're too hard on yourself. True happyness comes within. If you want it, you need to find it within yourself, instead of expecting the worst from others.
@RitzzView (2994)
• India
17 Mar 21
I think that's a tell tale, within and all. Humans are social animals. Expectations are natural. So.. IDK
And, anyways, given up hope on happiness. dont wanna find within or even without.
But thanks for your words. I appreciate it
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@kaylachan (60151)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Mar 21
@RitzzView It's not a tale, how you feel about yourself directly reflects how others will treat you. So, as long as you can be happy with yourself, you can find happyness with others, because you'll attract those types of people.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
18 Mar 21
I feel you can be happy as long as you feel it from within. You can always see the glass full. I know many times we don't get love and care back. You need to find out what thing makes you happy and keep doing that instead of having expectations from people. Take care
