Lying to someone you love

@jessmtiu (251)
Philippines
January 23, 2007 9:07pm CST
Would you ever consider lying to someone you love? I don't have the right answer for this myself personally. I think it is never right to lie to anyone, but if telling the truth makes the other person feel bad, then maybe I would consider just keeping the information to myself and not saying anything anymore in order to avoid making that person feel bad.
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4 responses
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I always did that!...I always lied to my feeling and to someone i love!...I pretend that im not in with her anymore!...I deprived myself in my own happinees!...I always lied to her everytime we text each other!...The reason why i pretend because that girl is the partner of my cousin!...I dont want to hurt thewm both thats why i chose myself to suffer for there happiness!...I dont have any regrets with my decision!...It feels more better because i can see that they're happy with each other!...lolz
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@kirenz (374)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
I pray one day you will be as happy as you struggle for otehrs to be happy. If you are right than you will happy. I duno if you belive in God but If you make his people live better live or you try not to hurt his people than he helps you. you mite not feel it or see it. but it just comes.
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• United States
24 Jan 07
If you lie once, then you lie over and over again. One white lie can lead to a lifetime of lies. Lie's can also kill a marriage. I wouldn't ever intentionally lie to my husband. If your significant other loves you enough he or she will understand. It's kind of hard to explain. When I have to tell my husband something that I know he may not like, of course I apologize before hand but it just seems as if we both understand. There isn't fighting about it and if there are no lies then there is no disappointment.
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• Australia
24 Jan 07
Never lie. If you do you'll find you can't just tell one lie. If you lie then you'll need to lie about the circumstances and lie to cover the lie. Just tell the truth. Your relationship should bne based on honesty. Except a surprise for them.
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
I would never want that anyone, especially my partner or the one I love, would lie to me. I would be hurt. I don't want that in our relationship lies would exist. I prefer that we would both be open and honest to each other. That is how trust is established. And if you or your partner lie to each other just to cover up something, they would still be hurt if they found out. Because i believe that no lie can be kept and that somehow, someday, it will be out there to be discovered. So I suggest that, at all times, you have to be honest a hundred percent to the ones you love.