What must u do if ur father is a drunker n gambler

i am lucky because my father is not a drunker and gambler, i think you need to talk to him and make him understand what he is doing ....... hating him is not the solution

i am lucky because my father is not a drunker and gambler, i think you need to talk to him and make him understand what he is doing ....... hating him is not the solution

it would be difficult to reverse the roles where the child has now to give the father the advice that he needs.in his sober momments the family would have to delicately tell the man the damage he's doing to the family, the need for him to seek counselling and religious guidance. but its not like in the movies! it can only be soterd out over time and not in one 60 minite series and only thru the patience and understanding of the family and the commitment of the man himself!he needs help. extend it to him

No, it's not good to hate him :) But you can't let him hurm YOU...That's the secret I think...try to do everything you can so that YOU can be happy. Maybe with time he'll realise what he's doing to his familly...until than, try to do what's best for you...good luck!

my father wont do that he is my roalmodel to avoid this drunk and gamble

well try to top him from doing such things any how by taking him to centres for better treatment

Mine father dont have any habbiet like that so no comments ...

ryt i think if my father is drinker traing to change his habbit or giving some medicens to change his habbit or giving sico therophy oe etc.. but did not hate because he is the creator myn ok netty please add me your friend because i am new to mylot i have no friends

no point of hating him some times i do get irritated when he drunk a lot.. but cant hate him.... Gambling no issue im as well a Gambler.

We should not hate him and we should also try to keep him in a good path and make a good being because they gave us birth and kept us in a good behaviour.