Are you embarrassed to ask for leftovers in restaurants?

@grenery8 (2695)
Croatia (Hrvatska)
April 26, 2024 4:07pm CST
In some restaurants,in your country,anywhere? I was once with a person who was so embarrassed to ask for leftovers of her own dinner. She finally did, maybe because i encouraged her but i didn't get it why. Yes, i feel here or in early times, asking for leftovers was unimaginable and mainly because no restaurant staff asked you that so it was like unwritten rule to ate it there and to leave. By more growing restaurants of foreign cuisine, not sure if they offered me this option or my mum dared to ask but it was not a big deal after that. i mean, we visited restautants now and then. Also, i think it's not a poor people thing, it shouldn't be.
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@marguicha (215993)
• Chile
26 Apr
I always ask for what food I donĀ“t eat at restaurants. In fact this has become such a common practice that we call it asking for a "Doggy bag" in spite that my language is not English. There is a law in my country that if we leave food in our plate, they cannot give it to someone else, no matter how poor because of health reasons. The restaurant has to throw away the remains. I ask for the rest of my dish because I do as I would do at home: eat my leftovers instead of throwing it to a garbage can.
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Apr
i think the same and i was no, this food shouldn't be in the garbage, rather in my belly
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@marguicha (215993)
• Chile
28 Apr
@grenery8 Exactly. And sometimes they serve so much that I have food for 2 days.
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Apr
@marguicha you are right about that. i got so much rice that i couldn't waste it
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@MarieCoyle (29089)
26 Apr
Here in the US, pretty much everyone I know brings home food if they can't finish it. It costs way too much to leave it sit there.
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@jstory07 (134743)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Apr
That is for sure.
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@MarieCoyle (29089)
26 Apr
@jstory07 So many restaurants serve ridiculously large portions anyway, way more than we need to consume. When I go out with my daughter sometimes, we often share a dinner and each eat a salad with it. We always have more than enough to eat.
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Apr
that is my thinking too. also, it saves me a day or two not cooking or buying things.
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@jstory07 (134743)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Apr
Taking your leftovers is better than throwing them away. Sometimes you might even have another meal out of the left overs.
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Apr
absolutely. i mean, restaurant wasn't that posh or the person who was with me was but i am too common to be bothered by those things i just want to eat
@LadyDuck (459567)
• Switzerland
27 Apr
It is still not the habit here in Switzerland. For sure if you eat at an elegant restaurant you do not ask for leftovers. It would not be proper etiquette at an upscale restaurant.
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@LadyDuck (459567)
• Switzerland
28 Apr
@grenery8 Usually you have not enough in your dish to have leftovers in an upscale restaurant.
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Apr
really? this wasn't that posh but even if it was, i think i couldn't resist in asking or i would think about it. i am mostly bothered by food that ends in garbage. also, very tiny meals in upscale restaurants
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Apr
@LadyDuck you are right. now i know i haven't visited one yet. i need medium size meals
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@Shivram59 (32095)
• India
27 Apr
@greenery8 I have never experienced it.Usually I like to have hot;freshly cooked food.
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@Shivram59 (32095)
• India
28 Apr
@grenery8 At home.I rarely eat at restaurants. My wife and my wife cook my choicest food for me.
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Apr
@Shivram59 having a good lunch at home, i wouldn't go to restaurants either do you cook too?
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Apr
at the restaurant or at home?
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@dya80dya (33764)
26 Apr
I think that we shouldn't be embarrassed because we pay for that food.
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@jstory07 (134743)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Apr
You should be able to take home what you paid for.
@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Apr
me too but if it is a posh restaurant,thst sometimes discourages people to ask or people feel too posh to ask. i know i don't care about these things
@xstitcher (30450)
• Petaluma, California
1 May
It's not a "poor people thing." I've taken home food from restaurants that I didn't eat hundreds of times.
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@grenery8 (2695)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
2 May
i am glad you think like that. maybe i felt like this with this friend only
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