Gift For My Dad’s Wife

@AmbiePam (86268)
United States
October 13, 2023 1:20pm CST
I’m not sure why I don’t refer to my dad’s wife as my stepmom. I guess it makes me feel like I’m a kid with a new mommy (which is a ridiculous thought). Anyway, I’m including a picture of what I got Diana (my stepmom; I said it!) for her birthday next month. We all joke when we go somewhere that I always freeze everyone out (I’m hot natured), so when we are in the same car this should help her. Seriously, when we drive the 2 1/2 hours to see my sister and her family, she puts me in the front seat with my dad in case I want to run the air conditioner. She leaves a blanket in the back for her. Bless her heart. Do you think she’ll like it?
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@MarieCoyle (30206)
13 Oct
I think she will love it. She sounds like a loving and considerate ''stepmom'' and that's a good thing, plus your Dad isn't by himself. I am not a stepmom, but I have friends that are, that try so hard to please adult stepchildren. So often, the children rather resent the new stepmom because they miss their birth mother, and wish she was still alive. One of my friends lost her husband about 10 years ago. She waited for over 5 years before she even went on a date. She met a very nice man, her age, who had lost his wife. They fell in love, and planned to marry. He had a son who didn't want him to marry the woman and voiced this to everyone. The would-be husband is fairly well off, and his son spread the word that the woman wanted his Dad's money. Couldn't have been further from the truth, she had an inheritance from her own parents. They ended up making a pre-nup to satisfy the son, they both agreed on that without question. The son is still rude to her. It hurts her very much, she and his Dad include him always, but he is so hateful. It's wonderful that you accept your stepmom and appreciate the person that she is. Not everyone does that. You are a good lady, Amber.
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
13 Oct
Thank you, Marie. It just doesn’t make sense to me why an adult would try to take away the joy their parents have after losing someone they love. Obviously, the parent still wished their loved one was alive, but it can’t be helped. I would hope that guy could have put his dad’s happiness first, but I guess not. Shame on such a petty man.
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@paigea (35974)
• Canada
15 Oct
@MarieCoyle This reminds me of a woman who didn't remarry because of her adult children. Then her children resented how much time she needed from them to help her with various things.
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@MarieCoyle (30206)
14 Oct
@AmbiePam Yes, petty is a good word to describe the behavior. I would think the child, or adult child, would know that the remaining parent needs to be loved and have a companion.
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@much2say (54011)
• Los Angeles, California
14 Oct
I didn't know there was such a thing . . . sounds perfect for someone who loves the warmth! My dad was always freezing . . . we were always looking for various clothing and things that would keep him warm. This is a great find and I'm sure she'll make great use of it .
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
14 Oct
Thanks, I hope so!
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
20 Oct
@much2say Yes, they are rechargeable.
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@much2say (54011)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Oct
@AmbiePam Does this work on batteries?
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@just4him (310128)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Oct
She'll love it. I would be like her, needing to be warm and covered in that blanket with the A/C pouring into the car the way you have it on long drives.
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
14 Oct
It really only bothers her if she’s in the front, and I’m in the backseat. Trying to make someone in the backseat comfortable is harder because the air is being blocked so much. She’d rather me sit in the front than get a headache from being too hot (no one wants a car companion throwing up). Lol
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@just4him (310128)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Oct
@AmbiePam That would be terrible. It's best you sit in front then.
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@JudyEv (328093)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Oct
That's a wonderful idea. I've noticed that you always say 'my dad's wife' but you always speak very kindly of her. She sounds a kind person, taking your needs into consideration like that.
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
14 Oct
She is a very lovely lady. Every bone in her body is a kind one.
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@JudyEv (328093)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Oct
@AmbiePam That's wonderful too that your father has such a lovely companion/wife.
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@LindaOHio (160320)
• United States
14 Oct
I think she'll love it. That's a very thoughtful gift. Have a good weekend.
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
14 Oct
Thank you, Linda.
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@LindaOHio (160320)
• United States
15 Oct
@AmbiePam You're very welcome.
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• Rupert, Idaho
14 Oct
Sounds like a good gift to me. I didn't know they made heated scarves! Maybe I need that, I hate being cold so much lol!
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
14 Oct
Yes, you should give it a try.
• Rupert, Idaho
15 Oct
@AmbiePam well without a working heater going to need something. We are going to buy a standing one soon I think though
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@kareng (56240)
• United States
15 Oct
She will love it! You found the perfect gift for her!! I have been trying to remind myself with the changing weather to put a blanket in the car and truck for our trips here and there. Hubby always freezes me out!
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@snowy22315 (172018)
• United States
13 Oct
I think that is a great gift. Maybe I will get something like that for my mom. It would make a nice Christmas present. Actually, I could get one for my dad too...although he rarely goes anywhere.
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
13 Oct
Your dad might even wear it inside if he is the type to not turn the heat on until absolutely necessary. I have done that before anyway.
@allknowing (130523)
• India
14 Oct
You will not believe this but when I started reading your post where I see you mentioning "Dad's wife" I wondered whey you could not call her your stem mom and there you are talking about it (lol) Now she will replace that blanket with your scarf gift.
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
14 Oct
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@RebeccasFarm (87035)
• United States
13 Oct
Such a sweet lady she is..it is a lovely gift you got her Ambie.
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
13 Oct
Thanks, Oshy.
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• United States
15 Oct
@AmbiePam Welcome Ambie.
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@LadyDuck (461940)
• Switzerland
14 Oct
I am sure she will enjoy your present. My husband always feels cold, he has a blood circulation problem.
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@1creekgirl (40790)
• United States
14 Oct
I think that's a very thoughtful gift...I bet she'll love it.
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• Pakistan
14 Oct
I completely understand where you're coming from regarding the term "stepmom." It's interesting how language can carry certain connotations, and it's wonderful to see your evolving relationship with Diana, or should I say, your stepmom! The thoughtful gift you've chosen for her is a sweet gesture, especially considering how you both deal with temperature differences during car rides. It's clear that you have a caring and considerate bond, and this gift seems like a perfect way to show your appreciation for her. I'm sure she'll absolutely love it! Bless her heart indeed for all the thoughtfulness she's shown. ??
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@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
14 Oct
Thank you. I do want to show her the kindness she has shown me as well.
• Philippines
14 Oct
She seems to be a kind lady. You are considerate and sweet to give her a scarf. I'm sure she'll enjoy it!
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@kaylachan (59747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Oct
It can be hard for anyone to call another woman "mom" regardless of reason. No reason you have to call her step-mom if you don't want to. I am sure she'll appreciate it.
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@Tina30219 (81550)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Oct
Yes I think she will like it you should have went for the electric blanket
@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
14 Oct
She has one, but she doesn’t take it in the car as it has to be plugged in.
@AmbiePam (86268)
• United States
15 Oct
@Tina30219 Oh, that’s great!
@Tina30219 (81550)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Oct
@AmbiePam They have ones that you can plug in in the car my mom has one and loves hers
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
14 Oct
She would surely love it , hoping she'll enjoy her birthday celebration next month.
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@Deepizzaguy (96006)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
13 Oct
I am sure that Diana will enjoy her birthday gift.
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@Kandae11 (53912)
13 Oct
A heated scarf, very nice and convenient.l am sure she will like it.
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@Scrapper88 (5979)
• United States
13 Oct
There is a good chance she will like it. Let us know how she likes the scarf.
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