which is better...

sometimes you will find it tiring to keep on loving someone whom you love more than he loves you. you feel better if you have someone who loves you cause it is much easier to love if he loves you.

I agree with the previous posts. It's better to be in a relationship where both people love the other. But if you had to chose from someone loving you or you loving someone, don't chose either. You won't be truly satisfied in either one. You'll find it a waste of effort and lacking satisfaction if you try to love someone that doesn't love you because more than likely they never will. And to have someone love you (which is nice for a while) will still leave you searching for someone you truly love.

if you want your relationship to last long, well choose the one who loves you more. but if you want to be challenged and really follow your heart, you can choose a relationship with someone you love. BUT, the best relationship is both couples love each other and nothing can beat that.

My simple answer is a relationship with someone who loves you. It could be very tiring if I love someone but the other person does not love me. Therefore, it is easier if someone loves me. Of course, if both are in love - that's a marriage make in heaven. As a married man, I must say that we have to be practical in our expectation and not fantasy on how our spouse will show their love. One important lesson I learned is to give our love generously and we shall receive much more in return.