Run, Duck, Dive

@mom210 (9041)
United States
March 19, 2022 2:18pm CST
My 16 year old daughter has her first job at a local discount store. I got a phone call from her a few nights back, that I never ever expected to get. At the other end of the phone was her meek little voice, kinda scared. She said, Mom, I'm okay, but I didn't want you to hear this from anybody else." There's been a shooting at work. One boy came in and shot another one dead. My area has a side door and we just ran out, so we are all fine. But the store is on lock down. You cannot come here." She knows me so well, my first thought was to jump in the car and race down there as fast as possible. Grab my little girl and hold her as tight, as she can stand. It gave me a big knot in the pit of my stomach, My knees were week. Nothing like this had ever happened in our area, it is usually nice and quiet. I had thought she was perfectly safe, that the area she was in was a good area. Questions appeared in my head, should I have not let her go out and earn her own money when she asked? Protected her a little longer? That's just it, when they are little, like 2, 5, 8, or 10. I can protect them, only let them around people I know, go places I go. When they are bigger, it is not so easy. When she came home, I did grab her and hold her tight. I am proud of her, she said when they heard the shooting start they ran outside. She kept her head and was quick to respond. There were 4 or 5 shots fired. The boys were only 16 years old. I bet their parents expected to see their kids come home that night too. But neither will be home, one is going to jail, the other to a morgue. It is so sad that a 16 year old boy felt the only way to resolve their problem was to grab a gun. The incident turned out to be over a girl, one boy had slept with the others girl and got her pregnant. She asked me, anything like this ever happen to you. Nope, I worked from the time I was 14 in various places, Never had to dodge a bullet. I did buy her a taser, I told her it would not stop a bullet, but might give her a minute to run, duck and dive away from the situation, whatever it may be. I also said a nice long prayer, thanking God for bringing my little girl home and protecting her. Anything like this ever happen to you? photo is pixabay
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@snowy22315 (172022)
• United States
27 Mar 22
That is really scary...Very glad your daughter is safe, but sorry for the others.
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
3 Apr 22
yes, it is so sad for the families of the kids involved.
@just4him (310128)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Mar 22
I am so happy she is safe at home. No, this has never happened to me.
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
3 Apr 22
thank you, I think it made me appreciate some of the simple things a little more
@AmbiePam (86277)
• United States
2 Jun 22
Wow, that's tragic. And your poor daughter!
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
7 Jun 22
it got to her for a good bit, she'd walk past that spot and get chills. She seems to be past it now, but I am sure she will never forget.
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@kaylachan (59767)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Mar 22
I've never been that close to a crime like that. However, years ago, when I still worked for Pizza hut, I learned I avoided getting both stabbed and shot by inches. In one case, a couple were having a knife fight in the parking lot of the plazza I worked at, because they had a spat. Another was a shotting that happened minutes after I got in the door at work. My manager at the time, was mad she had to pull one of her drivers off the road because the police needed to talk to him.
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
3 Apr 22
oh my gosh, just goes to show how violent people can be when they get upset.
@RebeccasFarm (87035)
• United States
19 Mar 22
Not this no, but close. My son was living in a nightmare house...long story short, I had to get him out of there..shootings and so on. I am so thankful your daughter survived that. And I am so sorry it must have been terrifying for her and you. She is amazing to keep so calm as well, she deserves a medal!! So do you. What state you in if you don't mind me asking? And RIP to the boy Such a waste of young life.
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
3 Apr 22
Yes, very much a waste. I so wish they would have thought before reacting. What happened to a nice little fist fight behind the building? We are in GA
@RubyHawk (99421)
• Atlanta, Georgia
23 May 22
I’m so sorry, what a horrible experience for your daughter. I’m thankful she’s okay but this experience will stick with her life and those parents of the boy that lost his life. If only these boys had talked to their parents. It could have saved the boys life.
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
25 May 22
Yes, such a sad situation. It turned out to be a live triangle situation. So sad, there are so many fish in the sea, I wish he'd have thought about that first
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@RubyHawk (99421)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 May 22
@mom210 Some kids act before they think, and not only kids.
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
7 Jun 22
@RubyHawk very true
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