Terrible Neighbors, how do you deal with the situation

Trinidad And Tobago
January 23, 2007 9:04pm CST
Have you ever lived in a neighborhood where you had horrible neighbors to deal with, If you have, how do you deal with the situation. I live in a neighborhood, where the neighbors are terrible. I come from a quiet family, we do nothing but ignore these people, they call us names, slander our name etc.... I need someone to give me really good advice. Can any one help ?
2 responses
@domenyag (1273)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
i also have a neighbor whom i really hate sometimes, i hate them because they always come and ask for salt, soap, sugar, lard and etc. they always borrow everything to us. At first i just keep quiet but when i noticed that they come and borrow almost everyday, my anger came out and i talk to them in a nice way. but as what you've said, they are terible. so what i've done is, instead of i will let them borrow anything they want, i do not lend them anymore. sometimes we cannot do anything because they are our neighbors. i do not know how to deal with these kinds of neighbors like yours too.
• Trinidad And Tobago
24 Jan 07
Before my neighbors became so terrible to us, they used to borrow a lot from us. And steal stuff from our yard when we were'nt home also. You and trinidadvalesco, are going through similar experiences like me.
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
We are living with terrible neighbors, too. They gossip a lot about us, we ignore them. They keep on stealing our things and the fruits of our trees, we went to the authorities. But they keep on with their bad acts. Since we really got tired of them already, we just let them do their thing as we do ours - we had our yard fenced now. Why won't you try going to court after having compiled evidences against these neighbors? Go see a lawyer, he might be able to map out for you the proper course of action.
• Trinidad And Tobago
24 Jan 07
Your neighbors, are just like mines, some people are just evil minded. I really am thinking about taking them to court. Thanks