MOTHER IN LAW!!

United States
December 8, 2006 2:51am CST
For everyone who read this i didn't know exactly what i was doing for sure. So here is the whole story. My fiance's Mother is such a nosy person. She lives about 3 blocks from us. She just had to follow her only son. She is always in our damn buisness and it bugs me. She dosen't show equal love for my son..She has 4 other grandchildren. The reason i say this..IS for one..My son is 2yrs old and has not yet attended his birthday..Not his first or second. What kind of grandmother would miss such a wonderful time. She choose her online love buddie for my sons 1st birthday..and her new online dating buddie for his second. I have alway seen her and have been to all the other kids birthdays. I have told her exactly how i feel about it and all she does is turn it around and blame me for not pushing his birthday back enough so that she can attend. She say's that since its too close to the weekend of the fouth of july ..that its an inconvenince to her and her damn plans. I did what i know how to do and pushed her away. She says i kept kaleb away from her for 4 month..Which so isn't true..Im a stay at home mother, I need to seperate myslef from that negativity, and it happens to be that my son is always with me! My fiance's family are so disfunctional, i just cant handle it at times. But it just doesn't end there. My fiances sister is the same way..She too has never attended his birthdays neither. Im starting to think that im the problem. I dont know what to do with this lady..I want to push them all out of my life..I dont want my son knowing that he'll always second best.
1 response
@ru88en (2997)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
I know you can do better than that. You have to develop your confidence and self esteem here. Operate on a positive attitude. Also, being a mother, pay attention to building your kids self confidence and esteem. Learn from the story of Isaac Newton, what made him great is because he has a very supportive mother and believe in him. Do the same for your son and he will be great. Good luck.